Dating & Boyfriend/Girlfriend Advice
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Thread Topic: Dating & Boyfriend/Girlfriend Advice
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@mini
ok, seriously. you're 11. this is most likely not love, but lust. you want a girlfriend because you think it is cool and they all do it in books and movies... Katniss Everdeen would never have dated anyone had she had the choice! and really, i'm pretty sure that ur dating is more like a heightened version of being best friends. yes you will miss her but you can still talk to her. if you really cared about her, her moving away wouldnt be a problem for you at all. you'd just make a joke about it and always keep in touch. -
MiniG1 Junior@dragonrider
yeah, that helped. thanks a lot.
(sarcasm)
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@dragonrider
by the way...in your face! i got the kiss! im eleven i got my first kiss but you're like 14 and you haven't! but trust me, it's like nothing you've ever imagined. because ive fantasized about this and dreamed about this but the real thing was still a million times better. -
savvysagelove NoviceWill i dont have a boyfriend so just love him the way he is and who cares about what other people say.
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I have serious boy trouble! My friends call me a player, because I have a crush on so many guys! I have gotten over like 3 guys, but I still like 2! One of them has a girlfriend but he is really flirty, and the other one is single but really flirty too. He sits in front of me in class while the other one sits beside me. I don't know who to go for. The one in the relationship, or the single one?
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how about some details, purplecherries? what do they look like and act like around you?
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ok @mini... who cares? that's really great for you! an achievement but you dont have to be so overbearing about it. that's why i said it didnt matter if you got it. good for you if u've been fantasising about it and it happened. it's happened and it's over. life's not always like that. you are too concerned with this stuff at too young an age. you can still like and go out with people but dont overprioritise it. friends matter too, and so does respect.
@Purple
it's ok to like a couple guys at once. usually it's because they each have something that you fancy. the one with a girlfriend sound a lot like my best mate. remember just to hang out with them and be their friend when things go wrong (not just if their relationship turns sour). the second guy however is available which obviously has you stamped all over him. talk to him a bit in class, get to know him, make a couple of hinted advancements. but if something happens and he happens to like someone else or just isnt interested in you, dont freak out and hate him. stay his friend and always be there for him, be the best mate he ever had. if you work up the courage to tell him, just say it and dont hold back. tell him and tell him straight. guys hate the hints and mind tricks but hinted advances are okay depending on what these advancement are...
got any more details? :)
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i just came to say i agree dragon raider, i mean wanting a bf cause everyone has one, or you would be called a loser if you dont that just shows you don't have your own individual personality. So what if you had your first kiss when your 11 actuall noone gives a f--- if you did really, it doesnt mean anything so rider is 14 and hasn't kissed anyone yet i'm 15 and i haven't, so many of my friends haven't it just doesn't matter you are just a lightie who doesn't seem to know anything but maybe doing those things will help u learn of ur mistakes
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actually, Rider is 16 but who's counting and thank you @angelic... no-one cares about it if ur 11! you truly are an insightful person @angelic!
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prepreater Newbieif he really loves u then he will remember u and if u want to patch up with a gf just cll me i have a talent of patching u a couple so call me if u want
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@dragonrider
ok, youre acting like im 5 and i think it's "cool" to have a girlfriend. ill tell you something, i was depressed at that time, and then i met her. after a FEW MONTHS, i realized i liked her, and SHE TOLD ME SHE LIKED ME BACK. SHE WAS THE ONE THAT KISSED ME! if you just saw me at school, youd understand! you b****! -
fire4me2hawk NoviceOK NEW PROBLEMO the one i liked dumped me -.- and no ANOTHER SAID SHE LIKES ME......Im stuk you got till monday to solve this please...........
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@fire
ok ok calm down. so another girl likes you and you got dumped by the one you liked? well, first things first, why did she break up with you? If you can find out why then try to make it up to her and patch things up with her. this other girl. dont lead her on. if you have no feelings whatsoever towards her, then please for the love of Dumbledore let her down gently. i cannot stress that enough. if you do have feelings for her but feel bad because you've only just broken up with someone, tell her that you need just a bit of time before you can get back in the water. the general social rule is that when you break up with someone (i mean bf/gf in high school) you should wait two or so months before dating again. however, if in fact you were the one dumped and not dumping, this rule can be flexible and shortened somewhat. any more details that could be useful would be much appreciated.
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fire4me2hawk NoviceA:she said in to ugly T.T
B:to smart
C:uncool
D:too nice
E:she found someone better
and thats just a wow.my friends dont think thats her style thu.....or she just used me..
And Dragon thats just mean for you to think im that mean!this other girl. dont lead her on. if you have no feelings whatsoever towards her, then please for the love of Dumbledore let her down gentlyfrom dragon...anways no im not that mean i wouldve done that but yea im all mixed up makes me go a bit crazy im being riped a part something like that... also i got till monday and its sunday already -
@fire
ok about my comment, i just put it in as a "to be sure iv covered all bases" thing
and this girl, she doesnt appreciate YOU for YOU. she just appreciated the fact that you like her and that's enough for some girls. she is more in love with the idea of being in love, rather than actually concentrating on what she has in front of her. which is an amazing guy who would do anything to make her happy :)
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