dying to be with her wasn't any sacrifice
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Thread Topic: dying to be with her wasn't any sacrifice
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thank you both, I really appreciate it
I feel really awful for needing to cut her off, because I know this isn't her. She was a perfectly likable person before all this. She wanted me to move in and always thanked me for what I do for her family. She loved my cat, too, so it kills me that I don't even feel safe leaving him alone with her anymore. This whole thing has just been awful and I feel like a lot of people think I'm being weak or petty for letting it affect me so much. -
Trust me when I say this, if cutting her out of your life is the best thing for you and Ash, then you need to do it. I understand how difficult it is for you, but you're not weak and you're not petty. This is genuine abuse you're being put through /srs
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Just wanted to let you know there was another post at the bottom of the previous page in case you missed it
You aren't weak nor petty. As Void said, you are being put through abuse and it's very fair to lose your trust in Holly. You did everything you could to support them. But you shouldn't feel compelled to sacrifice your well-being or comfort for their sake. -
Thank you, Marrow. I appreciate that. I'm trying to think about this in the context of it happening to literally anyone but me, because I know I'm only being so hard on myself because it's me. Logically I know I have to do what's best for me and I recognize that Ash and I are both victims of abuse in this scenario. It's just really hard to feel like I'm doing the right thing right now, knowing she needs support more than ever right now.
I want to thank everyone who's taken the time to come in here and offer me their support. I can't tell you how much it means to me. -
As Shattered and Void mentioned, it’s important for you and Ash to take care of yourselves and be safe. You can no longer trust Holly, and those feelings are valid. While Holly is in the hospital, take this time for you and Ash to support each other. You’ve both experienced real trauma, and that is hard to process. I’m here for you whenever you need to talk. (You know me as your helpful mover with a truck.)
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wait hold on
doug?? -
Yes
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I love you so much man
you didn't have to make an account here, I know you said the forums make you anxious -
I love you too so much! You posted a link on the group chat and I had to create an account to see the screenshots and the link to your singing. I'm just browsing here for a short while.
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I just wanted y'all to know why I've been so quiet lmao you didn't have to post here
but I do appreciate you
thank you so much -
I noticed you weren't online as much but I figured you were just busy. Never would've imagined it was something this big. Big hugs and support! I agree with everything that's been said so far.
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thank you anna
I'm finally recovering now that she's gone for a while and I'm trying to get back in touch with all the people I haven't been talking to as much as I'd like because of this
please feel free to message me if you ever need me or just wanna talk -
As you know I’m very bad with words and not sure I fully understand the situation but it looks like ur going through some rough times and i hope it gets better for you
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thank you quiz, I appreciate that
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No problem road :D
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