How long can you hold a grudge?
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Thread Topic: How long can you hold a grudge?
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I can't hold a grudge very long at all. As soon as they show c even the tiniest shred of guilt, I forgive immediately. This is a flaw of mine. Truth be told, I don't have time for grudges.
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It could be forever for me, I'm a grudgey person lol. Although it won't be something small and insignificant, it would be something that had hurt me
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Mine will last a few days if it's something that hurt me but if it's insignificant I couldn't hold that grudge for even 15 min.
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literally allllll of the grudges
I can't remember whether I've eaten today but I'll sure as hell remember if someone f---s with me or anyone I care about and I'll hold onto it forever
probably not actually a good thing but I still take pride in my ability to commit to hating people -
I can hold one for years
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^Me too
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*That was to A Scorching Snow
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i can hold a grudge for quite a while, even if the person has changed. it depends on what the person did.
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totally depends on the person. confrontation gives me anxiety so unless a person directly brings up the situation ill usually hold silent grudges for anywhere from thirty minutes to 10 years.
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I can hold a half-grudge for years.
By "half-grudge" I mean I still greatly dislike them but want to be on better terms with them for some reason. Even if they did me wrong and I was defending myself.
As far as real grudges, I hold those until maybe the next meal. Like I'll be sitting there thinking about how I want to murder someone and then I get some stroganoff and suddenly everything is better. -
stroganoff is the key to world peace
Appa finally saved society -
When I was younger I would hold grudges for a long time, if it was towards someone who seriously hurt me or my family. I would resent them so much, and I'd treasure that resentment.
Now I've forgiven that person, and I try to continue to forgive. It's like a weight being lifted off the shoulders. -
I can forgive if the person proves that they feel guilty and are sorry, but otherwise I can easily hate someone and for very long periods of time.
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Grudges only survive as long as you are willing to be unforgiving.
Just forgive and forget. -
It really depends on what they did and who did it, if its something benign I'll get over it within a few hours or days but if its something serious I hold on to that.I might not plot revenge or anything but my relationship with that person won't be the same.
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