perfume & Women
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Women should not laugh out loud in public, Deputy Prime Minister Blent Arn has said while complaining about moral corruption in Turkey.
Speaking during an Eid el-Fitr meeting on July 28, Arn described his ideal of the chaste man or woman, saying they should both have a sense of shame and honor.
Chastity is so important. It is not only a name. It is an ornament for both women and men. [She] will have chasteness. Man will have it, too. He will not be a womanizer. He will be bound to his wife. He will love his children. [The woman] will know what is haram and not haram. She will not laugh in public. She will not be inviting in her attitudes and will protect her chasteness, Arn said, adding that people had abandoned their values today.
People needs to discover the Quran once again, Arn said, adding that there had been a regression on moral grounds.
Where are our girls, who slightly blush, lower their heads and turn their eyes away when we look at their face, becoming the symbol of chastity? he said.
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Give respect and you will be respected ............
The Reality Facts...
Those deviate from these norms of decent life will face trouble..
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macoooo Experiencedsomeone told me
Women have their reasons for converting to Islam in as far as they do convert. For example, there was a story in the Blaze this summer about a Playboy bunny who made this conversion precisely in order to excuse covering up. She reports being happy with the results. She writes on her blog: "Yes, I was a Playboy Bunny. [I've] done shoots in lingerie, bikinis and attires that are not exactly meant to protect my modestybut really, all these achievements got me thinking of a womans worth. I believe I am more worthy than showing off my body. I am MORE than this. I started to look for something deepera religion, a God, a better way of living life." And later she concludes: "I wanted to cover myself up morebe respected and known for who I am insidenot for how much flesh I am showing outside. The first time I put on a hijab was when I went for local telco company TVC castingand I looked at myself, and I feel liberatedI feel so happy and protectedI feel safe."
Sounds actually kind of feminist, doesn't it? You see, in reality, having to be immodest is not essentially different from having to be modest. When pressured into doing one thing, many people instinctively want to rebel against that pressure sooner or later and voluntarily go in the opposite direction. Islam became this young woman's excuse. It became a source of security and empowerment for her. That can happen! It's for these sorts of reasons that I'm not as judgmental of Islam or other religions as such as some outsiders to the faith in question are. Most seriously religious people (about 3 out of 5 overall, according to a 2011 survey by Pew Research) are female. There are reasons why that happens. Women don't usually convert in order to become homebound wives and mothers. They convert because they find something empowering in a particular faith that matters more to them than other things.
If I may offer a personal opinion, I believe that when Westerners assail Islam, their motivations are usually a lot more racist than authentically feminist, with Islam simply functioning as a socially acceptable stand-in for a direct assault on someone else's race or nationality. Most Western anti-Islam crusaders in reality are also opposed to things like abortion rights, equal pay and other anti-discrimination laws, and so on and so on. They're not real feminists. They're just posers who are seizing upon the fact that our society is having a feminist moment right now in order to rationalize a more ethnic prejudice.
Why are we Muslims and not Christians? - Dr. Laurence Brown
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macoooo Experienced
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DreamOfNight Novicelook, i know it's your personal thing and you probably like writing all of this, but what's the point? you're spreading islamic messages, great but why? no one will read these, no one is gonna watch those videos. people are just gonna say that this religion is sexiest. you're just... wasting time! i know, it's your own time, none of my business. still i was curious, why are you doing this? what's the point?
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There are some things in this world man was not meant to know. Macooo is one of them. They are beyond your comprehension.
Is he a bot? Is he person? Why does he make a new thread every couple of months? These are questions we'll never truly know the answer to.
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That would explain a lot, if he were a bot...
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macoooo Experiencedthanks brothers for sharing
To talk about Islam and the Qur'an and Sunnah
The duty of every Muslim man and woman and this is from allah
allah says in the Holy Qur'an ((125) Invite to the way of your Lord with wisdom and good instruction, and argue with them in a way that is best. Indeed, your Lord is most knowing of who has strayed from His way, and He is most knowing of who is [rightly] guidedghtly] guided
Clarify the truth does not mean a lack of respect
Must clarify the facts and propagate
This is the function of the prophets, peace be upon them
To guide people from darkness to light
Not in the food and drink only
But in all aspects of life
I and many like me all over the world continue in conveying the message to the people
Everyone is free to choose
Imagine with me
Moses or Jesus peace be upon them
Speaking here at the site instead of me I
Is your answer obedience or disobedience??
Women's Rights in Islam Protected Or Subjugated? - Dr. Zakir Naik
Dr ZakirNaik YouTube
Dr ZakirNaik YouTube
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i just believe he/she is a very strong believer of god. props for devotion, bro.
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macoooo ExperiencedIs love before marriage better?
What is more stable in Islam, a love marriage or an arranged marriage?
Praise be to Allaah.
The issue of this marriage depends on the ruling on what came before it. If the love between the two parties did not transgress the limits set by Allaah or make them commit sin, then there is the hope that the marriage which results from this love will be more stable, because it came about as the result of the fact that each of them wanted to marry the other.
If a man feels some attraction towards a woman whom it is permissible for him to marry her, and vice versa, there is no answer to the problem except marriage. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: We do not think that there is anything better for those who love one another than marriage. (Narrated by Ibn Maajah, 1847; classed as saheeh by al-Busayri and by Shaykh al-Albaani in al-Silsilah al-Saheehah, 624)
Al-Sindi said, as noted in Haamish Sunan Ibn Maajah:
The phrase We do not think that there is anything better for those who love one another than marriage may be understood to refer to two or to more than two. What this means is that if there is love between two people, that love cannot be increased or made to last longer by anything like marriage. If there is marriage as well as that love, that love will increase and grow stronger every day.
But if that marriage comes about as a result of an illicit love relationship, such as when they meet and are alone together and kiss one another, and other haraam actions, then it will never be stable, because they committed actions that go against shareeah and because they have built their lives on things that will have the effect of reducing blessings and support from Allaah, for sin is a major factor in reducing blessings, even though some people think, because of the Shaytaans whispers, that falling in love and doing haraam deeds makes marriage stronger.
Moreover, these illicit relationships that take place before marriage will be a cause to make each party doubtful about the other. The husband will think that his wife may possibly have a similar relationship with someone else, and even if he thinks it unlikely, he will still be troubled by the fact that his wife did do something wrong with him. And the same thoughts may occur to the wife too, and she will think that her husband could possibly have an affair with another woman, and even if she thinks it unlikely, she will still be troubled by the fact that her husband did something wrong with her.
So each partner will live in a state of doubt and suspicion, which will ruin their relationship sooner or later.
The husband may condemn his wife for having agreed to have a relationship with him before marriage, which will be upsetting for her, and this will cause their relationship to deteriorate.
Hence we think that if a marriage is based upon an illicit premarital relationship, it will most likely be unstable and will not be successful.
With regard to arranged marriages where the family chooses the partner, they are not all good and not all bad. If the family makes a good choice and the woman is religious and beautiful, and the husband likes her and wants to marry her, then there is the hope that their marriage will be stable and successful. Hence the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) urged the one who wants to get married to look at the woman. It was narrated from al-Mugheerah ibn Shubah that he proposed marriage to a woman, and the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said, Go and look at her, because that is more likely to create love between you. (Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, 1087; classed as hasan by al-Nasaai, 3235)
But if the family make a bad choice, or they make a good choice but the husband does not agree with it, then this marriage is most likely doomed to failure and instability, because the marriage that is based on lack of interest usually is not stable.
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macoooo Experiencedthank you brother
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macoooo ExperiencedPlease note that you will never be able to live your life without sins and mistakes. This is the nature of man. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: Every son of Adam commits sin, and the best of those who commit sin are those who repent. Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, 2499; Ibn Maajah, 4251; classed as hasan by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Tirmidhi. This hadeeth clearly indicates that man will inevitably commit sin, but what matters after that is what he does about his sin. The believer repents to Allaah from all his sins, gives them up and asks Allaah for forgiveness every time he commits a sin, and he regrets doing it and resolves sincerely not to do it again. If you do that, then understand that Allaah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful; He forgives all sins for the righteous believer who repents sincerely and admits his sin humbly before Allaah. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
Say: O Ibaadi (My slaves) who have transgressed against themselves (by committing evil deeds and sins)! Despair not of the Mercy of Allaah, verily, Allaah forgives all sins. Truly, He is Oft Forgiving, Most Merciful
[al-Zumar 39:53]
The sin that you have admitted to is not zina with your wife! Rather it is kissing her in front of other people, because there is no zina with one's wife, rather zina is done with a woman whom it is not permissible for a man to touch. But in the case of a wife, it is permissible to touch her.
It is not permissible for a man or a woman to speak to anyone else of what happens between them in bed which no one else should see but them, because of the evils and temptations that result from that and because it opens the door to the shaytaan. This has to do with one who speaks about what he did with his wife, so how about one who does things in front of people where they can see him!
Shaykh Muhammad ibn Ibraaheem (may Allaah have mercy on him) said in his Fataawa that kissing ones wife in front of people is not permissible.
This is one of the things that go against true manliness or chivalry (muruah). It is very cheap and vulgar to do this in front of people, because this is a kind of foreplay with one's wife in front of others. So keep away from doing such things. You can show your love for her in other ways, and when you are alone with her, you can do whatever you like, within reason
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macoooo Experiencedthanks brother
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macoooo Experienced
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I honestly think you're a troll.
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