online relationships are for pathetic losers
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dw1996 NewbiePeople who do relationships online are socially awkward and have low self-esteem. Why the f--- would you want to be in a relationship online when you can be in a real one? There are plenty of friendless, grossly overweight losers who hate themselves in the world, and there is probably another living in your town.
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There is nothing wrong with that. You have a bf in the real world too.
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what the hell is wrong with that..
maybe there is not a good, loving (or even hansome, sexy, whatever you call them)
people where you live.. maybe there isnt a person you love to talk to as much as thaat one special person over the internet.. -
Don't knock it til you've tried it, idiot. My girlfriend is the light in my life. And there's proof that long distance relationships can work. Just ask Pewdie and Marzia. :P
So I shall kindly ask you to fuck off. -
Thats what you think.I found the girl of my dreams online,and I wasn't even looking for love when I decided to chat on the internet.We just talked and it was meant to be.And let me tell you I'm a happy motherf---er when I'm with her.
Maybe to you online dating is for fat losers with no life,but to others its a way of meeting someone new,totally new,and interesting to get to know. -
*le like button for Sick's post*
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^Sick described it well.
dw, from what I'm reading in most of your posts, you seem like a cynical and one-sided fuck. :D -
I have a bit of trouble understanding them, and I know I could never be in one, but I'm in no way shape or form against them.
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I've tried the real life dating scene. it's expensive, annoying, aggravating, and in the end there's still just as much of a chance that things wont work out. I prefer online relationships. I enjoy it because you actually get to know someone on the inside before you ever see them. Emotionally, personally, as well as eventually visually. There is no, "Oh she's hot I want her." Or, "Oh, she's not, no thank you." That doesn't matter. And you realize that it never did.
Further more, as for actual contact, online dating has its pros and its cons. You might not get to hold them, but there isn't the awkwardness of it either. You get to know what their do's and don'ts are. What they would like. What you have in common. And it makes that first moment when you do get to meet them all that much more special.
I dated my ex for 3 months. I took her to 2 movies, bought her dinner 4 times, was dragged places I didn't want to go, put into depression several times, and in the end she left me for my best friend. I've been dating online again for a little over a week now and I'm already happier again than I ever was in person.
In the end, long distance might not be for you. Some people just can't handle it. But don't knock it until you've tried it. And if you have, then don't knock it out of respect. Thank you. -
BB2 awhh well said :)
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Online relationship? It is like having an imaginary friend. So unreal.
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dw1996 NewbieYou guys probably could've found people on your own that you get to talk to somewhere other than the Internet. If you think you are incapable of being loved, you're probably being overdramatic. It's all in your head. There is probably someone you know or have met in the course of your daily life that you've completely overlooked.
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And both of you have completely disregarded everything I said.
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I see DW's point. I think it is better to seek real human contact than to chat with someone you've never met outside of an Internet chatroom. And to Bob's point, if you don't want to put up with all the bulls--- of courting someone, try to find a person you can just hang with at home with pizza and a DVD. Or you can excercise my personal philosophy: don't go into a relationship with the intention of it being a serious one. If you feel after a month or two like it could be serious, make it serious.
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I like Bob's post. lolol.
But really though, it's one guy's opinion, if you want him to shut up, prove him wrong and do something drastic like marry the person you're dating online or something like that. Hell, I'm going to be living with my boyfriend in a few years.
What's right and true are vague terms, terms that build your reality, and your reality may only be just an illusion.
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