Another Venting Thing
Thread Topic: Another Venting Thing
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In lower school, you really can’t tell who’s gonna be a good student. Towards the end of seventh grade and all throughout eighth, you realize who prioritizes education over popularity and stuff.
In my opinion, education should always come first. But it doesn’t mean that you can’t have friends. In Texas, I was friends with people who were both of those things. They were cool and fun, but also cared a lot about their grades and schoolwork. It’s really important to find people who actually give a s--- about their future.
One big difference between Texas and Maryland is that in Texas, people didn’t choose between popularity and education. Here, you’ve gotta choose one of them and stick with it. -
I hate pick me girls
With all of my heart -
They don’t listen, they don’t accept criticism
They only realize they were a pick me AFTER they stop being a pick me -
Never have I ever been accused of stealing someone’s guy. Not until today, and it’s bulls---. I got called a fake b----, got wrapped into drama that shouldn’t even involve me.
First of all, friends exist. Just because I’m friends with a guy, doesn’t mean that we have any intention of being more than that. She texted me and called me a fake b----, for something that I didn’t do.
Alright, so apparently it’s because she thinks that some guy she likes, actually likes me instead. BULLs---. We’re allowed to hang out with each other, we can make jokes, all that s---. But it’s not at all my fault if he starts to like me more than a friend. I’m allowed to have friends, and so is he.
She’s a possessive b----, and it’s not fair to me
or him -
Apparently I said some s--- like “I bark for baseball boys”
AS A f---ING JOKE, and she gets all worked up abt it -
I’m not hitting on anyone
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Called me a slut wow 💀
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Idc, you can’t talk to unreasonable people
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Calling me out for “not having a life”
That’s not f---ing relevant, even if it were true.
She won’t accept my answer of,
“I’m not trying to do anything. I’m not trying to hurt anyone, and I’m sorry if I did.” -
I’m done, I have her my final word. I’m done, I’m not gonna listen to her call me a slut, I’m not gonna listen to her being possessive.
She clearly had a problem, because she sent this exact f---ing message:
“You’re a slut, stop going after what’s mine”
I don’t give a s---, I’m sorry. This is cracking me up -
Honestly poor guy, they’re not even together and she’s claimed him or something?
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My stomach hurts still.
Anyways
I know that I wasn’t trying to get with him or anything. I have my own life, and I’m not trying to get in a relationship with a guy that I wouldn’t even want to be in a relationship with. I’m not being obnoxious here, but I know that I don’t deserve to be called a slut. Or a b----, or even deserve being blamed of the things that she’s accusing me for.
She’s telling me that she “knows what’s under my innocent act” and that it’s “not fooling her”.
Okay, b----. What if people are just trying to be good people? The world isn’t evil, it’s not against you, it’s not all about you. I’m never purposefully mean. I don’t hurt people because I want to. I have f---ing morals, and people know that.
But, you know, everyone says that you’re a good person until they get mad at you- and start claiming that it’s all fake.
Let me say something.
After certain experiences, I know that I need to be a good person. I shouldn’t cheat, hurt people, be rude, be disrespectful, be disgusting. I know that I’m just a teen, but I’ve matured enough to know that the answer to every problem is to be patient and kind.
I don’t charge at people and scream at them because I think that they’re trying to hurt me. Anyone who has gotten into drama with me knows that I don’t try to hurt people. I try to be patient and talk things out, to see both sides of the fight. I don’t get involved unless I feel like a need to. I’m not violent, I’m not unreasonable.
I know that while I’m not one-hundred percent perfect, I have grown and matured. Calling me out for being a b----, a slut, a disgusting person- is unreasonable. And I know it. I am not trying to deflect the blame, because I know that it should not be there in the first place. I know what kind of person I am. And I am not the type to hurt my friends, try to make people jealous, flirt with people.
I’m not the best person ever, but my experiences have shaped me into a much more mature and patient person. I’m not going to let a hateful person say that it’s not true. -
And I know that I have to be a good person, because not everyone is. If I have the choice to be kind, I’ll always take it.
It’s the way that my parents have raised me. They’re bringing me up with morals and values. They’re good f---ing doctors for Pete’s sake. They treat people with kindness and I really want to be like them.
I know that the second I let myself become a hateful and angry person- is the moment that I really let the people are me down.
I am not a mean person, I’m not hateful. It’s the way that I’ve been brought up, and the way that I still am being brought up.
No one can tell me that I’m not at least trying to be a good person. And everyone who knows me understands that. -
And I guess I’m really damn sorry that her “boyfriend” is attracted to nice people
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It’s also upsetting that I can’t even speak to a guy without some angry raging girl coming at me. Joking isn’t flirting.
I can’t prove anything to her. I know that saying “I wasn’t flirting” isn’t enough. If she can’t draw the line between joking and flirting, then it is absolutely not my problem. I’ve told her the truth, she just needs to calm down and realize that I’m not trying to hurt her.
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