Venting Thread
- Locked by Carri04 on Oct 29, '23 9:13pmReason: Sorry you gotta deal with this.
Thread Topic: Venting Thread
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She is addicted to her phone and only cares for her entertainment. She doesn’t even care about her health, as she has malnourished her self and still is. She is in college now and relies on my parents for EVERYTHING. She is not trying to do in school, as she skips basically every class, is failing chemistry, doesn’t try to get a job, literally only eating carbs and still not much of them, NEVER exercises, has almost no muscle mass, refuses to listen to the doctors that she keep having to go to that my family is paying for(the cost of her complications, her entertainment bill, and her not ever even trying to solve the problem REALLY mess up my family’s financial stability, as we feared going bankrupt 2 times). And the most ironic thing about this situation is that, since she is an adult, then my family can EASILY stop paying for her entertainment and medical help that she is not using AT ALL. My parents and sister are so corrupt and they yell their heads off at each other all the time and none of them EVER try to fix the problem.
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She never even TRIES to help us, and all she does is stay in her bed 24/7 and look at that blasted technology that has ruined my family. She is the source of the problem, and my parents and her have to fix this because it is getting EXTREME.
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That sounds like my brother, but instead, he's a thief who is 18 and isn't even in college or has a job. My family fights with him often and he's done pretty bad stuff in the past so I'm surprised he hasn't went to jail yet.
I'm sorry about your sister though, she's probably just those lazy types but I think your family should just let her do things on her own, as in everything. You can't have her being so dependent on your family bc that's not going to help her in life, she's acting like she's still under 18 but she's not and she really needs to provide for herself. You should probably tell your parents that. It'll help your sister grow in life and your sister has to remember that your parents aren't always going to be there to support her forever -
How about we make a deal, you listening?
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Yep, but what deal you wanna make?
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You tell YOUR mom about how you TRULY feel, and I’ll tell mine.
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I'm too scared to really do that though. Whenever I do, she just yells at me to toughen up and tells everybody so I'm kinda scared. And it's not only the stuff I'm going through that's affecting me, it's also overall worry about stuff. Mainly my friends bc they sometimes act su1c1dal and some of them aren't even friends and make me feel in debt but my mom just tells me to forget them but that's hard for me. She's just comes off strong when it comes to feelings but then again, as a kid she didn't get to talk abt her feelings like that either but idk, I'm just kinda scared to tell her...
Especially since most of my problems revolve around her too since she acts @busive sometimes
And I was supposed to be getting a therapist to talk to but idk what happened to that... -
She doesn’t care. I am sorry for you. You make me cry, and I feel guilty. I don’t really know what to say yet again, but just hope things get better.
But also, the only way out of it is to make a bold move.
Imagine it like sticking your toes into a cold pool. You jerk back at first because you are not used to the feeling. But when you keep trying and forcing yourself down, then soon you are swimming and having a fun time.
Sorry if I am making you uncomfortable, and whatever you choose, just know that God protects us all, and whatever happens is only temporary.
Also, a AWESOME book series that you could read is the Millie maven series. I read it and it helped me. I know it won’t FULLY relate to you, but it should relate to how you feel. You might not understand it, but the ending is so awesome. -
If your talking abt yourself, you really don't have to feel guilty or anything. It's my problems so I just have to deal with it, none of it is on you or anything. I do thank you for being here for me even though I can be a big burden but you're always free to leave if I'm ever too much and I'm sorry for that. I understand. I just try to vent out a lot on here because it's my own way of trying to control myself. I do feel better when I talk to nice people like you online but I'm sorry if I ever make you feel any bad way w my venting. You're lowkey such a nice person and I thank you for everything. I may come off a certain way but it's just bc of my stupid mood swings, but I gotta say that you're so kind for even talking to me during my depressed hours. This is kinda just a place where I vent my feelings cause I can't do it anywhere else. I'm trying to find a therapist to get better tho. Fingers crossed if I get one
Ig I haven't been really making bold moves or anything but then again, I'm scared if I make a mistake or ruin a friendship. I'm trying to get courage to speak up for myself tho
And I may actually read that series since I've never heard of it before and need more books to read -
Thanks? I mean, no one ever has said that I’m kind or admitted their mistakes, so thank you?
Also, YOU ARE NOT A BURDEN! YOU ARE AWESOME! -
I do think that part of the problem you are facing is self-inflicted, though. You do keep saying things about yourself which are not true, and you need to relax. If you keep saying ‘oh I had to do this today!’ or, ‘I hate this about my life!”.
You understand what I am saying? Also, I am sorry if I am wrong or disturbing, but you need to think higher of your situation. That is my advice, at least. -
Lol, you're not disturbing lol and it probably is half self-inflicted but I think I might be like that because some people make me feel like I'm horrible so I just think of myself that way and feel that I'm not giving people enough. It's been affecting my health a lot too. Stress and diabetes doesn't go well together I'll say
And thanks for the advice, and you're welcome btw. You really are awesome and I'm trying to admit to my mistakes more and am trying to stay positive. I'll even see if I can talk to a doctor about getting a therapist if I can.
The first few minutes of talking to the therapist may be awkward tho only bc I'm honestly pretty shy lol-- -
That’s aLOLt of LOLS LOL LOL LOL
also, thank you for not being like other people on this site where I say one suggestion and they ask me to leave lol haha
Lol
Oof
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LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL (I'm brain dead and so tired rn so excuse me haha---)
Nah, you don't have to leave. I've noticed that some users are like that on here only bc some people are considered new and cause problems but Idc how long people have been on here. If they are mean, I just don't approach them but if they are nice, then I still don't approach them bc I'm too shy--
It's true tho, you really are cool -
No I’m not, u r
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