"can't the future just wait?"
Thread Topic: "can't the future just wait?"
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in better news, worship went well :)
also, 4 days till camp!
f---ing terrified, but yipee :’) -
that’s awesome!! and very exciting :0
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yeah- very anxious about the situation with that one girl-
i hope to god she doesn’t bring her vape, i may actually cry-
and if my mom finds out, idek what’ll happen- and she’s gonna be there volunteering! -
i’m so nervous, dude, like holy s----
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oh yikes :(
that’s not good
and you can’t tell her, like just in case the girl might not or she might get in trouble?? -
yeah, and also the fact that like, last year, she told me to be careful around her and to tell her if smth like this happened, but of course i didn’t tell her because i was too scared to, and so she might think i didn’t tell her because i wanted to protect her or smth, so i- i don’t know what to f---ing do…
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ohhh gotcha
honestly, i think you should tell her and be like, super apologetic abt it, yk?
nd tell her that you were scared
bc like, you don’t really want that girl at camp, right? and maybe it could be for everyone’s benefit? -
i don’t think i would be able to physically do it, though, like- at least not on my own,
i just, don’t want to ruin anything for anyone, or upset anyone… -
hmmm that’s true
did any of your other friends from last year know about this and also feel uncomfortable with it? -
yes, our entire f---ing group. and we were gonna tell our leader, but they kept putting it off then they were like- it’s already been half the week, why ruin it now? bc the girl had become good friends with one of the other girls in our group, and she was a bit reluctant to tell on her, but i- god, i was really pissed in that moment, because i wanted her gone…
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ohhh gotcha
well maybe you should grab one of your friends and tell your mom? and explain why?
because it was very nice of you to think of the girl you didn’t like and not want to ruin her week halfway through -
yeah, i mean, honestly if i do catch her with her vape, i’m telling my leader-
because my mom will find out eventually, anyways- my leader will tell our youth pastor and then they’ll get her sent home, which thank the lord- i refuse to let my last church camp as a student be ruined.
and- pfft- i’m not that nice, i wanted her GONE- really only bc the whole situation was giving me such bad anxiety, like- i cried multiple times a day bc of it, but everyone, by wednesday, was like it’s already been half the week, we’ll just forget abt it. -
also, another situation has occurred to me-
last year at the camp, my group ended up mostly hanging out with my bsf’s group (the guy who i’m currently sobbing my eyes out over- /j) and like, i don’t want to hang out with him bc it’s just gonna hurt me even more?
but i also really do bc i still f---in’ like him, plus i think i’d feel more comfortable with him, especially if that one girl is around. i really want to tell him abt last year, so he knows, but idk. -
hmmmm okay okay i gotcha lol
uhhhh i don’t really know how to help :’)
i wish i could, but i think my only advice is to tell your mom or some other trusted adult -
i know, don’t worry- i’m sure i’ll figure smth out.
and like, what if she doesn’t even bring one? what if i try and make a big deal out of smth that doesn’t even happen and i just make it awkward??
god, i kinda wish i could’ve been in a group with my bsf, i like their group but they’re two grades below me.
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