Dating & Boyfriend/Girlfriend Advice
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Thread Topic: Dating & Boyfriend/Girlfriend Advice
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sure @Vira, what's up... @MiniG1, please refrain from offering your nonexistent help to people who genuinely want REAL help. thank you.
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I like a boy in GTQ but he already has a girlfriend. Yesterday, we talked out hearts out but it showed a wrong impression on the other girl. She thought I'm flirting with him and got really mad at me. Now, that boy dumped her and he chose me over her. Now, she accused me of stealing him. What should I do now?
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Realize how dumb it was to steal a guy from his gf.
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Anastasia, I didn't steal him, he came to me.
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@Vira
If what you say is true, then you need to explain to his ex the truth of what happened and that it began on a friends only basis. friends are meant to trust each other and you two obviously do trust each other because you can have a d+m together without any reservations about what you're saying. if she thinks you're flirting because you're trusting him then she is the Jealous type and sooner or later he would have realised what she was. a jealous girl is a turn off for guys, similar to how a somewhat jealous guy is cute to girls. being jealous of your friendship with him has shown that she doesn't trust him. in any relationship there must be trust on both sides, which there doesnt seem to be in their relationship. the fact is that, to be quite blunt, you are a muggle and could not have used a love potion or spell on him. (sorry for the hp references. just trying to diffuse the tension) HE CHOSE YOU. which means that he values your friendship and trust over allaying her jealous nature.
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Thanks, dragonrider.
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woooow. reeal smart. i just wanted to help a little bit to make up for what i did but noooo you just...dragonrider. can we just forget about what i did? im sorry. i came on here because i felt like i should help people who have problems. i guess i was just a little angry because you defied my relationship with Jessika. And she IS my gf. I know this is LOVE because there have been a million other girls that i thought i 'liked' but...i know it was lust now, because the feeling i felt for Jess in October was different. A lot different. It hurt in my chest. It felt strange. I took one look at her and i knew that i loved her. without her, i can't really live. at least i gave her a kiss goodbye before the summer. but back to the subject: i really want to be friends with you, so can we? Im sorry for what i did. so please?
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someone tell dragonrider to come on here and read this PLZ...
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someone tell dragonrider to come on here and read this PLZ...
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@miniG
first off love the dp. and thank you for your kind words. i understand that your first real relationship is tough to come to terms with. i've seen my friends go through it. im sorry that i was harsh in my words. i only meant to say that you can still be a kid and go out with this girl. it doesnt have to make you grow up too fast. i know how it feels to have to live without the one you love. im there mate, im living it. but dont worry. i can help you through that. and id love to be friiends with you. and now just to lighten the mood, friends? pinkie swear? :P
dw, you'll be allright -
pinky swear. :)
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Samalama13 NewbieDude my crush is my best friends brother which in some way is good cause I get to see him but I worried he doesn't like me
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@Samalama
ok this is quite simple. you have to ask yourself how well you know him. im going to take a guess here and say you know him really well. now a few questions, is he younger, older, same age? do you hang out with him a lot? does he just see you as his friend only? is he even looking for a relationship?
working with the info iv got id just have to say you need to spend some time with him, get to know his likes and dislikes. for conversation starters, try taking an interest in stuff he likes, or even if you hate something he likes, have a fun-yet-heated debate about it. if you happen to feel that you know him well enough and the timing is right then go for it! dont hesitate, just tell him!
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ok guys im calling a favour here... so iv got this guy. im pretty good friends with him and i really like him. he got turned down by another girl less than a week ago. we love to joke around and whatnot and i really care about him. even though they know he liked this other girl his friends still tease us saying we should go out. i was wondering if any of you guys could give me a hand? should i tell him how i feel or wait a while? if you need some more info just ask and i'll tell you what i can.
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@DragonRider294: Well, seeing as he just got turned down, you shouldn't tell him how you feel just yet. But seeing as you guys are good friends, then maybe you could suggest going to the movies or something, kinda've like to cheer him up, you know. If I knew more about the situation, I could give more advice, but that's all I can give for now.
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