hudson me boy
Thread Topic: hudson me boy
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it makes me so sad to see that people don't know they're worth every penny
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i try to support them but every time i do, they turn a blind spot to it and continue driving through a blizzard
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three people. i hope they know people love them and care for them. they don't have to be alone
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nobody gets better all at once. that's the bittersweetness of life. there are faults, and there's joy. the most taxing part about it is that you have to go through the faults to get to the joy
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leonardo de vinci didn't become leonardo de vinci after he drew one portrait. it was repetitive and vigorous efforts that got him to where he's famed
the same goes for any other skill or any other struggle. obstacles lead to rewards -
i just hate people being so hateful toward themselves. i understand life gets very difficult sometimes but you have people that care. you have people you can talk to that can help you get through whatever you're going through
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there needs to be less hate in this world
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yeah but hating yourself isn't something you can switch off. the best approach is to show them you care instead of just saying it and yelling at them for insecurities. this is NOT an attack. it is an opinion from a different point of view.
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hi, don't mean to barge in, but I will agree with Uzi on this one.. self-confidence issues stem from anxiety, depression, sometimes even trauma (sometimes from other things), and that's not really something you can "turn off" just because other people care about you.
telling someone with depression to just be happy, or telling someone with anxiety to just calm down... isn't helpful at all and can make the issues worse. even when it isn't an actual condition, being told to just stop feeling a certain way for any reason feels horrible to receive, like they only will care if you don't express that thing
trust me, if there was a "I'm gonna stop hating myself because other people love me" button, it would've been pressed by now
they might push to be alone because they've had trust broken, been lied to, been hurt, or just simply don't need or want to be open about things yet. especially if they feel like people won't actually listen or will be burdened by it.
life is hard, and it hits some people harder than others. is the mud deep? probably not for a Great Dane, but it probably will be for a Chihuahua; it depends on who you ask
it's better handled by showing them care, patience, and a willingness to actually listen rather than be upset that they still feel a way they can't control
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you explained it 100% better then I can tbh.
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??? i never said any of this to anyone? i was talking to myself, nobody else š thanks though
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sorry i don't think i explained the situation well enough. hereās some context
thereās this guy at my school whoās been posting some concerning stuff. iāve expressed my concern and offered help to him before but he left me on read (he seems like a very closed off person), so i decidedly left him unbothered. he then started posting some more concerning stuff such as āthe most hurtful thing ive ever been told is that my mom said im the biggest burden over her lifeā and ācrazy that my own veins turned against meā (referencing his hatred toward himself)
i reached out again and sent, ābro do you need to talk to someone? id be more than happy to help. I donāt know you and i don't know your situation but i understand life gets tough sometimes and it might help to talk about things that are hurting. youāre not alone and people do care about you, i really hope things start looking up for you as soon as possibleā
he responded with an āokā and i was just going to leave it at that lol, but he came back an hour or two later and wrote āIām okā
i wrote back, āglad to hear, sorry i was just concerned. i hope things stay okayā
then he said, āyea thanks thoā
he then proceeded to send a minute or two long video of him drunk driving holding a gun with his friend laughing in the background while he vaped
i did not want to see that and i didnāt know how to reply. heās purposefully hurting himself and Iāve tried to help twice now, but if he doesnāt accept help, I canāt do much else
thereās another person who goes to another school and they posted something of them crying and talking about how they want to end everything because of their crippling social anxiety and how they felt they werenāt deserving of anything given to them. i sent three paragraphs expressing my concern for them and essentially stating they were worthy of love. i offered any help they might need
thereās this other person who goes to my school and sheās posted concerning stuff as well and has vented to me. it makes me sad to see people devalue themselves and it makes me sad when i try to help but i cant -
one day while i was sitting outside for break, a girl at my school brought this old crusty 20 year old man with her over to me. i got very uncomfortable, because obviously this is a 20 year old man interacting with minors.
this man had a very nasally voice. he sounded like mickey mouse in an alternate universe. so in the highest voice imaginable, he holds out his vape and goes, āwanna take a hit?ā
i grudgingly rejected the vape after trying to understand the situation, and so he shrugged and took a hit before he gave it to the girl and she took a hit as well. I didnāt know what to do, I was so uncomfortable, so I got up and left. I ended up reporting him to the office, im pretty sure he got arrested since the principal was telling the lady at the desk to call the police since this hadnāt been a one-time encounter. wild experience -
anywho im making cookies:) im finally doing something with my life lol
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I don't do anything with my life-
and yeah, I get it. Ig from someone struggling the same way, its hard to open up to people because we are terrified of being hurt again. and that 20 year old guy needs to go to jail and rot there.
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