Rant time.
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Thread Topic: Rant time.
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I can't believe I just read all of this. 8O Not that I don't care, just that its so BLOODY LONG!!
Nice rant though! -
Arisu, I know it doesn't help to say this but I really know how you feel and I love you. D: Just recently I tried to stop myself from taking my own medication, and I was losing it. I finally gave in and it's helped me at least be stable, so I really hope you get yours as soon as you can.
This is another case of me wishing I was with you guys, so I could make a damn difference. I care about you all so much and I wish I could do something about it. I'm sorry to hear your dad's behaving like he is. My dad went through a phrase when I was... I think either 12 or 13, when he came back from Iraq. He and my mom were always arguing, his PTSD was absolutely horrible, and he seemed almost suicidal. I was so afraid during that time, wondering if all their fighting would lead to divorce or him hurting himself. Though in time he got help and support to get better, and I think that's really important, but they need to recognize when they have a problem.
I know the situation is different for you, but even in his problems and issues, he is blind if he doesn't realize how wonderful, beautiful, and talented of a daughter you are, Alice. I mean that. You deserve to have had him be a better father to you, and not to abandon you and your mother. Who is he to think you have to meet his standards when he hasn't met his? He needs to learn to care about his family better, and admit when he's wrong, to he can get support and get better.
It's good to rant and get things out. I'm always here for you if you need to talk or anything. You could even call me if you wanted. You're really one of the best friends anyone could ask for, Alice, so I want to be there for you. And please don't hurt yourself, I know it's hard and I've had those urges before as well. Just know that you're loved and it will get better. -
Beat up stuffed animals.
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I didn't know how to respond to this because you guys are so wonderful. ;3; Really.
Appay, I'll go with that. It'll at least get rid of my tension.
Ana, I know that for you it seems like saying that doesn't really matter, but it does. Really it does. ;.; You made me feel a lot better.
And I'm sorry to know that you had to go through all that with your mother and father. I only know partially what that would feel like, so I really couldn't compare at this point. But I'm so happy to know that it's gotten better for you.
Really, you guys.. thank you.. -
*huggles tight* I'm glad it does, mi amiga. :o You're always welcome.
It's fine. :3 We all have to go through something. I'm just really thankful they came back from it, and I pray that your parents do too. Just remember that whatever happens between them is not your fault, and you can't be perfect. -
I suppose I'm not needed here. Nothing I could possibly say could make you feel better anyway.
But your father is just that. A father. He helped create you. But that's all he did. A dad is a man who tries everything to see his child and helps raise his child. Teaches him/her how to do certain things. Plays games with them. And spends time with them.
A real man is not a father, a real man is a dad.
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