I wonder why people tend to be depressed now...
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Thread Topic: I wonder why people tend to be depressed now...
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LovingSchool NoviceJust, a lot of people around me..
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LovingSchool NoviceSadly more
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Your username is making me cringe.... For real... Not joking... e_o
Well, at least you're not depressed. I'm not exactly depressed, but my self-esteem is crap. -
Life is filled with suffering, but what matters is how we react to it. Do we take victim mentality or do something proactive?
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They are probably depressed because there is "nothing to smile about" or they are sick of their fate and all that jazz. I don't know... maybe they are going through some rocky mountains while you are walking through on the sidewalk instead. (Figurate language....). Whatever it is, it's just what happens. There is really nothing much to say to support depression, for times get rougher and rougher by the passing days. But if you are NOT depressed, then don't be hasty and just let them (whoever is depressed) be.
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LovingSchool NoviceYes.. But I want to like Pinkie
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You can't expect to solve everyone's problems, and fix everything that needs to be fixed in the world. School's started, more stress is hanging around, and most people just don't know how to react to it in a positive way and manage their time better. They probably have some other problems to deal with, too. Don't expect to save everyone, and fix their problems; I tried to do that one time and realized it was a huge mistake because they were only bringing pain on themselves. Trust me on this, you can't be there for them as much as you'd like, and you won't be able to fix their problems, that's just a life lesson you're going to have to learn sooner, rather than later, because I don't want you to make the same stupid ass mistakes as I did and get hurt over it. What you need to do is worry about you and not let that negativity get to you (and don't you dare pull that "it's hard to smile" bulls--- on me too, because your mood will always depend on how you're reacting to something, like stress from school and all that other s--- they're supposed to be teaching you in health). There are therapists for your friends or whoever you think is depressed to go to; don't feel obligated to be there for them, and always put your own time and effort into their problems, because they're probably never going to thank you for it or repay you back later in life; we're not in Hollywood, you'll need to learn that too, things never turn out like the movies. Just worry about you, do what you need to do, and let them see a professional. You're probably really young, I'm guessing, anyway. Too young to be worried about other people's problems. Keep your head up high, worry about yourself, and leave it to trained therapists and/or councilors; they're there for a reason. You shouldn't have to save the day, and in fact I suggest you don't; doing good things for one or a few people never got the good guy anywhere. (but I'm not saying be an a--hole about it either. Keep in mind I'm giving out s---ty advice at one in the morning as I'm taking a break from homework) Their attitude depends on their reaction from stress; if they can't handle it, you shouldn't be obligated to try and magically help them and fix all the problems they have, because it's not going to happen. Once they finally decide to work to pull themselves out of that pit, it'll only be then that things actually get better for them, so you just worry about you.
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Sudden changes in the weather, aspects of their personal life, etcetera.
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