Dating & Boyfriend/Girlfriend Advice
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Thread Topic: Dating & Boyfriend/Girlfriend Advice
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@Sage
THAT"S EPICC!!! GOOD FOR YOU! IM SO HAPPY FOR YOU!
@Fire
yeah sorry iv been away for a while with school holidays and all, and we had no internet... ok dude, calm down... so you do get to hang with her a bit is my understanding?? that's good, start with friendship and build your way up... earn her trust before telling her... show her that you care about her more than yourself and that you wont hurt her. then, if she gives signs that she would rather to be friends or likes someone else, support her. i know it's harsh but it's true. in your case keep her happy and be her best friend, that's all a girl wants to start off with. she wont try anything near you if she thinks she cant trust you. show her that you want to see her smile every day and never see her sad.
if you want to talk to her, just talk to her. she'd probably be amazed that you have taken notice of her.. if her girlfriends or yours are in the way, just excuse yourself and say you want to talk to her. you have the advantage of sharing a class with her so you can use that as an "excuse" to your friends to talk to her. just say something like "oh hey guys, gimme a sec, i just need to ask _______ about our homework from yesterday" or something like that... it's also a good conversation starter. if she's struggling in the class, offer to help her out, or if you're struggling, see if she needs a hand :D
i hope this helps a bit, and sorry about the have fun comment just thought i'd throw that in there :)
stay magical and may your patronus be every a mockingjay! xoxo -
fire4me2hawk Newbieok 3 days since last post havent been on 3 day off anywayssss some dude said i like her and i got shocked but then i said nahh and he is like *ya right* :D oh well and i get the :D have a good time thing :D
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emovampire1250 Newbieumm..... hi i'm emovampire and so mah crush is japanese/asian like me and he wanted to know if i would go on a date with him i said i'll think about it......i'm thinking of saying no bcuz i know he dosent like me but my friendz say he doez.....PLZ HELP ME!!!!!!!!
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@fire
dont try to be defensive if you dont want ppl to know about how you feel. it makes it blatantly obvious. if you just shrug it off like it doesnt matter then it wont be so obvious to anyone, leaving you more time to work on your game plan.
@emovamp
you may as well go, he could just be putting up a tough exterior for some other reason... and hey, what if you hurt his feellings by saying no, i mean, if he asks why you say no and you tell him the truth when it turns out he really does like you would hurt him. also, if/when you say yes... don't say "as friends" youd be friendzoning him too soon and you may actually regret it later. you're better off just to go out with him and if nothing comes of it, then you say something along the lines of it was fun hanging out, getting to know each other, becoming better friends, etc etc. besides, sometimes your friends know more than you do, they can see things you cant
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emovampire1250 Newbiethx @dragonrider, u sure helped me a lot.... ir u were my friend and in my room, i would totally hug u. U R THE BEST! xoxo-emovampire1250
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emovampire1250 Newbiehey, it's me again... so i talk to him yesterday and he said " hey, ( my name ) i'll probably go on the date with you, as long as Destini don't know, 'kay?" i said " ok, i'll think about it, see ya around, Conner...." i'm starting to think Conner don't like me, cuz' he wantz the date to b a secret.....plz help me anyone, especially @dragonrider cuz' he ( i think he's a "he") helped out last time, and thx again 4 the advice.......xoxo-emovampire
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@emovamp
aww thanks
ok so im sorry to say that you may actually be right on that one. or this Destini is a girl who likes him but he doesnt like her. or is she a girl who spread rumours like windfire? maybe he just doesnt want everyone knowing about the date in case things dont work out. maybe there's been some problem between them. if you dont know the circumstances for sure, try not to be too doubtful. give it a go but the second something gets too suss, just tell him no.
oh and btw,"he" is a "she"... yeah im a girl, i just know a lot about how guys think :D
hope that helps
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@dragonrider ur welcome. Destini doesnt like him, she's my friend and is SUPERZ popular....but his friend said" Conner likez u but he just wantz it a secret." so srry for calling u a boy.. xoxo-emovampire *vamp:)*
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@emovamp
nah it's cool. i can see where you got the idea, with all my intuitive knowledge of guys i must sound like one. or write like one. or whichever. so yeah as with what his friend said, it was probably my 1...2... 3rd option. most likely he wants it below the radar untill you guys know for sure what's coming from this date/relationship
stay magical and may your patronus be every a mockingjay! xoxo -
fire4me2hawk Novicejust checked people got less suspicious and i dont know what to put in i guess i should put oh i just dont know what to put except she likes my company i guess
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@fire
dw about it, if she likes ur company then ur off to a good start. even if she doesnt feel the same way about you, the way you know you really care about her is if you stick with her right through everything and can stay as her friend because that's how she wants it, even though you want it to be more. and btw, how can you check and not make people more suspicious? o.0 -
fire4me2hawk Novice7 days no updates hmmmmmmmmmmmmm oh ok :D any ways i dont no and sorry for the no posts in awhile..............................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................i really dont know...
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MiniG1 Noviceokay, so my girlfriend and i are really good friends but she said she'll maybe move at the end of the school year and it's almost may but i really love her. When we sit together we sit so close that we are almost snuggling. I can't pick the right moment to kiss her because one time she wanted to date me but we didn't know where each other's houses were, so she wanted it at reccess. My other friend won't leave us alone for one day because we're her only friends. but i want to kiss my gf before it's too late! What do I do?! P.S. I'm eleven years old if that changes anything.
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@Mini
kk first off, yes being 11 changes a lot. we have a saying... it doesn't count till yr 9. at the age of 11 you rly dont need to have kissed anyone yet so dont worry about it. srsly, im 16 in two days and have never kissed anyone so dont fret. -
MiniG1 Junior@dragonrider
thanks, but what if she DOES move? i can't imagine life without her!
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