Shrouded despair and forgotten ambitions
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Thread Topic: Shrouded despair and forgotten ambitions
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Like, okay, maybe I am overreacting. And yes, this sh is my fault. But I shouldn’t have to deal with you yelling at me at 3am? Like am I the only one who sees something wrong with that?
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you’re definitely not the only one. i- i can’t f---ing believe she’s treating you like this, honestly. her own child. some ppl really shouldn’t be parents, imo-
i really feel awful that you have to deal with her getting mad at you and getting all up in your private business. i definitely kind of understand, my own mom gets all in my business too and it pisses me the hell off. and i’m sure that she has her reasons and really does just do these things because “she knows whats best”, but that’s- yelling at you because you hurt yourself? threatening to send you to a hospital? that’s not f---ing okay, she needs to get her damn priorities straight. -
Thank you. I kinda just needed someone to tel me I wasn’t doing anything wrong, cause yk, self doubt and s---, so I appreciate you for that. I agree, like I get her intentions, but getting mad at me for hurting myself isn’t okay…
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not a problem, mate :)
seriously tho, that’s not okay, the way she’s handling this situation. i hope you’re able to find someone to talk to about this irl, who can help you. -
Thanks dude :)
I agree, like getting mad at me is just not it. Thank you, I just have to wait for them to wake up lmao. -
lmaoo real
honestly i definitely feel like this is something you might need to talk to her about? like, i understand if you don’t feel comfortable or safe to like, have a talk with her about how she’s been treating you- and if that’s the case, then i would suggest not? but if you think you can get her to have a civilized conversation with you (ofc with someone else in the room with you if that would make things easier on you), i would definitely try-
or at least maybe try talking to your therapist about this, unless if she like, tells your mom everything y’all talk about, then maybe not-
honestly, one of the biggest reasons why i don’t have one is bc i don’t want my parents learning abt how f---ed up my brain is ^^’ -
I tried, man. I’m still just being dramatic and selfish to her. Like, I told her what’s been bothering me abt her and what she’s that’s not helping my self esteem, but apparently I need to be less critical of her because I’m just that much of a jerk ig. Idk why she thinks I did the cuts, but ik she thinks the reasons I gave her for why I’m doing the cuts is bs. Idek anymore man.
I’m definitely thinking of telling my therapist, but idk when my next appointment with her is. She gives my mum a summary of what we’ve talked about, which sucks, but at least it’s not the details. I would’ve already told her about the sh if she wasn’t obliged to tell my mum that I wanted to hurt myself, but my mum already knows now, so like…
I just wish she would stop yelling at me to stop. Like I haven’t since she found out, but it’s out of fear because she’ll yell at me if I do it again -
that’s seriously not f---ing okay of her, dude, like- boutta roll up and take you away, frfr lmfao
and that’s like, such a childish response to you telling her that the way she’s acting isn’t okay. it’s so f---ing stupid, like- i- i have no f---ing words-
and yeah, that’s like, exactly why i don’t want a therapist, at least while i’m living with my mom, if i have issues, it’s not really any of your damn business. and like, the fact that she’s saying you’re bulls---ting about why you feel this way and why you’re hurting yourself is just- it’s f---ing awful.
and i wish she’d stop yelling at you too, dude :’) you should not have to live in fear of your own mother- to be fair, same sometimes, but like that’s only bc i don’t want her finding out abt gtq lmao -
Please do, I’m f---ing tired of this s--- :’)
Ikr! Like I shouldn’t have to deal with that, right? She’s obviously never sh-ed bc of the way she’s responding to this. Like, it’s not my fault I feel this way? She’s refusing to try and understand so like what does she want me to do? Just stop altogether? Like no, that’s not how it works. She literally told me she doesn’t trust me bc I tried to lie about it when she first found out - I f---in wonder why
Me too, dude. And like, being 18 seems so frickin far away, I just can’t anymore. Like I’m actually scared of her. Idk what to do until my dad gets home -
alr, lemme fly all the way to australia and pull up xD
apparantly, like s---- she has no f---ing sympathy, from what is sounds like, jesus christ-
and yeah! no wonder you don’t trust her! god, i wouldn’t trust her either, if she was my mother-
i feel that. i’m only like, around a month away from being 18, but it still feels so far away. i mean, it’s not like i’m moving out n s--- right as soon as i turn 18, but still-
have you ever talked to your dad abt how she’s been treating you? have you mentioned anything to your sister? -
Yes go do that xD
Fr, and like, she’s always telling me to have empathy to other people, which I do, and then she shows her “care” by yelling at me-
That’s good that you’re almost 18, f---in lucky dude :’) fair enough, but at least you’ll have more control over stuffs
Eh, a little bit. Idrk. He either sides with her or just stays out of it. My sister knows how much of an ass my mum is to me, but since my mum doesn’t rlly treat her the same way and she’s considerably younger not really. Like I sometimes confide in her abt shizz but she doesn’t know about the sh -
me pullin up be like: get in loser, we’re goin to the us 😎😎 (lmao not the mean girls reference-)
yeah uh, i’m pretty sure that’s not how you show you “care”, like- tf??
and, you’d think that, but like- ik nothing’s really gonna change until i move out. like, honestly, i really highly doubt she’ll give me any freedom…
i feel like you should maybe try talking to him abt it? unless you don’t feel safe enough to, then that’s valid, honestly. and yeah, that’s fair, i probably wouldn’t want her knowing and making her worry either, if she was my sister- -
Lmfao real
Yeah, it’s so fckin dumb
Yeah, fair enough. At least she can’t use the “I’m the adult you’re the child” card lol
Idk, man. Maybe -
who knows, maybe i’ll just move out n be like- peace out- lol
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Hopefully lol, wishing you the best
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