Welcome to Antilia.
- Locked by breadgirl69 on Mar 24, '23 5:18amReason: Request
Thread Topic: Welcome to Antilia.
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It's true. Times may be difficult now, but there'll be a day where you look back fondly with a smile, knowing life is better.
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Oh. Okay. I love you, too.
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Apparently, she didn't make her lunch, yet. But y'all b----ing at me. Mind your f---ing business...
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I'd rather go on a lunch date than eat with these folks.
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Time to eat? About time...
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Welp, that was miserable...
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hey...
would you mind if we talk a bit? -
I wouldn't mind at all. What's up?
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i just keep getting bullied because i'm wearing a dream merch hoodie, and have been recently. i snapped at the popular girls earlier because i'm fed up with them and my mom's going out east for a week and i'm not sure how i'm gonna take it.
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I can relate with the hoodie thing. My own older siblings are bullying me for wearing my Final Fantasy hoodie. Really, it's not their business what you wear because you got it for your enjoyment, not theirs. If it makes you feel comforted, keep wearing it. Certain hoodies are my happy place. Besides, they probably either are jealous that they don't have a hoodie for their obsessions or taking out some sort of issues on you, when it really doesn't involve you.
Also can relate to the popular girls issue. I can't stand popular stereotypes, but instead of snapping at them about how you're tired of their behavior, just ignore them and continue to be yourself. "Popular girls" have no originality; they're just real-life barbie dolls. And if that's what they want to exhaust themselves doing, let them do it. It's not your problem.
I understand you'll probably miss your mom, but you can always see if you can make a scheduled time to talk to her. Or maybe keep something with you that reminds you of her and comforts you. -
yeah true. but since dream is looked down on a lot, i get bullied because i'm seen as "a stan"
it's my nature to snap like that though. i get so hostile because it builds up inside me.
i plan to, but the anxiety of her driving out there is a lot... she's going all the way to connecticut. from iowa. -
Understandable. But, you like what you like. I get beat up on even if I don't wear what I like. Some people can never be pleased, so I'd rather be harassed for doing what I like than to still be harassed while trying to do what they want, additionally feeling miserable because what I'm wearing isn't even something I'd wear.
Believe it or not, I had to take anger management classes, earlier this year. One thing that helps me not go off on someone is to type it out on my phone or write out what I want to say on a piece of paper—hold nothing back—and when I'm done, get rid of it. If it's a long rant, by the time you finish writing it, either you'll read it and decide it's not worth going on about, or you won't even read it because you've tired yourself out fussing about it.
Have you tried talking to your mom about it? I can't really say I relate on this one since I don't really have a close bond with either of my parents. But, talking to her is worth a try, so she'll know your concerns. -
yeah, i've always been sensetive to those things, whether it be bullying or popular kids being jerks. but writing it out may help.
i have and she gets it. she told me i can call her every night. i'm allowed to talk to her. and she has life 360 so i'll know where she is. but still--- -
Another thing I tend to do is put those emotions and struggles into the form of a story. Kind if weird, but, another creative way of doing it. And in your story, the characters that remind you of the real-life bullies are in your control. Whatever happens to them is completely up to you. As long as you don't make the characters exactly the people irl.
Maybe see if you can have a hoodie or a blanket or something of hers while she's gone so you'll have that with you. -
oh true-
that could work. and would probably. usually me and my gf just imagine them as mobs in minecraft and shoot them down with our tridents.
i have duke, our dog. he's good at telling when i get anxious, so he should help a lot.
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