perfume & Women
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macoooo ExperiencedAbu Usayd al-Ansari narrated that he heard Allahs Messenger (May peace and blessings be upon him) say to the women on his way out of the mosque when he saw men and women mixing together on their way home:
Give way (i.e., walk to the sides) as it is not appropriate for you to walk in the middle the road. Thereafter, women would walk so close to the wall that their dresses would get caught on it. Narrated by Abu Dawood in "Kitab al-Adab min Sunanihi, Chapter: Mashyu an-Nisa Ma ar-Rijal fi at-Tariq."We know that the intermingling, mixing and crowding together of men and women is part of todays unavoidable yet regrettable affliction in most places, such as markets, hospitals, colleges, etc., but:
We will not willfully choose or accept mixing and crowding, particularly in religious classes and council meetings in Islamic Centers.
We take precautions to avoid meeting and mixing of men and women as much as possible while at the same time achieving desired goals and objectives. This result can be achieved by designating separate places assigned for men and women, using different doors for each, utilizing modern means of communication such as microphones, video recorders etc., and expediting efforts to have enough female teachers to teach women, etc.
We show fear of Allaah as much as we can by not looking at members of the opposite sex and by applying self-restraint.
There follow some of the results of a study on mixing undertaken by some Muslim social science researchers.
When we put the following question: What is the Islamic ruling on mixing as far as you know? The results were as follows:
76% of respondents said It is not permitted.
12% said, It is permitted but moral, religious, etc. restrictions apply
12% said, I dont know.
Which would you choose?
If you had the choice between working in a mixed workplace and working in another where there was no mixing, which would you choose?
The responses to this question were as follows:
76% would choose the workplace where there was no mixing.
9% preferred the mixed workplace.
15% would accept any workplace which suited their specialties, regardless of whether it was mixed or not.
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macoooo ExperiencedOn the contrary
person who is Muslim should hold public office in the United States.
See your own for democracy
Muslims do not do it
Expelled people and cut their livelihoods
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In the original
As to avoid problems between the couple
Can be avoided by the correct choice and appropriate for both parties from the beginning
And agree on all the basics of life
This all depends on love and mutual respect between the couple
This confirms the words of the Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him
Abdullah bin `Amr bin Al-`as (May Allah be pleased with them) reported: Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said, "The world is but a (quick passing) enjoyment; and the best enjoyment of the world is a pious and virtuous woman".[Muslim]. -
macoooo Experiencedbig surprise!!!!!???
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macoooo Experienced: Good question
You are courteous
- Hell
In the teachings of the Islamic religion
1 - includes the punishment the infidels and the polytheists, Jews, Christians and Hindus 00,000
Yet as a result of Removed from the oneness of God and its involvement
God says in the Holy Qur'an
in the Holy Qur'an the name of God the Merciful ((72) They have certainly disbelieved who say, "Allah is the Messiah, the son of Mary" while the Messiah has said, "O Children of Israel, worship Allah, my Lord and your Lord." Indeed, he who associates others with Allah Allah has forbidden him Paradise, and his refuge is the Fire. And there are not for the wrongdoers any helpers.
(73) They have certainly disbelieved who say, " Allah is the third of three." And there is no god except one God. And if they do not desist from what they are saying, there will surely afflict the disbelievers among them a painful punishment.
(74) So will they not repent to Allah and seek His forgiveness? And Allah is Forgiving and Merciful.
(75) . The Messiah, son of Mary, was not but a messenger; [other] messengers have passed on before him. And his mother was a supporter of truth. They both used to eat food. Look how We make clear to them the signs; then look how they are deluded.
(76) Say, "Do you worship besides Allah that which holds for you no [power of] harm or benefit while it is Allah who is the Hearing, the Knowing?
(48) Indeed, All h does not forgive association with Him, but He forgives what is less than that for whom He wills. And he who associates others with All h has certainly fabricated a tremendous sin.
(31) Inclining [only] to Allah , not associating [anything] with Him. And he who associates with Allah - it is as though he had fallen from the sky and was snatched by the birds or the wind carried him down into a remote place.
6. And for those who disbelieve in their Lord (Allah) is the torment of Hell, and worst indeed is that destination.
7. When they are cast therein, they will hear the (terrible) drawing in of its breath as it blazes forth.
8. It almost bursts up with fury. Every time a group is cast therein, its keeper will ask: "Did no warner come to you?"
9. They will say: "Yes indeed; a warner did come to us, but we belied him and said: 'Allah never sent down anything (of revelation), you are only in great error.'"
10. And they will say: "Had we but listened or used our intelligence, we would not have been among the dwellers of the blazing Fire!"
11. Then they will confess their sin. So, away with the dwellers of the blazing Fire.
12. Verily! Those who fear their Lord unseen (i.e. they do not see Him, nor His Punishment in the Hereafter, etc.), theirs will be forgiveness and a great reward (i.e. Paradise).
2 - punishment includes Muslim hypocrites
This means that it is not a real Muslim
But pretending to do so
and fought Islam in secret
And the punishment of a Muslim hypocrite
More than the infidel
God says in the Holy Qur'an
(142) Indeed, the hypocrites [think to] deceive All h, but He is deceiving them. And when they stand for prayer, they stand lazily, showing [themselves to] the people and not remembering All h except a little,
(143) Wavering between them, [belonging] neither to the believers nor to the disbelievers. And whoever All h leaves astray never will you find for him a way.
(145) Indeed, the hypocrites will be in the lowest depths of the Fire and never will you find for them a helper
3 - punishment for a sinner Muslim who commits sins such as murder - adultery Gambling -usury ----
Sahih Al-Bukhari Narrated by Abu Huraira
The Prophet said, "Avoid the seven Great Destructive Sins." The people enquire, "O Allah`s Messenger (saws)! What are they? " He (saws) said:
"To join others in worship along with Allah,
to practice sorcery,
to kill the life which Allah has for bidden except for a just cause, (according to Islamic law),
to eat up riba (usury),
to eat up an orphan`s wealth,
to give back to the enemy and fleeing from the battlefield at the time of fighting,
and to accuse chaste women, who never even think of anything touching chastity and are good believers
4 - a Muslim who has good works and acts of bad in this world
God says in the Holy Qur'an
(102) And [there are] others who have acknowledged their sins. They had mixed a righteous deed with another that was bad. Perhaps Allah will turn to them in forgiveness. Indeed, Allah is Forgiving and Merciful.
The solution here to all
Sincere repentance of the adulterer and the determination not to go back again and will accept the repentance of God
And speed to good deeds
You can repent to allah
And thus will not be subjected to punishment
(135) And those who, when they commit an immorality or wrong themselves [by transgression], remember Allah and seek forgiveness for their sins and who can forgive sins except Allah? and [who] do not persist in what they have done while they know.
(136) Those their reward is forgiveness from their Lord and gardens beneath which rivers flow [in Paradise], wherein they will abide eternally; and excellent is the reward of the [righteous] workers.
(68) And those who do not invoke with Allah another deity or kill the soul which Allah has forbidden [to be killed], except by right, and do not commit unlawful sexual intercourse. And whoever should do that will meet a penalty
(69) Multiplied for him is the punishment on the Day of Resurrection, and he will abide therein humiliated
(70) Except for those who repent, believe and do righteous work. For them Allah will replace their evil deeds with good. And ever is Allah Forgiving and Merciful
(71) And he who repents and does righteousness does indeed turn to Allah with [accepted] repentance
(72) And [they are] those who do not testify to falsehood, and when they pass near ill speech, they pass by with dignity
(73) And those who, when reminded of the verses of their Lord, do not fall upon them deaf and blind
(74)
(75) Those will be awarded the Chamber for what they patiently endured, and they will be received therein with greetings and [words of] peace
(76) Abiding eternally therein. Good is the settlement and residence
(104) Do they not know that it is Allah who accepts repentance from His servants and receives charities and that it is Allah who is the Accepting of repentance, the Merciful?
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ShirlAnn NewbieI really like to smell good and like wearing perfume as well. I especially enjoy the smell of a good smelling man too. My wide variety of perfume includes some musks which I will remember to wear most often.
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macoooo Experiencedyes thank's for sharing
Scientists have proved that the preservation of the prayers "in the mosques," protects against heart disease and hardening of the arteries, diabetes
A study published in the Journal of the American Heart, 2006, shows that prayer has no effect on the patients, to prove for the whole world the truth of this religion.
Scientists have searched in the case of the impact of meditation on the minds . In an article published by BBC News website said Andrew Andrew Newberg Newburgh radiologist at the University of Pennsylvania in the United States "I believe that we are a wonderful time in our history, when we become able to explore religion and spiritual matters of the road did not think of one before it as possible."
A new book recently released in the United States to specialize in neuroscience, the book is a compendium of experiments and studies of the researcher Newburgh assistant professor at the University of Pennsylvania, has found this researcher that faith in God is very important and a very great sense of security and to improve the situation of the brain and its work, and that faith happens lasting changes in the Faakhr the way the brain of Alzheimer's disease, and helps the person to adapt to the surroundings for a better life. It should be noted that the researcher is not a Muslim, but puts the results of his experiments in a neutral result of his study of the brain through technology SPECT. Reference www.andrewnewberg.com / change.asp
In the scientific study of new scientists in the United States of America to fulfill the obligation of prayer in Islam is considered a useful way to ease the pain of the joints and back, as contained in the standing and bowing and prostration.
"Says Dr. Francis J." Supervisor of the research team, the team noted that people who are able to control and reduce their pain by religion and faith have less joint pain and be more stable in their psychological state, and throwing the highest support from the community.
Some researchers have found that praying for patients can contribute to alleviate the illness, he had a doctors, a San Francisco Randolph Byrd prayer request for two hundred heart patients, and found an improvement in their condition than those who left without a prayer. He has another researcher, William S. Harris had the same experience on a thousand heart patients, and observed that patients who called them friends even better recovery than those who left without a prayer.
In a study conducted in 1988 by the world Randolph Byrd study showed unexpected surprises, where the doctor found that the American supplication and prayer for cardiac patients lead to an improvement in their psychological state and health.
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macoooo ExperiencedThe narration you referred to in the question is authentic and it is reported by Al-Bukhaari, Muslim and others may Allaah have mercy upon them. The meaning of the narration is that the Prophet sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam ( may Allaah exalt his mention ) urged women to give charity and informed them that he sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam ( may Allaah exalt his mention ) saw that the majority of the dwellers of Hellfire were women. He sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam ( may Allaah exalt his mention ) clarified two reasons why women enter Hellfire. The first reason is that they curse too much, and the second one is that they are ungrateful to their husbands. If a husband has always been kind to his wife and she sees once what she considers as a mistake from him, she would say that she has never seen any good from him. The Prophet sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam ( may Allaah exalt his mention ) informed us about this because, generally speaking, this is a true. As soon as a wife has a dispute with her husband, she would forget all the good that he has done to her and she would say that she has never seen any good from him.
As regards why menses are considered as a deficiency in her religion; when a woman has her menses, she does not pray and she does not fast, as mentioned in the Prophetic narration; undoubtedly, this is a deficiency in religion. This is something that Allaah decreed on her, but He does not punish her for it [due to not being able to pray or fast], and the narration does not state that she enters Hellfire due to this.
The expression ...and I have not seen anyone more deficient in intelligence and religion... is a continuation of the narration and it is not stating the reason why they enter Hellfire.
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macoooo ExperiencedWhat is meaning here
Not allow-intercourse and input
During menstruation
this only
"As regards why menses are considered as a deficiency in her religion; when a woman has her menses, she does not pray and she does not fast, as mentioned in the Prophetic narration; undoubtedly, this is a deficiency in religion"
This is something I wonder about. The Quran expressly prohibits a man from approaching his wife during her monthly cycle:
And they ask you about menstruation. Say, "It is harm, so keep away from wives during menstruation. And do not approach them until they are pure. And when they have purified themselves, then come to them from where Allah has ordained for you. Indeed, Allah loves those who are constantly repentant and loves those who purify themselves." Quran 2:222
Muhammed said this:
Narrated Grandfather of Adi ibn Thabit
Allah's Messenger (peace be upon him) said: Sneezing, drowsing, yawning in prayer, also menstruation, vomiting and nose-bleeding are from (the acts of) Satan. Transmitted by Tirmidhi. (Tirmidhi Hadith, Number 315; ALIM CD-ROM Version)
But Muhammed was fondling Aisha in the bathtub during her period!!
Narrated 'Aisha:
The Prophet and I used to take a bath from a single pot while we were Junub. During the menses, he used to order me to put on an Izar (dress worn below the waist) and used to fondle me. While in Itikaf, he used to bring his head near me and I would wash it while I used to be in my periods (menses). (Sahih al-Bukhari, Volume 1, Book 6, Number 298)
Narrated 'Abdur-Rahman bin Al-Aswad:
(on the authority of his father) 'Aisha said: "Whenever Allah's Apostle wanted to fondle anyone of us during her periods (menses), he used to order her to put on an Izar and start fondling her." 'Aisha added, "None of you could control his sexual desires as the Prophet could." (Sahih al-Bukhari, Volume 1, Book 6, Number 299; see also Number 300)
What did Muhammed do to fondle these women?
Narrated Aisha, Ummul Mu'minin:
Umarah ibn Ghurab said that his paternal aunt narrated to him that she asked Aisha: What if one of us menstruates and she and her husband have no bed except one? She replied: I relate to you what the Apostle of Allah (peace_be_upon_him) had done.
One night he entered (upon me) while I was menstruating. He went to the place of his prayer, that is, to the place of prayer reserved (for this purpose) in his house. He did not return until I felt asleep heavily, and he felt pain from cold. And he said: Come near me. I said: I am menstruating. He said: Uncover your thighs. I, therefore, uncovered both of my thighs. Then he put his cheek and chest on my thighs and I lent upon he until he became warm and slept. (Sunan Abu Dawud, Book 1, Number 0270)
Yet Muhammed is taking baths with women on their periods and fondling them and in bed with them, uncovering their thighs and putting his head there. And reciting the Quran!
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macoooo ExperiencedFor a man to shake hands with a non-mahram woman (one to whom he is not related) is haraam and is not permitted at all. Among the evidence for this is the hadeeth of Maqal ibn Yassaar (may Allaah be pleased with him) who said: The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: If one of you were to be struck in the head with an iron needle, it would be better for him than if he were to touch a woman he is not allowed to. (Reported by al-Tabaraani; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Jaami, 5045).
There is no doubt that for a man to touch a non-mahram woman is one of the causes of fitnah (turmoil, temptation), provocation of desire and committing haraam deeds. No one should say that their intention is sound or their heart is clean, because the one who was the purest of heart and the most chaste of all, the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) never touched a non-mahram woman, even when accepting bayah (oath of allegiance) from women. He did not hold their hands when accepting their bayah, as he did with men; their bayah was by words only, as was reported by his wife Aaishah (may Allaah be pleased with her).
She said that the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) would test the believing women who emigrated to him with the aayah (interpretation of the meaning): O Prophet! When believeing women come to you to give you the bayah (pledge), that they will not associate anything in worship with Allaah, that they will not steal, that they will not commit illegal sexual intercourse, that they will not kill their children, that they will not utter slander, intentionally forging falsehood (i.e., by making illegal children belong to their husbands), and that thye will not disobey you in any maruf (Islamic monotheism and all that which Islam ordains), then accept their bayah and ask Allaah to forgive them. Verily Allaah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful. [al-Mumtahinah 60:12] Aaishah said: So whoever of the believing women agreed to these conditions, the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) would say to her: I have accepted your bayah by words. By Allaah, his hand never touched the hand of any woman when accepting their bayah; he accepted their bayah by saying I have accepted your bayah on this basis.
(Reported by al-Bukhaari, 4512; according to another report: he accepted their bayah by words the hand of the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) never touched the hand of any woman except a woman he owned . Reported by al-Bukhaari, 6674).
Some Muslims feel too embarrassed to refuse when a woman offers her hand to them. In addition to mixing with women, some of them claim that they are forced to shake hands with fellow-students and teachers in schools and universities, or with colleagues in the workplace, or in business meetings and so on, but this is not an acceptable excuse. The Muslim should overcome his own feelings and the promptings of the Shaytaan, and be strong in his faith, because Allaah is not ashamed of the truth. The Muslim could apologize politely and explain that the reason he does not want to shake hands is not to offend or hurt anybodys feelings, but it is because he is following the teachings of his religion. In most cases this will earn him respect from others. There is no harm done if they find it strange at first, and it may even be a practical opportunity for dawah.
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Hey macoo, how's it going?
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macoooo Experiencedpeace be upon you brother
alhamdolallah
I ask Allah make you happy, make you smile, guide you
safely, though every mile, grant you wealth, give you
health & most of all grant you paradise!
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A British man came to Muslim Person and asked:
Why is it not permissible in Islam for women to shake hands with a man?
The Muslim Person said:
Can you shake hands with Queen Elizabeth?
British man said:
Of course no, there are only certain people who can shake hands with Queen Elizabeth.
Muslim Person replied:
Our women are queens and queens do not shake hands with strange men.
Then the British man asked the Muslim Person:
Why do your girls cover up their body and hair?
The Muslim Person smiled and got two sweets, he opened the first one and kept the other one closed. He threw them both on the dusty floor and asked the British:
If I ask you to take one of the sweets which one will you choose?
The British replied:
The covered one.
The Muslim Person said:
That's how we treat and see our woman
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macoooo Experiencedasking this question knows that shaking hands with a non-mahram woman is not permitted, then it is obvious that hugging or embracing her is also haraam and is more forbidden. The ruling on a relative who is not a mahram is the same as the ruling on a stranger (non-mahram).
With regard to relatives who are mahrams, such as paternal aunts and maternal aunts, it is permissible for a man to shake hands with them, but as for hugging and embracing and kissing on the mouth, this is not allowed because that may provoke desire, and disallowing it closes the door to evil. It is sufficient to kiss the head or nose.
s, because Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
And when you ask (his wives) for anything you want, ask them from behind a screen, that is purer for your hearts and for their hearts
[al-Ahzaab 33:53]
This verse includes both the wives of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and other women, according to the more sound of the two scholarly opinions. Whoever says that it applies only to the wives of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) is saying something false for which there is no evidence. Allaah says concerning women in Soorat al Noor:
and not to reveal their adornment except to their husbands, or their fathers, or their husbands fathers
[al-Noor 24:31 interpretation of the meaning]
And the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said, when a woman wanted to shake hands with him: I do not shake hands with women. And Aaishah (may Allaah be pleased with her) said: The hand of the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) never touched the hand of a woman; when he accepted their oath of allegiance it was by words only. And it was narrated in al-Saheehayn from Aaishah, in the story of the slander (al-ifk), that she said that when she heard the voice of Safwaan ibn al-Muattal, I covered my face, but he had seen me before hijaab [before the command of hijaab was revealed]. This indicates that women used to cover their faces after the verse of hijaab was revealed.
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macoooo AdvancedAbdullh Ibn S*mit reports on the authority of Ab Dharr that the Prophet (sws) said: When any one of you stands for prayer he is covered [from the passers by] if there is a thing before him equal to the back of the saddle. In case there is no such thing before him, his prayer would be nullified if a menstruating woman, a donkey or a black dog [passes in front of him]. (Muslim, No: 510)
-Narrated Aisha:
The things which annul the prayers were mentioned before me. They said, Prayer is annulled by a dog, a donkey and a woman (if they pass in front of the praying people)
I see that your talk to these three is not intended to invalidate the prayer,
But it may be intended to revoke reverence or deficiency
, What happens to prayers of fear of donkey and dog and craving for women,
And deeds are urged to take the jacket so as not to allow the passage of these things in front of him,
I say: not settle in contempt never a big difference,
But topic based reservists not to engage in prayer such black dog
Ass, and wishes such women,
And its impact on the concern does not deny,
Prophet rejected because they are preoccupied with it,
This Hadth has been rejected by the learned among the companions of the Prophet (sws). The reason is that it offends common sense and does not conform to basic religious teachings. I will only mention the following comments of ishah (rta) in this regard:
Do you make us [women] equal to dogs and donkeys? (She is referring to the saying ascribed to the Prophet quoted above). While I used to lie in my bed, the Prophet would come and pray facing the middle of the bed. I used to consider it not good to stand in front of him in his prayers. So I used to slip away slowly and quietly from the foot of the bed till I got out of my quilt. (Bukhr, No: 486)
The things which annul the prayers were mentioned before me. They said: The prayer is annulled by a dog, a donkey and a woman [if they pass in front of the praying people]. I said, You have rendered us (i.e. women) dogs. I saw the Prophet praying while I used to lie in my bed between him and the Qiblah. Whenever I was in need of something, I would slip away for I disliked facing him. (Bukhr, No: 489)
I used to sleep in front of Allahs Apostle with my legs opposite his Qiblah [facing him]; and whenever he prostrated, he pushed my feet and I withdrew them and whenever he stood, I stretched them. She added, In those days there were no lamps in the houses. (Bukhr, No: 491)
The above Ah*dth evidently proves that the issue was raised before the Companions of the Prophet (sws) and the learned among them have opined that it does not hold water.
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