Vent thread I'll probably forget about
Thread Topic: Vent thread I'll probably forget about
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.Jesus, I'm getting a headache from how much my brain is fighting with itself-
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You okay?
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Not really. It's fine tho, just being an insecure little s---, I should be fine in the morning
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Fair enough, I get that. If you need to talk about anything I’m always here
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Yeah. Idk it's mostly just inner transphobia (that's only towards me for some reason lol) or REALLY CRINGE roMaNcE sTuFFs (we didn't get in a fight or anything, I'm just really insecure and stupid when it comes to this stuff lmao)
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I feel you man. But like, ik I can’t tell you to stop feeling those things, but you’re amazing. (Lmao I feel you)
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Lol thanks (ikrrrr)
Ok so ima rant about my rOmAnCe inSeCuriTy and you don't have to respond because it's CRINGEY but like
Jesus this is so cringe but like I'm so insecure over her being my girlfriend. It's very much a me problem and not a her problem, but like, she liked me pre-transition. So it's scary wondering why she still likes me in a weird way. Like, it makes me super insecure
Also I was her bi awakening, and she was straight before meeting me, which makes it even more weird, but whenever I explain any of this to anyone they're like "aWh sO sWeeT aNd RoManTic" and it's like, yeah, but it's also so, so scary because like, what if she only likes me because she still thinks of me as a girl, or something like that? What if she only likes the feminine aspects of me?
and ik it's me getting into my own head, but that doesn't make it any better, yknow? -
You’re all good lol.
Ok, I kinda get it. The best thing maybe you can do is ask her? Like ik it could be awkward and this might just be me being dumb, but most people don’t really like people for their masculinity or femininity if that makes sense? Like idk how to explain it but if she uses your pronouns and name like a girlfriend would, idk she probably thinks of you as a guy. But nobody except creepos define ppl by their gender. And if she’s liked you all this time, it’s probably bc of way more than your feminine aspects -
Thanks, that advice and support was actually really great to hear lol
It's weird tho, because I know her. Ik she doesn't view me like that. It's just my tRaNspHoBic part of my brain going "but nobody would really like you like that unless it's for shallow, dumb--- gendered reasons, idiot" and it's messing with me -
That’s good, glad I could help <3
I feel that, but trust me you’re too amazing for that lol. Like no good person would go ‘oH tHaT’s A tRaNs GuY hE mUsT bE a GiRl’ yk? -
You have no idea how much you help me out lol, you're a literal lifesaver <3
Thanks. Yeah, I get that. Idk man my brains been messing with me lately lol -
Good, I’m glad lol <3 always here if you need it
Lol I feel you, just reach out if you need anything ok? Bc like I get what you’re going through, it sucks -
I'm so glad I know you lol <3 same here, bestie
Yeah, I will, don't worry -
Me too lol. Slay pookie
Good lol -
You're literally the best, goyosapien :)
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