Safe Place
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Thread Topic: Safe Place
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bonking on a bonking new page
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it feels rlly dumb 2 me when ppl get sad/angry when other ppl don’t care about their problems
like i feel like it’s basic knowledge that ppl don’t care abt other ppl’s problems, bc for 1 ppl are too focused on their own problems to get caught up in other ppl’s business, nd 2 ppl are selfish
jus disappointing to see ppl with such high expectations in ppl in general. should be simple erudition not to have any expectations in anyone bc ur always gon be disappointed in the end -
jus ppl who depend on others aren’t gon get anywhere in life
u can’t rlly rely on ppl lmao, if u wan get smth done u have to get it done urself bc nobody’s gon walk u down the soccer field nd teach u each strand of grass’ names -
im fortunate to have learnt this in my early years, other ppl are less fortunate nd end up getting hurt
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not sure where this mindset grew, but im pretty sure it came from elementary school lmfao
in 4th nd 5th grade i would cut, overdose, nd do all kinds of no no thingamajigs to myself. i couldn’t rlly keep it in any longer so i told sum1 (a supposed “friend” of mine during that time period), long story short they spread rumors that i would “cut to the bone every day” nd that i was “emo nd depressed”
i started getting harassed by literally everyone after that, ppl would tell me to kill myself nd give me sharp things to cut in class, nd anytime i did cut in class they would tell me i was doing it for attention
maybe that’s jus a kid thing nd that i shouldn’t think a ton on it, but it happened a bit later. i found out my dad had been lying to me literally my entire childhood to make me biased to other ppl, i cut contact w him, got more rumors spread abt me, got a huge load of problems nd sum other shiz. probs can’t remember bc i genuinely can’t remember anything from my childhood, everything has gaps
i rlly should have learned that nobody cared about other ppl’s problems quite sooner though i was a very trusting nd naïve kid so it kinda makes sense -
idk why im venting abt this if it’s over, should probs move onto smth else
jus realized i haven’t thought abt the “future references” in a bit, kinda been focused on the present bc of these f---ing migraines -
i hate people
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i suppose i should probs eat bc i haven’t eaten yesterday or today, probs where this migraine came from
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can’t wait for us all to go extinct nd die. people are vile creatures, im unsure of how or why we were given the privilege to be alive if we’ve done everything we’ve done and have contributed to the universe in good terms in literally 0 shapes or forms
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i might be being slightly pessimistic though im genuinely unsure of the contributions
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smhsms
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Just to be clear, do you not want words of comfort in general, or just in that instance?
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i appreciate u asking :D
it depends, in general id say “no words of comfort” in relation to “im sorry to hear” or “feel free to reach out” or “you can vent to me” or “that’s terrible” or any other pity language
overall i rlly do not enjoy ppl comforting me, but i don’t mind if they’re posting to relate
ex. a dog died, they could post to say “my dog died too” or if they have anything to say other than a post just for the sake of posting bc they’ll “feel bad for not comforting”, that’s preferred -
Noted
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appreciate y’all taking note for this <3
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