Bullying
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Thread Topic: Bullying
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Thank you both so much! I hope this is okay but I am going to share my friends story. My friend (who we will call Hope bc this story sad and all gave me hope ppl see what bullying can do) Hope started hanging out with the wrong people and thought that they were sweet and stuff bc at first they were but later on in their friendship they started acting weird and smoking, drinking (mind you they are like 15-16), and doing drugs. Hope refused to do any of those and was being bullied for not doing it because it “wasn’t a big deal”. This happened for so long that Hope tried to commit su¡cide (I didn’t wanna get in trouble with GTG for saying that word so yeah). Her mom, thank god, found her while she was slicing her wrists. Hope is doing a lot better now and is going to Bible study and recently got baptized, welcoming God into her heart, the fact that she even had those thoughts breaks my heart 💔. This is the reason I feel that more than ever I want to get baptized just like Hope. If this isn’t proof that bullying can lead to horrible horrible things to friends like almost losing you best friend a daughter because of this I don’t know what is
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I know. Something that breaks my heart is that somebody commits Su!cide every 40 seconds. Children, Teenagers, Men and Woman. :(
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Omg! I did not know that. That is so sad 😭. I will pray for all the families who go through that 🙏🏼
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I know-It's terrible. It's why I make my family promise that they'll never commit Su!cide because even though they probably won't there's that worry, isn't there? Sorry If I have freaked you guys out. :(
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I am sadly used to this topic. My mom’s best friend from high school committed su!cide. As well as many of mom moms other friends. If anyone is thinking about it please get help don’t end up following through with it because when you do it sometimes you won’t want to anymore but by then it’s already to late. (Sorry if this freaks you out)
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It's fine, but it's terrible for your Mum and all the other families that have too go through that.
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Hello,
Sorry I haven't posted in a while. I normally give out advice but I was wondering if you had any advice for me today. The situation is really childish but I'd be really grateful if anybody has any tips.
One of my Bestfriends, Evie made a new bestfriend this year called Saphira. I didn't really like her but we got on well enough. She isn't a very nice person and whenever she has an argument with someone she always tells her friend group and they gang up on the person. I know how this makes people feel as I've been through it before. Anyway, last Friday Saphira and Evie were being mean to me because I could broken Saphira's highlighter when I didn't even take of the lid. Yes I was going to colour glue on with it but I didn't even get as far as opening the lid without her snatching it back after I told what it was for. After that the situation should of been fine but instead Evie, Ava and Saphira came running up too me in P.E. and started being mean too me about it. So I was like "I didn't even open the highlighter Saphira" and she was saying I know but you almost broke it and stuff like that so I walked away and later asked Evie why she was being mean. She told me that Saphira forced me too but don't tell her before going off too a club that started at two. Before we went home Saphira and Evie were being really chummy and when I tried too talk to Evie about it she just walked away with Saphira so I told Saphira what Evie told me and she lied too my face and both of them started ganging up on me and being mean.
I know this situation is childish but I've already been through enough with my other friend who wrote F*** Darci and Cora on the wall.
Sorry it's stupid but I just wanted too share what was on my mind and of you have any ideas please tell me. Sorry it's so babyish.
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My advice is to confront her. I know it might be hard but in the end if that is something you need to do. Do it. Btw if anyone sees spelling errors it’s because in on a crappy phone because my other one broke (after I dropped it off 20-30 ft bleachers into pebbles) so yeah!
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That's the thing, I did confront her but then they started both being really mean and ganging up on me thanks for the advice though. :/
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If it’s that serious maybe tell a guidance counselor or even a principal but when you report them, do anonymously. If that doesn’t work leave them. They don’t deserve you. You don’t have to be friends with them and even if you want to tell then to stop talking about you.
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Okay, I'll try. Thanks for the advice. But it will be hard because she's been my friend since Reception, lol. Thank you though, your really kind. :) :/
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I hope you find a way to reason with them and I love helping people. I hope they stop bullying you
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Thank you. You have really helped. :)
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Omg! My pleasure I hope you can work this out. Just remember these things:
1.) be the bigger person and don’t respond in a way that could cause more drama they’re not worth it.
2.) love yourself for who you are. You are an amazing person from the inside out and are unique. So even though everyone is unique you are special just like everyone else.
3.) if people won’t stop hurting you whether it is physically or mentally or if they don’t have your best interests at heart, cut them out please again they are not worth you struggling.
4.) the older you get the worse it is. Bullying never stops it just gets worse and worse as you grow older and older so find ways to let yourself let go of all the hurt these horrible people cause you just because they don’t have the best life they want to bring you down.
5.) don’t listen to people who are alway changing their mind on why people are bullying you. One day you are being told “he only bullies you because he likes you” and then the next “he’s bullying you because he doesn’t have a good life at home or something relating to that” either way it’s not okay!
6.) this ain’t the 1900s or something. Stand up for yourself. Stand your ground. Do whatever you have to do because girl power!
(Disclaimer I’m only going to say this once. DONT DATE OR EVEN LIKE PEOPLE WHO BULLY YOU. Thank you 😊)
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