Dating & Boyfriend/Girlfriend Advice
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Thread Topic: Dating & Boyfriend/Girlfriend Advice
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@Bun Ah. I tried that before. He'll randomly start talking to me or drag me into a conversation. Recently we were at our lockers and he just said, "Right Teresa? :D" I wasn't in the convo. And another time I tried ignoring him for a while and he thought I was mad at him and talked to me more.
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bunnirox1686 NewbieDragonRider294-Congratulations! I'm so proud of you! Hmm, wonder what my patronus would be? And YES, I do read Harry Potter. LUV IT, just finished Book 4 actually.
Tess-Weird. On this same thread, bottom of page 2, look at DragonRider294's comment. Really helpful advice, I'll say. -
@Bun I saw that. I want to tell him, but I'm afraid of rejection. Plus I'm only in middle school, so if he did say yes, where would we go from there?
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@teresa22
r u guys sort of close friends? if so, just tell him! you'll feel a million times lighter for it and he'll probably like you back. even if he doesnt like you that way he'll probs do what my guy did and be honoured that your trusted him enough to tell him and it will strengthen your trust even more. you may stay friends but that's better than losing him forever.
on the fact that ur in middle school (obviously meaning ur in america) things may be slighty different where u are but us kids in Aus say "nothing counts before yr nine" so for you guys that's roughly freshman year. i recommend telling him and if he wants to date u then do that but keep it basic till ur in high school. of he doesn't but still wants to be ur friend, just leave it be and be everything he needs (a best friend, a confidant, a person to help him when he's down). being this and more is better than never speaking to each other again. if you show that you put his feelings above your own, he may realise that you are a keeper and may warm up to the idea of you guys dating. it doesnt all have to happen at once.
i'll keep an eye on this page in case anything changes.
saty magical and may your patronus be every a mockingjay! xoxo -
@Dragon Thanks for the advise, but at my school everything gets around, I don't like saying these types of things in front of other people, and it won't be forgotten. Not many guys will be accepting and easy to the idea.
I don't read the hunger games and obsessers push the thought of wanting to read it further back. -
@teresa
i didnt even tell him in person, it just sort of came out on a skype chat... then at least it's a little more private... but dw, you need to do what you feel is best and what you're comfortable with :D -
@Dragon Ah, well he usually doesn't answer texts, so that's out. And neither of us have a facebook.
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and no skype??? thats how i did it... or just go for a walk with him one day after school :)
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@Dragon Damn. None of this works for me! D: He has no skype and I have track after school. He stays after a lot, but if we're together in the lobby, others are there.
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@teresa
crapp! we need to figure something out for u guys... r u having a birthday party??? if so, invite him and tell him there. just ask him to help u get some more bottles of soft drink and stuff and when ur away from everyone, just ask! :) -
@Dragon No parties! D: My parents don't let me. Even if I did have a party it would have to be a small one, measning my closest friends. Meaning him and my 3 besties. Then my dad would probably get pariniod.
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haha... well then, im not too sure what to tell u. u really just need to make some time to tell him or u can never tell him and wonder what might have happened :l
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@Dragon I know. :/
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fire4me2hawk Newbieummmm is this thread for boys too cause i need advice(i just got the nerves to ask and i was like no yes no yes :/)
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nice!! a guys perspective :D kk @fire, do you agree that guys prefer it if girls are just straight out about their feelings or if you prefer the hints and all that crap... if ur unsure about how to ask a girl, get a girl u know really well and trust (one of her friends if possible) and practice on them if u need to. dont try to think of extreme outcomes (i.e. we will either end up going out or will lose our friendship forever) because it's not always like that, sometimes it's simply flattering and makes no difference to the friendship. and this is definitely a good thread for guys because you can get a girls point of view :)
stay magical and may your patronus be every a mockingjay! xoxo
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