hudson me boy
Thread Topic: hudson me boy
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overthinking’s horrible
i can’t do live conversations over disc, i get so anxious :( i feel like i have nothing special to offer anyone. what good am i if i’m not funny, talented, creative, original, smart, charismatic, or some other obscure trait? sure im me (as people will say when comforting others), but so is everyone else, so that gives nobody any reason to talk to me. how do boring people have interesting conversations then? -
is conversation just ranting to the other about your own interests and their interests too? doesn’t that get repetitive? if every conversation’s a carbon copy, nobody would like conversation
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maybe that’s what makes humor or unique questions so special. it’s something new for people to cherish, even if it’s short-lived
problem is, nobody can come up with something new or perfectly unique every conversation, so how does a boring conversation last? -
maybe im not the problem though. it seems like every situation im always thinking im the problem when really its about finding your people. some people like you, some people don’t, and that’s perfectly fine. if its meant to be it’ll come to you, and if not, let it be
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man that’s hard to keep in mind every conversation. i get so anxious 😞 that’s a reason i deleted my social medias and distanced myself from a lot of people. i know it’s not right and i’ve probably hurt a lot of people in the past because of it
can’t change it though. that’s the thing, mistakes are experiences meant to be learned from. they’re not inherently a bad thing because without mistakes, what would we be? mistakes are growth -
sure mistakes are growth, but if one person repeats the same mistake over and over again, where’s the growth?
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you’re not repeating mistakes, you’ve done very good with improving yourself and staying in a straight lane. and who knows, maybe that person just doubles their growth 🤷♀️ more mistakes = MORE GROWTH
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wow thank you socrates, im gonna go terrorize a local village now so i can max out on growth
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you’re learning congratulations im so proud
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thank you whew it was quite the feat
so when does the growth come? -
*dies and becomes socrates in next life* omg im so stacked
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yippeeeeee
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i think my issue’s that im forcing conversation. I shouldn’t be so stuck in my head, i should focus on the other person and ask questions
problem is, then it feels like an interview. how do i stop it from feeling like an interview? -
maybe i am generous, maybe i am kind, maybe i am smart, maybe i am funny, maybe i am all the things i try to be but i think i’m not simply because i get so anxious in conversations with others i can’t think straight
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i can’t help but think younger me was better at this. conversations seemed so easy back then and i genuinely had fun in them. i don’t anymore and i wonder why that is
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