Vent thread I'll probably forget about
Thread Topic: Vent thread I'll probably forget about
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Wholesome vent time:
My biology teacher: Lucas, you alright? You look like you got ran over by a semi
Me: *staring at wall* I'm fine
Teacher: Did you get sleep?
Me: 10 hours. I'm fine
Teacher: Did you eat lunch?
Me: *dead silent bc this is one of those people you just can't lie to lol* ...does 3 grapes count?
Teacher: *throws granola bar at me* Eat food you dork -
I could've done more. I should've done more.
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I feel sick
I'm beating myself up over something I couldn't control -
Do you wanna talk or nah?
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Idk. I probably need to talk to someone, but idk if you could help lol
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Fair enough. Go talk to someone if you need to
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Yeah, I might
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Ok Lucas calm down calm down calm down she might be ok
She's probably not, but like... There's a chance she's ok. Calm down -
Don't you love it when you feel guilty for not doing anything and then you feel guilty once you try to help because you're probably wrong and just causing more stress and false information
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And obviously any information is better than none, but it just feels shady and wrong telling them information that might not even be true
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I'm so selfish for staying at school, good god-
In what world was that worth it -
Good update that doesn't belong in my usual thread: The girl I was worried about is ok. They found her :)
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I'm tired of being the no named kid in family gatherings.
Everyone else gets a name.
My cousin is starting to notice it too. Like, we'll be hanging out together bc we're friends and when people try to make small talk with us it's always "Oh hi Isa! How are you?" and then when they talk to me it's like "Oh hey KIDDO"
Idk I'm from a big family so being called kiddo by 30 people who before I came out just called me by my deadname really pisses me off (the only exception to this is Uncle Kristen and Joe bc they've called me kiddo since I was born). I get that you're scared of being the first one to call me Lucas, or offending me by calling me my deadname, but just stop. I don't care which one you use at this point. Just stop pretending I don't have a name -
Honestly can't tell if I'd rather have my extended family deadname me or just keep calling me kiddo
I think I'd want them to deadname me instead honestly. Like, I'd get a bit more upset, but at least it's easier and more understandable if I called them out and get upset over it.
Idk people have been really scared of offending me so they just don't talk to me or ignore me instead of deadnaming me and it really frustrates me.
And my mom just goes "Yeah well everyone's really scared of making you angry" and treats it like it's my fault, which i just genuinely don't understand. I get that it's your parents and siblings doing it, so you want to give them grace and stuff, but just stop it. It's not my fault your sisters are too scared to talk to me. I didn't do anything to cause this much of a reaction -
What really sucks is when one of them actually calls me Lucas I feel like I owe them something. Like omg they called me Lucas!
Of course they called you Lucas. That's your name. It's what they should've started doing in the past T H R E E M O N T H S
Ik three months isn't a long time, especially for adjusting to a new name, but idk I feel like most of them could've called me it ONCE. And ik it's not fair to compare others, but my dads side of the family has been doing amazing at it since the first month (granted I'm pretty sure my grandparents were counting the days until I came out lol). If the side that thinks that tRaNsGEndEr ALiEnS EXiSt can do it, I don't see why the other side of my family can't. Maybe that's unfair tho lol
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