Bullying
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Thread Topic: Bullying
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@AverageStudent
A some advice I'll suggest if you do want to stay friends with her maybe let J know gently that she might not mean to but she's being a bit rude and unfair towards you.
If you want to cut her off maybe try and stop hanging out with her as much and maybe hang out with other friends in your friend group.
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To averagestudent:
Remind J of her actions and who she is becoming (assuming she used to be nice). If she ignores you and tries to stray away from this topic, or denies her actions, that means you should ignore her, like, forever (even if it is hard to). If she listens to you and acknowledges her actions, you should help her become nicer and less annoying. You should also decide for yourself if J is a true friend or a fake friend. True friends are those who you feel you have a special connection with and will miss you if you have to leave their lives for at least a small period of time, and never forget you. Fake friends (which J most likely is) will be the opposite of a true friend and are not worth your time. If J is a fake friend, you should ignore her (as mentioned above) and hope she changes for the better. I hope this is useful, and good luck to all your friendships!
(Wow, just realised what a massive heap I wrote!) -
Alright,thanks y’all!I’ll see her on like Monday when Christmas break is done and I’ll take your advice!
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(Lucky I went back on the 2nd of January)
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(I don't go back until Feburary)
I have two friends and my main friend group. Lets call the two friends friend A and B. So, A and B recently had a small fight so friend B was hanging out with me and my friend group. Friend A is pretty toxic, and just always rude. My friend group doesn't like friend B which was a problem. Now suddenly friend B likes A again which is fine I guess, but it confused me. I really like B, but I don't want to be friends with A. A thinks I like her but I really don't, if I hang out with my friend group (which have never been rude to me) A &B probably won't be my friend anymore. I really want to stay friends with B. What should I do? -
If friend A is really toxic and is rude to you you should probably stay away from her and if they ditch you just because you still talk with and are technically in your main friend group then they would have to be justified in that. Personally I think it depends on the reason your main friend group and friend B don’t get along. If it’s because of something friend B said or did that was rude or if friend B was mean to them then you should probably go with your friend group because friend B might become mean to you. Also it wouldn’t make sense grow Friends A & B to ditch you because you are hanging out with people friend B was mean to. If the main friend group just doesn’t like friend B for no reason and especially if they are mean to friend B for no reason then you might want to keep being friends with friend B because that would be a justified reason for leaving you if you are hanging out with people that are mean to friend B for no reason. Though just from the story I think that you should go with the main friend group, because they seem like the most supportive, stable, and nontoxic environment. (Especially because they haven’t ditched you for hanging out with other people)
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Thanks! Yeah, my friend group doesn't like B because she was mean to one of the people in my group. I will take your advice and stay with my group
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This isn’t really bullying but my crush sent me a video of him playing in the school band and he said “bet you can’t find me” I found him and circled him (background he’s like really pale and at school we jokingly call him pale and he’s fine with it) so he said “HOW?!” And I said “I just circled the palest guy there” as a joke and he knew I didn’t mean it because we make jokes like that all the time at school. He then said “I’m blocking you” so I kept apologizing to him saying I’m sorry and that I was just joking and he kept ignoring me (note- this was yesterday on Friday) at lunch I said hi to him thinking he was joking about being mad and he was still kinda ignoring me. So I wrote him a note saying I’m sorry again and that I shouldn’t have said that and all that. So last night I sent him a text saying and I quote “Are you still mad at me? I’ve already said I’m sorry. And I am, and I also get if you are self conscious and I’m sorry but I already said I was joking and that I’m sorry. Are we good?” And I followed up with “Or did I mess up rlly badly by doing something I don’t know abt?” Help me. I don’t want him to keep ignoring me I really like him and I can’t tell him because he doesn’t like me (unless he’s a really good liar bc he has told me he doesn’t like anyone) I really don’t want him to cut me out. Sorry for venting.
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Give him some space, keep on saying sorry can sometimes be annoying. Just give him some space for a week then try talking to him again
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Ok so he texted me saying he was pranking me and fast forward a bit and his friend wanted to talk to me bc his friend thinks we’re dating so I talk to him and he tells me that my crush said to a TEACHER that he has a girlfriend who is octopus (my crush’s nickname for me is octopus) he said to a TEACHER THAT I WAS HIS GIRLFRIEND. THATS honestly rlly sweet im my opinion lol.
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Guys… I told him that I like him and he’s telling me if he likes me tmrw! He asked if he could think abt it prolly bc this girl said she liked him and umm well she’s 13 and the guy she started dating is 15 and they kinda maybe had s*x and yeah. But basically I told him that he could think abt it for as long as he needed bc I totally get that he needs time to think abt it I would too. I rlly hope he likes me back. Who knows, maybe by Monday I’ll have a boyfriend.
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OMG, yay!
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@BoldNotCold I'm so happy for you, I really hope it went well for you and he said yes and if he said no then he's not worth it.
For the part above he probably was in a mood and took it out on you because he cares about you because people will take their anger out on the people they love the most or maybe he was just being stupid and felt like ignoring you. -
Bullying Quotes:
"Bullying is a cowardly act. It's easy to bully someone when they aren't looking or when they can't fight back."
No one heals himself by wounding another."
"Bullying builds character like nuclear waste creates superheroes. -
Calling someone dumb won't make you smart, calling someone ugly won't make you pretty, calling someone weird won't mae you 'normal'
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