Please Help Me! I'm panicking! | Comments

Hey, there is a website called iperiod and one called ipregnant and there are all kinds of young ladies an women there that will know just what you should do. Definitely talk to your parents about this, I know that sounds terrifying but please, it's the best thing to do in your situation. It sucks right now but things will get better and you will make all kinds of friends on the app I told you about. They are super friendly and most of them have gone through what your going through now. Good luck, Hun:)

So you decide to be rude to everyone and saying that Bette blind when they didn't know? You, darling, are an idjit.

On that logic, then you-and everyone else on this site-are also blind. Kindly get off whatever device you are using to get on here, and seriously rethink everything that you have posted, so you can realize how rude it sounds.

If everyone is giving you s--- a school talk to the principal and ask if you can just show up for clases and not lunch or other extra stuff. And tell you parents they are your biggest supporters. Find other people who will help and support you. I'm truly sorry for what happened but don't freak out I know its hard but talk to someone and let all you feelings out. Making the quiz was a good idea. Goodluck.

Honestly, I have no Ida what this is like, so I am not about to give you some half-assed advice. But I will tell you how to get your friends back because I do know what it is like to lose them. If that girl ever says anything to you again, make it seem like it is her fault... Or make it your crush's fault (because it kind of is). As for your friends, there are several ways to make them like you again... Your friends are probably different from mine so it may not work for them, but just tell them the ENTIRE story... If they really are your fiends, they will understand, if not, move on. If they really were your friends, they wouldn't have given up on you... I wish you luck :)

I think you should tell your mom an dad they can help and tell that girl for her to keep her boyfriend off of you! Find some REAL FRIENDS and don't care what people think of you it's YOUR LIFE and they should mind their own business! I hope this helps, I hope you feel better and I think you should keep your distance from that dude if he isn't gonna help if he does what he's suppose to do then you guys can work it out. Please joist don't do the wrong thing, talk to someone.

Lexi, darling, I know how you're feeling. I'm only 12 but I understand this situations.

I suggest you to not hide it anymore. You made a mistake, and it's not your fault, but you'll make another big one if you don't tell your parents. I did the same in another situation and say it to my parent was the best. we solved the problem and now it's like nothing.

If abortion is not an option, wich I'm agree because I don't beleve in abortion too, there's places of adoption, and you can send him/her there.

Or, if your parents they're not acctually mad, you can keep it. Maybe your parents will be agree with keeping it. Maybe not, but it's an option.

Your friends aren't your friends if they did you that, as another say it before. And about Caleb, he's a f---ing stupid. I had the same situation with this guy, called Martin. It wasn't the same situation but I suggest you to forget him, he's not a good guy. And I suggest you to change school. If you tell this to your parents maybe you won't be in that school anymore.

Lexi, my dear unknow friend, I'm not a psychologist, but sometimes a friend (even though you don't know him/her) is better than a psychologist, because a friend can also support you. Maybe I don't know you, but helping is the least I, and everyone, can do.

I hope you will solve your problem.
Wishes, Antonia.

Hey Lexi, I'm sorry this happened to you.I'm a guy and I can understand everything that happened. NEVER get an abortion, no matter what this is a human life, give the best gift you could ever give to anyone. Give somebody life. Now, you are too young to keep th baby and his/her father probably won't be able or will not want to help you out, unless he's a nice guy. Give the baby as well as your self a good life. Choose the option to give him for adoption. If you really want to see your kid when he/she is older give the kid a teddy bear or something with a note on it saying your full name and saying your name is mommy or whatever. Everything happens for a reason, god loves you so much and he understands everything and he absolutely is, fast to forgive. On the matter of telling your parents, just break down in front of them and let it all out tell them everything and that you want to give it for adoption. Oh yeah let me just add how abortions ar carried out. Well first of all, it is murder by definition because they are taking a life without his/her consent or knowledge that it is going to happen, second of all, while the baby is in your womb, they will inject salt or something nasty to burn him alive and then they will force you to give birth to a dead baby. I'm sure none of us would like it if we were burned alive and killed when we were just in our mothers womb. Also, look at the option of homeschooling for the time you are pregnan to let things cool down at school and to not let anyone make fun of you for being pregnant, after everything is done just go to another school or somethig. :) here is what I would do, life is about choices, what will you choose with a life in your hands, a soul. God bless you.

Doll, y are beautiful and If nobody Is there for yu, your parents will be. If y friends are shunning you, they never were your friends. I think you should abort but if not, you may mess up your life. I am so sorry about whatever has happened with you. you deserved better. If you ned anyone to talk to, you can reply to my comment and I think I would be notified. Take Care.

Hi Lexi! It's going to be ok. You can email Caleb and tell him that your pregnant or give him a secret note. Maybe he isn't the right guy for you. Occurring to the way he's been acting, it seems that he only wants you as a back-up girlfriend. It means that he will only hang around you when no other girl is available. Your life would be better without him. As for the baby, don't let him get adopted! Ask your mom and dad or aunt to teach you how to take care of it. That is for the best. You should try to get a new crush. Caleb will only be in you life as an obstacle. Going past him and getting a new guy, one that is understanding,funny ,cute...etc...... As I think of it, there are guys out there that LOVE you better than Caleb. Try to get a new one. Once you get someone new...you will find your memory of Caleb disappear! Feel free to email me at [no emails] Good luck!!!!!

This is a really old quiz, well I just read it. I don't know how much time has passed since this happened. I went through the opinions of other people here. You must have overcome the panicking so just pray to god that everything goes fine and your ex boyfriend accepts the child.

Oh my goodness. Well first off you should be strong and tell your mom. I'm sure she'll know it was an honest mistake. Then she'll be able to help you out. I know its scary but really don't panick. It's not your fault and I'm sure that you didn't mean to. It may be a life changing mistake but don't worry. From now on, I know this might be hard, but try and do the right thing. And remember. It's not that bad a thing your pregnant. Sooner or later you'll have a beautiful baby. I hope this has made you feel better.

Telling me to kindly get off and saying I'm an idiot etc is rude! You mean the "how fed up of you of these quizzes" or something? Thats not really rude, you should see what some people say on the internet!!

And you haven't even seen most of my comments, you're the only person who's called me rude or anything on here. And i don't want to get into another thing about it.

How can everyone be so stupid to be giving "advice" when they won't even be reading this anymore and have posted another "quiz" saying what they're doing!! Hope you all feel stupid!!

And they told parents and they were dissapointed not angry but its all fine now.

Honey, whatever you do don't give up the baby or you will end up regretting it your whole life. I think you should tell your parents. Maybe they will get mad but just "tell them the truth!" I am being serious it's better if you just go out with it. I don't know maybe tell Caleb, your choice so he isn't surprised and get mad at you or anything. but please tell your parents they are the main source of what to do. And listen to them maybe they have some useful advise?

Honey, whatever you do don't give up the baby or you will end up regretting it your whole life. I think you should tell your parents. Maybe they will get mad but just "tell them the truth!" I am being serious it's better if you just go out with it. I don't know maybe tell Caleb, your choice so he isn't surprised and get mad at you or anything. but please tell your parents they are the main source of what to do. And listen to them maybe they have some useful advise?

Oh lexi, we all make mistakes and although some mistakes may seem bigger than others u cannot let the past define who you are or what u will be. Yeah u had sex but that trust me many others have gone throught regretting their first time. I believe you should let your parents know about the pregnancy. They may not take the news well but if u are not going to abort the child that is developing inside you should at least take care of yourself. You're. 15. And maybe you feel that your life is already messed up but there is hope whatever your religion pray to your higher god and ask him for wisdom and guidance as you go through this rough time in your life. Things will get better because after the storms passes the sun will shine and u will be okay. I wish you the best during this time as you make sonme big decisions. DO NOT let anyone make you feel inferior because of what you did. Keep being strong. Xoxo

I cannot think of any need in childhood as strong as the need for a father's protection.

Sigmun d Freud
And another good one to know is:

At the end of the day, the most overwhelming key to a child's success is the positive involvement of parents.

Jane D. Hull
I am sure you will be a great mom!

Lexi, sweetheart, I feel for you. I understand this is incredibly scary for you and you feel like you don't have any options, but the best thing to do is tell your parents the 100% truth. They may be mad, they may be disappointed in you, but if you 'fess up then you won't dig in any deeper. Any real friends will understand and respect your choices.

As for the baby, I respect you for not wanting to kill it. If you don't think you're ready for one, then perhaps you should still have it and then give it up for adoption. You know, Lexi, it's funny. So many people are bullied on the internet, but here you are getting advice from people who care, and I'm so happy that you can.

If you want to talk to me about it (which I'm not saying I expect you to), reply to this comment and I'll give you my email. Much love and prayers to you, Lexi, I wish you the best of luck.

Your friend, Killjoy

Omg \, ok first you have 2 tell your mom... but only her. Then you tell your friends if you have anyone, that your going on vacation or somewhere and all... im sooo sorry 4 u! I'll be your friend though! But make sure you tell your mom and maybe dad 2! Sorry about Caleb.

I hope you feel better... but mu mom was a doula sooo i kinda know about this pregnatcy stuff... i'm sooo sorry... I will support you so will everyone else!

Good Luck, Tattyanna Morales Vega (my real name)

If this is some kind of joke, It scared me. I feel so sad. If its not, You REALLY need to pray. God put that little one in your stomach for some reason. Maybe he has big plans for him/her. He created the universe and knows every hair on your head. Talk to him. He'll help you feel like you can face the day tomorrow. He'll help you realize the truth. Oh, by the way, you can talk to your mom. That's what Mom's are here for. They are there to make you realize the world isn't really falling apart.

If this is some kind of joke, It scared me. I feel so sad. If its not, You REALLY need to pray. God put that little one in your stomach for some reason. Maybe he has big plans for him/her. He created the universe and knows every hair on your head. Talk to him. He'll help you feel like you can face the day tomorrow. He'll help you realize the truth. Oh, by the way, you can talk to your mom. That's what Mom's are here for. They are there to make you realize the world isn't really falling apart.

Leave it now,

I don't know what you want me to show you. You have already disagreed that you were rude yourself. I think those comments will show up high because the place quizzes all had a lot of takes.

my first comments (that were strong yes but nothing that should get you so upset)weren't bad in the first place so it's your problem for reacting like this.

You sound like a bully yourself.. saying you'll stand up for your sister but you should listen to what you're saying to me! Honestly you sound delusional and patronising saying "keep being rude darling". You are the rude one, no one else has said I am rude, everyone i've talked to on here has been nice to me.

How do I sound rude?

"Most of my comments on here aren't rude." And yet you said:

"How can everyone be so stupid to be giving 'advice' when they won't even be reading this anymore and have posted another 'quiz' saying what they're doing!! Hope you all feel stupid!!" And "NO MORE ADVICE!! ARE YOU BLIND!?" And also this: "I did say that. I guess you're blind too." Not to mention other rude comments left by you on other quizzes that I would be happy to point out if you want me to.

Just know that your family will support you, who cares what they think? They're irrelevant. Tell your parents and I'm sure they'll understand and try to help. You can get through this and everyone here will support you. If you need anyone to talk to my kik is oliebear00