Something happened and I was intending to type it
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Thread Topic: Something happened and I was intending to type it
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That's really unhealthy. I don't know what to tell you.
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Xbear NewbieI know, that's why I was/am hesitant about telling anyone.
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Xbear NewbieSorry, no one wants to hear I know I wouldn't either
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Xbear NewbieUnhealthy of me or of them? I really want some more people's opinions of their behaviour please and of the whole thing.
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Xbear NewbieIf you read this and think it's bad then at least say that please. I'm in the middle of this so need outside people to say.
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care_bear19 NoviceI honestly think they were very much in the wrong, although maybe they are just worried about you. Think about it? Your child starts hiding away in they're room and never talking? Staying away? Even as a parent that hurts their feelings. If you are having anxiety because of their pushing you shoud try to explain it. It's hard, I understand but maybe you should try. And maybe you should try to talk to your mom on her own.
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Xbear NewbieYes but the abusive behaviour of the partner? I only avoid them not her.
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Xbear NewbieI feel like giving up
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Xbear Newbie
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Xbear NewbieMy mother doesn't want to tell anyone about the details, I dont know what to do
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Xbear NewbieJust tell me I'm not to blame please
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You are not the one to blame.
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Xbear NewbieThankyou. Can anyone tell me your opinion in more detail? Me and my mother are the only ones who know and should I tell someone? I dont want to have to tell them the details though. And is it right to even bother people with it?
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If you have a very close friend, it's probably good to tell them too. But if you don't, it's good that you told us. I think that it's wrong for anyone to treat a kid like that.
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Xbear, I've never told anyone this but I've been in your position. I couldn't tell anyone. But you should tell someone. No parent should ever do that to their child, no matter if their partner is doing it or not. You're not supposed to put a man before your children no matter the situation. Your children come first, but in my opinion, do you think your mom might need help as well? Maybe consoling with you, so you can get this whole thing cleared up and understand it a bit better? Have you told your mom how you feel? That it's disturbing you extremely, and you feel like you're the cause of this? If your mom won't listen, go to the next person you trust. If there isn't one, call a family member, tell them what's happening. Or give your mom a dilemma, tell her it's you or that man she keeps bringing. Parents usually don't listen to their children, but you have to make your mother listen to you. To make her understand that your serious, that this isn't some lie for attention or something.
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