opinions on my thing?
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Thread Topic: opinions on my thing?
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my thing..
the thing is the guy that I started dating then he started talking to his ex again that he never wanted anything to do with again and it made him not sure if he wanted to go out with me he said he wasn't sure he wanted to get into a serious relationship right now and that's what it would be if he was with me. and this wwhole thing was a lot of bulls--- and a lot of him changing his mind back and forth within just a week.
but I worked with him today and was just gonna be nice hoping we can just be cool and stay friends and whatever. but at work he asked me to come outside and smoke a cigarette with him and he told me that he really missed me and that we can just forget all that ever happened.
but.. he put me through all dem feels that I'm not used to. and I got through em all and now I like this idea of being single, I haven't really been single for almost 2 years...but I do really like him..and I had always thought all this meant-to-be s--- about him, even when he was still going out with crazy 2 years ago I felt some connection with him.. and ugh I dunno. I wanna figure out what I'm gonna do by tomorrow when I work with him again :P -
Tell him you want a two month trial sort of thing. I know that sounds harsh, but it's what you need to do. Those two months will be like a preview to how a relationship with him will be. If he keeps going back and forth between you & other people during the trial period, then he's not taking you or your wants/needs seriously. If you like the way things work out during the two months, then go on with the relationship.
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Sense when do you get on gtq anymore, rascal?
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Since I finally have a break from school, work, dancing, and taking care of my parents (they both had surgery).
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Unfortunately, it's not a long break. School starts next week. I've been stuck in a hospital, I feel like I'm just now starting summer
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I'd wait it out a little, I think. Just be on your own for a little longer until you are really sure or something.Don't stop hanging out with the dude completely or anything but don't get into a serious relationship just quite yet.Especially if he's still thinking of his ex.Once your sure then you can move things on or something.
2 in the morning so my apologies if I've misread anything or if my advice sucks, good luck. -
aw man, dude. that sucks. i wish you good will, man. *man hug* i hope you enjoy your small summer break as much as you can. oh, and nice seeing you again on gotoquiz since a while.
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Thanks, it's nice to be back!! I'll have my iPad back from the school tomorrow so hopefully I'll be on more often
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*fist pumps because rascals coming back
in black* -
*fist bumps because I'm coming back*
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acdc: CAUSE HE IS BACK IN BLACK! YEAHHHHHHHHHH!
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BACK IN BLACK I HIT THE SACK I BEEN TOO LONG IM GLAD TO BE BACK
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