Dating & Boyfriend/Girlfriend Advice
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Thread Topic: Dating & Boyfriend/Girlfriend Advice
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DragonRider294 Experiencedhi, ok so i have this guy i like. iv liked him for a few years and we have some classes together. he's really good looking but the quiet type, so i dont get him to talk much. also his friends are in our classes to. his friend always tells me that he (the guy i like) likes me and asks if i still like him. his friend always makes fun of me cos its sort of obvious thati like him but i dunno if he likes me back. i used to chat with him on facebook sometimes but one day he just stopped... i rly dont think he likes me but i was wondering if you guys have any info???
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bunnirox1686 NewbieTess-Thanks! I couldn't reply yesterday, because I was so busy with setting up the party, partying, and cleaning up the party. I didn't hug him, but yeah, he's okay with me having guy friends. He was the first one to come yesterday, and he got me a bunch of purple and white flowers, with one pink rose in the middle. The whole gang (seriously, we're like an actual chain gang, but we don't ride around on motorcycles terrorizing people) got me this really pretty charm bracelet, with one charmm from each of them. The one from my boyfriend was a ROSE! Your situation? I guess it could be a little of both. Don't embarrass yourself by asking him out early. Wait awhile. I think it's possible he likes you, he's just shy of letting it out. Try and get a friend to ask him if he likes you, but only get your BFF to.
Kierra_LOVE-Hi! IF he comes, start at friends. As soon as you are BFFs, have a friend ask him if he likes you. Trust me, this method almost always works!
DragonRider294-Same as Kierra_LOVE, but seriously, REALLY try to get him to talk to you. Maybe invite him to sit with you at lunch and stuff. Never take it too quickly, though.
Never in a million years did I ever think I would be giving out dating advice on a quizzing site's forum. -
Its impossible to have more than guy friends!!! it seems like every guy i've likeed considers me as nothing more than "one of the guys" its so frustrating because i have such a hard time getting a relationship. Am i doing something wrong?
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okay thanks. :) I'm glad you had a nice party and a nice gift. :) I a ton of people have asked him before. :/
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*I'll ask my best friend, but a ton
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DragonRider294 Experienced@nightblaze
that's generally my problem as well -
bunnirox1686 Newbienightblaze & DragonRider294-Tough. Try waiting for them to make the first move, it could work. Or, try letting your feelings known to him. And try staying slightly more distant than you are now. Not saying you should avoid boys altogether, just don't get too close. (As friends) My point:They might not want to ruin/make the friendship awkward by asking you out. Get it?
Tess-OMFG HOLY F---ING S--T MY BOYFRIEND ACTUALLY PUT HIS ARM AROUND ME TODAY!!!! I WAS ALL NERVOUS ABOUT SOMETHING AND HE WAS LIKE "DON'T WORRY. JUST DO YOUR BEST!" AND STUFF. AND I FREAKED OUT AND PROBABLY BLEW IT BUT HE WAS DOING THAT IN PUBLIC! -
@bun Awww that's cute. :3 How old are you?
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bunnirox1686 NewbieTess-14. Hey, I just noticed, you joined GTQ on my little sister's birthday last year. Funny story-she was on a half day, so she went with my mom to pick me up from my middle school, and then she met my boyfriend. She acted all crazy (like she usually does) and I guess it creeped him out, because he seems either spooked or shocked whenever I mention her to him. Long story short, I think he's scared of my little sister. Haha! By the way, how's it going with you and your crush?
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@Bun That's adorabl. :3 Tell her jokingly, "Hey, I like this kid, so don't scare him off >:)"
Haven't talked to him lately. He seemed a little annoyed last time I spoke to him. He stares at me A LOT though. Me and a few of my friends have noticed. -
bunnirox1686 NewbieTess-LOL! Why do you think he was annoyed? Space out when you talk to him, maybe he was getting a little tired of talking to you, or he was busy, or he was just having a bad day.
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tori109 NoviceHey I'm tori109! You commented on my forum, does he like me or is he just being friendly. I was wondering if you can leave me more advice? At the forum, thanks :-)
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@Bun I don't space out and I just don't know.
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bunnirox1686 NewbieTess-Um, no, by space out I meant don't talk to him all that often.
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k well, a little success story here... a guy i've liked for a few years and who im really close with. i told him last night that i liked him. he didnt explode and he didnt go all quiet on me... he was very supportive (see he's got this girlfriend in the grade above us but they arent very natural together and dont coordinate well). he supported me and we talked. im not going out with him right now but we have more trust in each other than ever.
girls, a bit of advice... steel yourself and just say it. guys get a little sick of you dancing around the edges and giving off little hints. just be his friend, be whatever he needs and then you tell him. he may not like you the same way but if he's decent, he'll support you.
take care, stay magical and may your patronus be ever a mockingjay :)
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