I'm very mad right now.
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Thread Topic: I'm very mad right now.
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Theres a friend of mine (i don't care if she's reading this, y'all know who you are.)
Whom keeps running away from her problems. Making up excuses and hiding from certain teachers. Saying she left school to go home or saying she called her mum about certain things and saying she HAS talked to these teachers when she hasn't.
On top of that, she's constantly lying. She avoids teachers when her mum emails them or they email her about something bad that happens (and then skip those classes then she tells me she had PERMISSION TO SKIP when she hasn't) but overall I'm really worried about her grades and wellbeing.
When I try to confront her about stuff she rolls her eyes at me and ignores me and goes all hostile. Makes me wonder how much she cares about me even though she claims she would die for me. I want to help her, I do, but she refuses help.
She won't confront teachers about stuff either. She was supposed to be at our First Aid testing but she skipped the class because she wanted to go to the 'wednesday class' instead and she wanted to do something else.
the first aid teacher (gym teacher) told me her parents emailed her, and thats when I realized that was the reason why she didn't show up. I'm actually worried now. She's skipping classes and s--- to avoid getting into trouble, which might prove to be good for her.
That's what woke ME up. I decided to stop skipping classes today (not that I skipped a lot anyways) because of how cowardly it was.
Still..it's not about me, I'm just worried about my friend. I'm not sure how much I can trust her because she won't talk to me or tell me the truth sometimes.
We're actually tempted to speak to her mom and ask her some questions. -
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DX Sucks to hear about your friend,I can't think of much to say that'll help you,though XP sorry :/
Maybe you should try to figure out whats up with that or something,like,yeah try talking to people that know her really well and maybe they could give you some info that'll help out. -
carri, you might wanna just leave her alone if she is acting like that towards you, maybe you should ignore her, she needs to get herself together, if I was you, I would just abandon her, she isn't being a good friend to you, and she is being stubborn, but if you want, you could keep trying, she might decide to stop skipping classes, and she should stop avoiding her troubles, tell her it would only get worse
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I.. Don't really know what to say. I think you should just speak with the mother. :/
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But I'm not the type to abandon friendships so easily, I want to try to continue this relationship, it would suck to see it die so early, if I ignore her, she'd think I'd hate her and I don't want that.
Thanks for your input guys, keep it coming...if anyone has more to say. -
I dont know :/ maybe say something to her about what you think she should be doing, but say it nicely otherwise she'll probably tell you that it's none of your business.. like maybe just tell her that your concerned
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ok, your welcome X hugs carri X I hope she stops causing trouble for everyone
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just tell her straight up that you dont apericate the constat lies about whats going on and that she's not helping anyone by skipping and that she's actually hurting herself in the process. or tell her what ever you think, i just based that off of what you say in the above paragraph XD
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Thats quite sad.. D:
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I know x.x
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