Bullying
- Locked due to inactivity on Apr 28, '24 3:54am
Thread Topic: Bullying
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@BoldNotCold
Thank you so much for giving me all this advice, I'm really pleased that you gave six points that me and everyone else can use too help them get through bullies or arguments or even school. Life is hard, I understand that. Most true friends argue a few times, but if you argue all the time or never then there either a fake friend or not a very nice one. Thanks too everyone who is posting on here whether they are giving advice or sharing experiences. :) -
I’m literally tearing up that comment was so sweet I have dealt with fake friends and bully’s basically all my life. This thread has made me more confident in myself than I ever have been. One of my best friends became best friends with my bully knowing he bullied me and witnessed him in the act. Immediately I cut her out of my life. I hope no one ever has to deal with bullying this bad. Is someone bully’s you tell the to (pardon my language) “politely f*** off” it’s none of their business of what you do or whatever they bully you for. And most of the time it’s for a stupid reasons! One time I got bullied because I didn’t give someone I didn’t even know but I gave my best friend wait for it… GUM. Yes you heard me right someone asked me if I had any gum and I said “no” because I didn’t want to give him any because I didn’t know him and my Bestie sat down next to me and asked the same question I gave her a piece and this dude ATTACKED ME he stared saying “I thought you didn’t have gum!” And “stop being so sexist” I told the teacher and he just said “you should have given him a piece of gum if you had it” it was so stupid. But anyone please take this seriously it’s not their business to tell you what you should do. (And please don’t get the wrong idea from this I’m not promoting teen pregnancy) if I’m 15 and I’m pregnant it’s none of their business I’ll do what I want you do what you want. Just remember don’t let anyone tell you “oh you’re just being dramatic.” Or “well, he/she is nice to me so like they can’t not be nice to you.” 5 words. Slap. Them. In. The. Face. (Not really I don’t want to get anyone suspended) sorry this was so wrong just remember you are loved. You are beautiful/ handsome (to all the guys). You are valid. You are enough just as you are.
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Thank you so much @BoldNotCold you are really kind and just helpful and amazing, I'd be lucky too have you as a friend. I promise you don't have too answer as it it a personal subject, but what do you mean by 'If I'm 15 and I'm pregnant, Its none of their buisness' sorry if it's too personal I'm just wondering 😓
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I’m just saying that I can make my own life decisions and they have no say in it or even what happens because of it. I was just using that as an example of how that is none of anyone’s business but mine. My friend (who I won’t call by her real name) her cousin got pregnant but wasn’t married so her family took him in since she was not ready to give up all the things so that she could take care of a baby at such a young age. I wanted to use something that I have seen first hand what it can do to people who are teenagers and have babies at such a young age and how they may be made fun of or bullied because of this. I have no personal experiences with this and just wanted to use it as an example. I’m so lucky to have you as a friend and for you to be so kind and understanding I hope you have a great day.
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Aww thank you so much. No, I'm lucky too have you as a friend. You are so sweet and understanding, it's so hard too find people who are fully nice these days. Thank you for explaining what you meant, I'm sorry if I caused you any pressure or uncomfortableness in asking. If it's not too personal, and again I don't want too pressure you, What country do you live in so I know time zones and that lol! 😊🥰
You don't have too answer if you don't want too. Have a great day. 🥰👍 -
I live in North America in the southern areas but not as far down as Florida (I don’t want to give away the state I live in for personal reasons) just so you know it didn’t make me uncomfortable the only things that make me uncomfortable is people talking about more than one god and how their religion is better than mine because I respect all religions no matter what I may just not say anything about it. I don’t think most people on this thread would say that, but that’s one of the only thing that make me uncomfortable. Have a great day today
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Thank you. That's absolutely fine if you don't won't too give your state away, If I ask anything that you don't want too do, please tell me because I don't want anyone too feel pressured. I don't mind you saying prayers or God bless you and things like this. (Sorry if this sounds rude, I'm not trying too disrespect Christianity, I don't have a religion so I don't really understand what things others do)
But my point is please don't discuss your religion on this thread, just because it may cause arguments because of people's beliefs and ritual's and I want everyone to feel welcome here. I know you haven't been doing that and you have made me feel really happy and welcome because of your kind messages but I'm just asking incase. Sorry if this sounds rude, have a good day. -
It wasn’t rude at all! I know this thread is meant to be an open and welcome space for people to seek advice and help from people who have gone through bullying and know what it’s like! I hope everyone had a great day! I did because I got to skip school! I hope everyone has an amazing summer and hope all of you have great last week of school (if possible)
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Thank you for being so kind and supportive. Unfortunately I've got tests all week though today is the last one, my birthday is next week though so YAY!!, and then I'm going too Wales on a residential trip before half-term. What about you?
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I’m not going anywhere that I know of. I just have a sleepover with my best friends (hopefully) their parents haven’t said yes but still! It’s on the last day of school (May 25th for my school) I’m so excited! Happy birthday! I hope this doesn’t make you uncomfortable but how old will you be? You don’t have to answer if you don’t feel comfortable! I hope you have an amazing birthday and I hope you had a great day!
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Thank you, sorry but I'm not comfortable sharing my exact age online. Have a great day too :)
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That’s fine! I totally get that I said you didn’t have to answer if you didn’t want to! You are a person and are entitled to your rights if you don’t feel comfortable with something that’s up to you!
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Thank you for understanding. Your so kind. :)
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bullys just dont like themselfs i use to be a bully irl
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Daily reminder:
Your skin is not paper, so don't cut it.
Your neck is not a coat, so don't hang it.
Your body is not a book, so don't judge it.
Your heart is not a door, so don't lock it.
Your life is not a movie, so don't end it.
Remember to always love yourself because you're a freakin' star <3
(These are not my words; I'm just spreading this to 2% of the world. Now it's your turn.
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