Speak, friend, and enter.
Thread Topic: Speak, friend, and enter.
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It hates me
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I wonder why this doesn't work for me -
Quotev is kind of coming to an end so I guess that's my sign to stop popping in every now and then to see what everyone is up to
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Bruh can't believe I'm moving away from FL in a week
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Wow I haven't seen a marvel movie in forever. The intro gave me deja vu
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gojo cat pfp :00
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Ugh I love gojo cat :D
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I feel like I should be slightly concerned about my ex best friend, but also hasn't she done this to herself? Like this is what she wants right?
- met her husband late Aug 2023
- engaged to her husband Oct 2023
- married her husband Jan 2024
- I said hey don't you think you're moving a little fast? Like maybe at least date for 6 months I don't think you're being wise?
- she said shut up you're judging me every relationship is different
- I said you don't have to listen, but you shouldn't try to shut me up. I have a right to be honest especially considering we've been friends for 8 yrs
- she said no back off
- I said ok guess we're not actually friends if all you want in your life is a cheerleader
- her whole family gives me and my family a cold shoulder for a month
- I am not invited to the wedding, I offer to call her on her wedding day and express my congrats, she does not allow me to call her
- she shuns my family, her family starts pretending like we're all best friends and nothing happened
- sometime mid 2024, she also ends her friendship with our other good friend, who she's been close with for abt 4 years because our friend doesnt have a significant other and doesnt go to her church
- Oct 2024, she announces she's pregnant, even though she told me she and her husband wanted to wait a few years when they were dating, she also makes it seem like they've been praying to get pregnant (i.e. announcing this is not an accident)
Like... I'm concerned because everything she's done since she met her husband is so contradictory to what she had told me she wanted in life. She cut off her two best friends. And honestly we still don't know what her husband is like. He has no social media. They don't have mutual friends. He just moved to the area and immediately started dating her. -
Oh also he's a little rich. He has some sort of online business and works remotely. He has a $90K truck. He's still mid-20s. He went to the same college I did for a little, but dropped out. He was part of a party group, roomed with the lacrosse players. And apparently his best man at the wedding was like "remember when we would get blackout drunk?"
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But it's like... Have a little common sense? No matter what flowery things he told you when y'all were dating, look at the facts? You don't know him or his past and can he actually prove his story, or is he telling you what you want to hear?
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And she just said I was acting like I was better than her, and got mad at me for saying there was no one to hold her man accountable
Like girl I was just concerned about you being manipulated by a man was that so hard to see? I never even said to breakup, I just said maybe you should wait a little -
It's been a year since we fought but idk the pregnant thing makes me uneasy because she specifically told me they were in agreement that they were going to wait a while because they value the time spent getting to know each other
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It kind of feels like they need to keep introducing something new bc at the end of the day, they have no foundation for why they love each other. They got a puppy quickly after. She doesn't work... She spends her time reading fiction books. This might be an exaggeration, like maybe she helps him with his work. And I stalk their Pinterests, so I know they're always adding stuff related to home decor or on his page, random couple lists like "25 pillow talk ideas" or "how to be a good Christian husband"
Idk what to make of that. Does a good Christian husband need a list to tell him what he already knows? Or does he need it bc he doesn't know? Or does he save it bc it resonates with him? Or does he save it as a facade?
Point being, if you're a couple that always needs something new, you're not comfortable just being with each other as you are. Meaning, when time inevitably makes you both feel stuck in a stage of life, and the things you focused on besides each other stops, you're going to have a hard time. This is why many couples divorce once they become empty-nesters -
I also have a hard time believing the happy posts "happy Valentine's to my forever Valentine" etc like sometimes I think that's just for public opinion. I know a couple that does this, but their real life marriage sucks. It just feels so forced. I don't believe for a second that she's perfectly happily married
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