Dear Friends And Other Users,
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Thread Topic: Dear Friends And Other Users,
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A lot of you are fighting depression, anger, or just the trials of everyday life. I would like to encourage each one of you and try and help in these next few paragraphs.
Don't try so hard to be in everyone's good graces. Some people are going to hate you and or despise you for there own personal reasons. If someone tells you that you aren't good enough to hang out the and be there friend then to hell with them! Believe me I know, I spent my entire childhood trying to become the friend of one person who honestly didn't give a crap about me. I went through some tough depression before I final realized that I was still going to be friendly to her, but I was never going to be her friend. My point and advise in all this is this; don't keep pushing for that relationship or stanza with that person who you really know deep down will never be your friend because they are to selfish or to prideful.
Listen to others. Most of the time people really want to help you and give you good advise. Don't turn them down or turn your back, accept the correction and chastining of others, learn from them because the odds are they went through the exact thing you did!
Don't dwell on the past. The past is in the past everyone. Your life now isn't controlled by the man you were, it is who you were made through your past mistakes. You make mistakes so you can learn from them, don't spend your entire life dwelling on them, instead learn from them. Strive to be a better man tomorrow than you were today.
Don't let negative people get to you. I am going to use a electric field example for this one. Two negative or positive fields repel each other, but a positive field is attracted to a negative field. The same is for real life, two negative or possitive people repel each other but two opposite fields are attracted to each other. This is something to think about.
Don't hate yourself. You are not a horrible person. Saying that ____ is a horrible person is like saying that the tree is a bad tree because it fell over. The tree fell over because there were beetles eating it away. The same is for each one of you. You personally, are not a horrible person, it is the sinful tendencys we all face that make us less than perfect.
You are loved. I swear on my life that each one of you is loved and wanted. Never ever think even for a moment that you are not wanted or not loved. Never ever let anyone tell you that you aren't loved. I don't care if you have the worse freaking background or atmosphere at home, you are loved and you know it. Just because the people who you want to love you don't seem to love you dosn't mean they don't.
You are never unable to get your life back on track. Even if you really think you blew your chance at a good, successful life doesn't mean you did. It doesn't matter if you are a high school dropout, a drugattic, adummy, a person who is so depressed that they think there is no hope for them, nothing. You will never reach the point were you can't get your life back on track. You are not indefinitely bound to your past.
You are unique. You are special and unique, even if you have a identical twin or a clich personality, you are the most unique person in the world just the way you are. Don't fall into the same pit I did, thinking that I was just another pawn in life's stratigic game of chess. You are all queens, able to move, and do what you please.
You are beautiful. Even if you are crippled or have a birth mark on the side of your face. Freckles or scars, red hair or black, you are thee most beautiful person in the world just the way you are. No makeup attached.
Don't blame yourself for others dismay. Don't beat yourself up because someone moved away or was accidentally hurt. Things happen in life for a reason, even if you don't know what that reason is yet.
Don't think for even a moment that what I am saying isn't true or doesn't apply to you. It does and I bet my life on it for each one of you.
You are amazing. You are sweet, cool, spunky, funny, crazy, ambitious, generous, strong willed, powerful, beautiful, and in final, you. -
That is a nice post :)
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Thank you ember.
I need to keep it bumped so everyone can see it. -
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I had a bad past myself, you have no idea how much this boosted my self esteem. -
I'm never gonna read all that.
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This actually made me smile. Thanks for the support and encouragement. c:
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I immediately left when I seen it was over 10 words long.
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Well as long as this helped even one person then it was worth it,
I am really glad it is able to encourage you. -
scarletforever NoviceNot everyone will agree with what you said, but it is a beautiful thing to say.
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It helped me Wendee :)
The dude is a rude dude -
That was a great post.
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Thanks for making me be able to smile.
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It made me feel alot better about myself! I have been down all day because people were calling me annoying and I should go die or something.
I am so happy now! And this made me cry, but everything does :)
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