Shrouded despair and forgotten ambitions
Thread Topic: Shrouded despair and forgotten ambitions
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talked about it with my friend
she didn't really have a good reason as to why she ghosted me and argued
reasons i wont specify on here obvi
her dad supports trump so she does. she didn't give me any reasons as to why she or her dad did because she didn't know
tbh im not going to wait for her. idc if shes neutral but if she supports trump, someone who wants to take both my and her rights away, idk if thats okay with me. everyone is entitled to their own opinion and reasons no matter how ridiculous it is but this doesn't sit right with me. if she wants to tell me why she argued with me, thats fine with me. but i'm not going to take initiative again because its not my responsibility to repair our friendship. if she doesn't want to repair it, i won't either. simple as that. its her turn to take initiative since ive done it way too many times in our arguments. i won't take responsibility because its not my responsibility to take. if that makes sense -
I hate it when people say it's their parents fault- like obviously families can play a huge role in opinions, but at the end of the day it's your opinion. If you're going to be vocal about it, you have to take responsibility that they're your thoughts
That makes sense to me. It's not like you didn't try to heal this -
me too its so ridiculous- exactly, and its not like its a pointless little opinion, this is a man who wants to take YOUR rights away and you dont have a reason why youre advocating for him. it doesn't sit right with me
exactly, its not like its my fault if our friendship doesn't work out. i apologised many times, tried to repair it many times, and if she doesn't then she obviously doesn't care enough -
Like cmon man have some accountability- yeah that's so real
Yeah. I can't understand going from being good friends to just letting it fizzle out, like what? Idk politics are such a stupid thing to let get in between a friendship, especially after the other person tried to repair it- -
yeah like it's at least a little your fault dude- its YOUR opinion and it is something you can 100% help. and im not asking you to change it its when you have literally nothing to back up why you like someone like that (cough trump)
me neither. and we were super close too. like if shes willing to let something like this get in the way without even trying to repair it, she doesn't care enough. like im sorry i can't read minds and i actually care about our friendship- at this point i know its not my fault and i honestly dont know what to think of her anymore -
Literally, it's your opinion. You can have whatever opinion you want, feelings are valid no matter how unreasonably, but if you have no reasons, then... get reasons?
Yeah that really sucks, I'm sorry -
Exactly. Honestly I’d rather her give me the most unreasonable reason than none at all
It’s not your fault. Mine for misjudging how much she cared about our friendship -
Yeah, because at least you'd be able to disprove it if it was a r e a l l y bad reason.
You couldn't have been expected to know that though -
Yeah, like you can’t just deny the fact he’s racist and sexist without any proof. Like he’s said some crazy s--- dude
Ig, but still. It feels like I’m expecting too much but then again it’s like the bare minimum isn’t it? -
Honestly, you've got to have a reason to support him or else you're just wrong
You're not expecting too much -
Exactly. Like give me a redeeming reason that somehow makes his wild opinions okay-
Thanks -
Not to mention he deems climate change a hoax and wants to boost fossil fuel production. Like this man has nothing going for him I swear
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EXACTLY- like even if you deny WHY the climate is changing, that's still better than flat out saying "nah climate change just isn't real"
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Realll it’s just like what are we doing here man do you realise how dumb you sound-
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at least i know her priorities now. she'd rather believe what someone tells her to believe than a) form her own reasonable opinions, and b) solve literally any conflict. like ive been the one to sort it out every. single. time. that speaks volumes about her, not me
ik ive been venting about it a lot but i don't have anywhere else to talk about it lmao
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