Bullying
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Thread Topic: Bullying
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Thank you :)
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No problem i hope people use that poem as inspiration not for sorrow it has helped me through the pain and hurt to see that I am loved and I will use that poem how God wants me to use it (btw I’m a Christian and sorry if that offends anyone)
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No, not at all. I don't really believe in any religions but It doesn't offend me if others do. I only get annoyed at R.E because some teachers talk about it like everyone is meant to believe it but I believe everyone has a choice. Anyways that's absolutely fine! :)
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Hello! So this post is going to tell you what to say back to the bullies-again this is a many option one.
Firstly, you can jut ignore them! I know this can be very hard sometimes-especially if there is more than one person. If they call you a 'coward' or ask 'why are you not answering' then you can simply retort as "I don't talk to people who bully/mean" or "I will talk to you when you stop being mean" or whatever you want to say.
If this tactic doesn't work or you find it too boring you can do come-backs. Nothing too mean please otherwise you are as bad as the bully. If you are being bullied it may be verbal or physical or even both like I was. I'm not asking you too feel sorry for me but I responded (as I was in year 4 at the time)
by telling the teacher almost every time she hit me. Sometimes this worked while others she caried on hurting me when the teacher was looking-I'm not sure what to do with that but if you guys have any ideas please post them!
Like I said, It's good to tell the teacher all the time when they are physically hurting you but only every now and again if they are verbally bullying you-unless they are being properly mean.
Finally, don't hit or punch or kick. Sometimes when we get angry we have an instinct to hurt the person who has made us angry. I appreciate this and I know sometimes people full-well deserve it but it makes you just as bad.
I hope this helps! :)
If you have any questions, please feel free to ask and I will answer them as best as I can! :) -
If your bully knows you had to (for instance like me) give up doing something you love ,like for me I had to give up horse riding, and they tell you “oh what are you going to do? Run me over with your horse?” After you say things like “please stop talking bad about people” this happened to me and I was still trying to get over losing the one thing that kept me from crawling under a desk and crying at school I know that’s stupid but it’s true. If they know you had to give up something you love and they use it against you don’t do what I did and run into the bathroom and cry where your friends had to come get you from the restroom. Tell a teacher or even say “I don’t appreciate you using what you know I don’t have anymore because I have a medical problem (or what ever you had to give this thing up because) it hurts me on a deeper level and makes me feel useless and just straight up sad so I would appreciate it if you don’t use this against me” or something like that if I had just said this to my bully I probably wouldn’t be this hurt right now. I hope this helps ♥ have a blessed day/night 💛🙏🏼
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I'm so sorry you have to go through this. People are mean when they don't understand things. Because you have scoliosis (I think) then people will tease or bully either because they feel bad about themselves or because you look slightly different to them. I understand how bad it is to loose something, I haven't exactly been through it myself but even if you need extra help to get back on a horse-do it! Scoliosis is a disability but with some training you could be winning the Para-Olympics. I hope this helps. :)
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Thank you so much! I actually feel like with horse back riding I love it because of the horses not for anything else I love doing it because it makes me feel happy I love doing it for fun because that’s what it should be about. My instructor is one of the meanest and my parents didn’t understand that and it just makes me hate it. Every time i see any horse brand I start to feel empty and zone out then I start to cry. But I’ve started to move on, and also live vicariously through my friends who ride it’s one of those things that I don’t talk about much. My life is so hectic and I feel hurt inside but no one can see it because im just hiding behind a wall built on hurt. Im sorry for rambling on
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i never stopped
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Don't worry, your not! This thread is meant for people to talk about their feelings and experiences. Try searching up horse riding for people with scoliosis. They are many champions like Sophie Christiansen and Roxanne Trunnell who are both Para-Olympic horse riding winners. I get it when other people don't understand or you don't want to talk to others about it. I find talking about it online (like on here), writing it down and ripping it up (don't judge) and talking to my pets. It's weird how doing any of these things can make you feel a whole load better. So if you don't want to talk to your parents or friends about it-try the other three if you are comfabtle.
I'm sorry I haven't posted for a while. I had a sleepover and I've been busy. I hope this helps. Have a good day/night :) -
Ty so much! I totally understand the talking to your pets my doggies love it when we just cuddle and I talk to them. When we first got them I told my favorite (don’t judge I love them both but I love this one because she actually listens 😂) a story about Mary in the Bible and she just lay in my lap taking a nap while I told her about Mary! It was the funniest thing ever especially because my brother was in the other room listening lol 💀💔. I will definitely look at those horse organizations! My scoliosis has gotten a lot better so maybe just maybe I can convince my mom into letting me do one!
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I don't judge you at all! I hope your Mum lets you do one. Good Luck, tell me how it goes!!! :)
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Hey guys,
Just a short post today. So, a lot of people struggle to tell others what they are feeling or about situations. If you are comfortable then you could tell a teacher or school UCLA though I've been called a 'snitch' when I've done this before. It's not snitching so don't listen to people who call you that-but I understand it's hard because I stopped telling on others because a few of my friends abandoned me for it but don't worry about that.
If you don't want too talk to someone at school then I suggest parents/guardian or just your friends. If you want to keep the situation to yourself then talk to your pet, or a teddy if you have one. I find this great help, especially my cats and dog when I don't want to share it with anybody else.
Also, feel free to share your experiences online-like on this forum or a blog. It always helps too talk about it with someone or just write it down or say something even if you don't talk about it ever again.
I hope this helps. Feel free to ask any questions and I will try to answer as best as I can. :)
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So this is my short post of updates today
Update 1- I got my period
Update 2- I probably failed a thing to get me to the next year of school
Update 3- my mom said no to the riding program that BiscutBear37 suggested
Update 3- cramping rlly hard as I’m writing this I’m home alone and don’t have anything to help with the cramps
So in conclusion I’m not having a good day
Also my bully screwed himself over by screaming in my ear while I was walking in pain bc of my cramps so I snatched my lunch box off my backpack, knowing it had a book in it, and I was about to start beating him up when my friend dragged me out of there and gave me a talking to on the bus for trying to give him a black eye. So yeah, I hope everyone had a better Friday than I did ima go eat some dark chocolate now bc I am lactose intolerant 😒✌peace out -
Aww, no bless you.
I'm sorry you had such a bad day. With the bully, try too just ignore them-I understand it's really hard though but just try your best! :)
I'm sorry your Mum said no.
Try using a hot-water bottle-It helps with cramps.
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Those cramps suck like hell.
It's normal to be feeling down while on your period, you'll feel better when it's gone away. I'm so sorry you can't do horse riding anymore, maybe you can ask your mum to take you to the doctor and see what they think, or at least try doing something else. I know it sucks to not be able to do something you love, but try something new! Don't let your illness hold you back, because it makes you who you are.
Be friends with the things that make you unique!
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