Were gonna have a good day
Thread Topic: Were gonna have a good day
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i lost my 262 snap score with my neighbor and he always snaps me looking super happy and im not kidding he looked so unimpressed and downright pissed off when i lost it
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"i dont feel like the one. i feel like the one who helps you find the one"
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i dont need somebody who understands what im going through
i dont need somebody who understands my favorite things
i need somebody who understands that i like something, and even if they dont understand it or like it, allows me to liek it -
sooo im going for a late night swim tn
with just the outside lights on ooopies -
I get so sad when someone that I’ve interacted with like once unadds me
like there was a snake in the car once so I put it on my story and a guy replied to it and sounded genuinely interested in how we got it out
So I told him and stuff and he was like so invested it was funny
then he goes: “alright y’all stay safe”
And I was like “aw thanks u too”
And it was a very pleasant conversation and then I go through my unadded tonight and he unadded me
like how does he not remember that I thought I was a really nice conversation -
girls girl but how come all her friends are hyping her up in her comment section, and her only acknowledgement of them is a like
whilst the guys wont even call her pretty or say that they miss her being there, instead calling her posts ugly and saying that they dont know why she's even posting and saying its annoying because its such a funny "joke"
and she replies to them
stop putting hoes over ur friends -
like reply to ur comments
stop chasing guys
youre better than this
look me in the eyes motherf---er and say u wont do it again -
ur man needs to stop adding other girls on snap
u should be his priority
u should be enough, you ARE enough, but he should know that too -
see im arguing with this guy rn because i was explaining the barbie movie to him when he said that they portrayed men poorly
if you just switched the gender of every character in the movie, it would be your typical american film
just because ur a man and ur ignorant -
then gets mad at me for doing the things that he does
talking over me? fine. talking over him? stupid feminist -
hes acting like i cant act the way he acts towards me
oh im so sorry youre not a woman because you would explode -
like me and every other girl in the world go through this every day, and as soon as we start doing it back to you it's like "oppression"
and i cant even phrase it properly. like as soon as we do things that men say to us, it's so horrible because if we stand up for ourselves, we're "annoying feminists". But if we don't, we're pushovers.
And the idea of men not being the center of the universe is like such a foreign concept to them. -
Hey, I know you have a lot going on. This all seems to be a reoccurring issue. I know you probably already know this, but I just want to remind you that there are good men out there. And the keyword is "men" not "boys". I know you're not old enough for men, yet, but at this day and age, you can really see the age gap between the maturity of girls compared to boys. Keep I mind it's a scientific fact that boys mature at slower rates, not to excuse their behavior.
Boys online aren't the most reliable, which is a general fact for most people online. And people who don't give the time of day to really engage with you, you're probably better off without. The fact that you notice all of these issues indicates that your maturity is on a higher level, thus the typical guy your age will not suffice.
Finally, I want to tell you that there's nothing wrong with being single, and as you're still young, you still have a lot of time to see what guys life has to offer.
I just wanted to make sure I said all this because while I understand you're venting you're frustrations, I'd hate to see you grow bitter and disgusted towards men as a whole. There are some good ones out there who really wouldn't deserve that.
I hope things get better for you, and I apologize for invading. 🖤 -
Thank you so, so much for this. I really appreciate you coming in and saying that. i really need to make sure that im also focusing on the good parts of guys because sometimes i feel like i go on and on about how much some people suck, rather than how great others are
tysm tho -
i feel like i focus more on the bad than the good, bc tbh i dont think id be venting over something good but i definitely need to keep in mind that one guy doesnt represent all of them
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