Uhm, guys.. Serious things..
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Thread Topic: Uhm, guys.. Serious things..
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I really think it's time for me to come clean with my mother about being pansexual and all. I don't want her to flip out if I ever end up bring a girl home and we do the whole PDA thing and stuff.
I've said things regarding me liking girls jokingly, and she always seems to not like it bc, well, she wants grandkids and stuff. It's only that that seems to bother her when I say it jokingly.
I don't know.. Should I tell her and how should I tell her? -
AND UHM
By 'a girl' I mean if me and Momoko if we ever meet. ;A; Not any other girl. -
I dunno, man... I'm facing the same problem.
Try working a famous woman that's also dating a woman into the conversation, and see how she reacts to that? And then if she's okay with that tell her sometime? -
She isn't really familiar with women who are famous and date other women.. You know, since most of those are from American media.. 9_9 But I'll see..
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I don't know Alice. As a note of reference though, I don't think it'd be very appropriate to do a whole lot of PDA in front of your mother with anyone.
I honestly haven't made any attempt to start a conversation solely about my being pansexual. I've mentioned it before in passing conversation, but I see no reason to draw attention to it.
I really don't see why it should ever matter. -
Well, I shouldn't say in front of my mother specifically. But one person in the neighborhood could see something slightly suspicious going on and then boom, the whole place knows.
I was wondering because I don't want her to freak out if it ever happens, but I'm starting to think that it really shouldn't matter.. There's going to be a time for everything, I guess. -
If you want to bring it up, be honest
"Mom, I don't really know myself too well just yet. I don't know who or what I like. I don't know what's right for me. I might like girls. And yet I might still like boys. I really just don't know yet. No matter what, please just understand that I am being smart about all this. I am still being cautious, and if anything comes up, I will let you know."
I kinda figure something like this would work. Rewrite it to fit your family specifically if you need to. -
There's Ellen.
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