I'm disgusted.
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Thread Topic: I'm disgusted.
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For the usual reasons.
To see my friend here at my house, breaking down because her parents are divorcing. Now that her parents are divorcing, her parents are moving. One to Oregon, another back to El Salvador. Basically, she's really upset that they're divorcing and that she's leaving me.
What disgusts me is what she's telling me. She says her parents always brought her up into arguments and that they always accused her of being the problem of everything. She's a sweet girl. Her parents disgust me. They remind me of my parents before I snapped at them both.
They call me a bad influence, too, because since the parents are both from El Salvador, naturally they don't like me because I'm from Mexico. They accuse me of stupid things and try to keep me away from the girl because "Her kind is a horrible kind."
It's sad too, because I'm her only friend. She's so quiet and everything, so people don't notice her. But she's the kindest and most talented person you'd ever meet in the area. She's really so sweet, I wish people would get the time to notice that. Including her parents. All they do is make her do the s--- they're supposed to do, and they accuse her of being a disgrace because she can't make friends with anyone but "an uneducated brat".
This has been going on for the past while but she's been strong around me. She continued on, all the time, as though nothing was wrong. But she came over today and cried. Right now she's taking a nap (on meh bed too, I couldn't make her sleep on the couch), but the second she wakes up, I assure you she's going to cry again because she doesn't want to move away.
I wish people like her parents would get to know a person before they accuse them of s---. First, their daughter. Especially her. She's beautiful and wonderful, I don't know what they could ever dislike about this girl. Second, the people around them. They can go around hating me, but they should learn that not everyone is what they're thought to be.
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That is truly f---ing terrible. How do people think themselves fit to be parents when they don't love their own child? It disgusts me. I feel terribleness for your friend. She can be the nicest girl to everyone, and she still gets treated that way.
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*terrible not terribleness
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holy f---ing s--- I feel you on the bad influence thing
and everything else is just f---ing horrible/ Jesus f---ing Christ I don't even know how to--ugh. -
That's disgusting. Her parents are total nitwits. I mean, first not being there and being true parents to their daughter, whom I feel like giving an effing hug right now even though we've never met, and to judge you just because of your race and not your character. They are unfit to even call themselves parents.
It just proves to me they have so much hate in their hearts that stops them from anything else. They hate each other, hate their daughter and her friends, I wouldn't be surprised if they hated everything. They need to stop being so selfish and think of how they're affecting the person they're supposed to protect and love.
As far as you friend goes, she's in my prayers and heart. I hope somehow, things get better soon. She's lucky to have such a good friend as you, and I hate how even that's going to get ripped away from her. I know I bring this up a lot in situations like these, but it reminds me of what my mother went through. Just let her know that there really is light at the end of the tunnel and that she, in her specialness, will someday get to live her life the way she wants and be happy. I'm sorry, Arisu. :'| -
@Sisi Right? These type of people should grow up before they become parents. I can't stand these people, really I can't.
I feel that way for her too. It's always the great people that get treated this way..
@Ting That's really exactly how I reacted at first. I was so pissed off I couldn't even find what to say.
@Ana Isn't it? They're bad people, obviously they're not mature enough for having a child. I would understand if they're racist, but this.. This is just something I won't tolerate. Poor girl has these stupid excuses for parents.
They do hate a lot, really they do. They can't even keep it together for their own daughter. They can't even LOVE their child. It's ridiculous.
I'll tell her you've said that, poor thing needs condolences from others because apparently her parents can't do what they're supposed to do. And I'm just doing the least I can do for her, but it's a lot to her because she has nothing else in this world. I hate that thought, that she's going to be even worse because I can't be with her.
I'm sorry to hear that your mother had to go through, really I am. But she's living proof that someone can get through tough situations.
I'll tell her that. Maybe it can lift he spirits a bit. And it's okay really, I'm just uber pissed at her parents, I'm sure somehow it'll be alright. -
Yeah ;3; She reminds me so much of the song 'Fully Alive' by Flyleaf. If I wasn't so damned far away I'd be able to help more, but really hope things get better soon. Will she at least be able to keep in contact with you?
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@Ana Never head of the song, but I'll check it out. And it's alright really, just praying for her will bring us some help.
That's the problem, I don't know. If she goes to El Salvador- which is very likely- she won't have any type of internet since it's a poor country over there. x| -
I'm sorry. I could never imagine being in her position. Tell her I wish the best for her.
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