"can't the future just wait?"
Thread Topic: "can't the future just wait?"
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imsoclueless Seniorno, i shouldn't have said anything- forget that-
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imsoclueless Seniori- f---, i always say the wrong f---ing thing, don't i?
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imsoclueless Seniori'm panicking now, s----
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It is actually completely normal, to question your sexuality and stuff. And it’s not bad that you’re a Christian and like you might be ace, my friend is actually a pan Christian. Just putting that out there :)
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imsoclueless Seniorbut i feel like i'm hurting my parents even just thinking abt that, i mean, it's the f---ing reason i was pulled out of public school bc my parents thought the friends i had made were gonna "make me gay"-
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imsoclueless Seniorand i don't really think i am, but i've had thoughts like, what if i actually am gay? and then spiral into, god, what if my parents hate me and kick me to the curb??
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Dw, because you’re def not alone. Some Christians are really homophobic, mainly older ones. My friend’s parents aren’t Christian but they are homophobic, so she isn’t out and probably won’t be until she moves out. I’m lucky my parents have gay friends and are accepting
If you think they are going to kick you out, which is literally against the law, don’t tell them. If they do, which is very unlikely, go to the nearest police station or your school guidance officer -
imsoclueless Seniorcan't they when you turn 18? i certainly don't have long till then ^^'
and i- idk. i personally don't think i am (bc i don't think i've ever had a crush on someone of the same gender, or had gender identity issues or anything)
idrk why i even mentioned it, i- f---... -
They can kick you out by 18, but if they've known you for almost 20 years and leave you for that.... f--- themThe lgbt community is adopting you if that happens.
I understand being confused by it all, it's all totally normal. -
I think so, but if you’re worried about that the solution is to not tell them
And that’s fine lol, like I questioned my sexuality even in the third grade but was like ‘nah it’s probably only because I just found out about it’
A lot of straight people question their sexuality at some point, and that’s fine -
imsoclueless Seniorlike- i really genuinely do think that i am a straight person, i've never liked a girl or enby person,
nor have i ever thought i was a gender other than female,
but then i keep thinking, what if i am? and what if i decide to explore that, and i really am gay and then i tell my parents i'm gay and i get hated on for the rest of my life and i'm just- alone and hurting and- ugh, i hate this panicky feeling -
All of that makes sense
My advice may suck, so maybe don't listen to me, but like... Explore a bit before telling them. Maybe go on a few dates (although I've never understood the taboo on dating so that may be a hell no kinda thing for you) with girls and non-binary people.
I would also suggest not to come out until you're old enough to support yourself financially and emotionally if you really think they'll do all that, so keep that in mind -
imsoclueless Seniorha, can't even date yet- not allowed until i am 18
so fun, amirite :')
but i really don't know if i do think i am gay (at least like, when it comes to attraction to other genders besides male or gender stuff)
i think the only thing i've really thought abt is asexuality and maybe being somewhere on that spectrum? -
imsoclueless Seniorand like, don't get me wrong, i don't think like, at all that i'd be weirded out to find out- oh, guess i am gay lmao
but i just- i really don't think i am? plus even if i were truly questioning it, it's all deep seeded internal homophobia, ig?
idek what i'm saying anymore ^^' -
Lol I get what you're saying
Oh damn, that sucks
Internalized homophobia is a b---- omggg
And I get not truly thinking you're gay. All of this makes sense to me. Ik this is really sucky to hear, but maybe just wait around to see? Idrk lol
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