Bullying
- Locked due to inactivity on Apr 28, '24 3:54am
Thread Topic: Bullying
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Very tired and stressed 😅
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If anyone finds music therapeutic and are in a household where they have to be the bigger person, try listening to “bigger person” by Lauren Spencer Smith. I personally love fantasy and all her other music. I know that I should probably post this in the “ballroom forum” but i thought it fits more in this thread due to everyone here most likely having to be the bigger person in most cases. I hope this helps anyone. Sorry have a great day.
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Thanks 🥰
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No problem I just wanted people to get free therapy!
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It's the last day of school, I don't even like school much but I'm leaving all my friends forever 😭😭 I😭😭😭😭
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not forever, you'll see them next year don't worry!
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No I won't
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I will never see over half my year again.
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sorry😢
did you graduate or are you moving? (if that's not too personal) -
Neither 😭😭😭
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Hey guys im going through some stuff with my brother right now so if I don’t respond im not ignoring you guys or anything. Thx for understanding.
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Hiiiiii
I’m posting this story so I can get advice otherwise I’m gonna start a fight which probably won’t end well.
So last year I was in a friend group that was nice, but then a few new girls came, drama started, and the nicest girl in the group left. This year the other girls in the group started being really mean to me. They excluded me and my friend Sarah (not her real name) from hanging out and would ignore us most of the time especially me. One of the girls who I’m gonna call Regina just seemed to hate me. She was already a bit mean to the others, and would always say we were overreacting when anyone complained. She especially didn’t like me and would usually pretend I didn’t exist unless she was starting a fight and would start yelling at me and calling me stupid and stubborn. Lots of the other girls would also talk behind my back. I left that friend group and am now in a smaller friend group with Sarah and 2 other girls, but Sarah is still in the other one too. The girls in the first friend group yell at her sometimes because she hangs out with as as well but she is too un confrontational to do anything about it. I also have to see Regina often because our parents work together. Should I just keep ignoring them whenever we r forced to interact?
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I’m my personal experience being the bigger person always ends up in your favor. If Regina is staying away from you respect her personal space. If she starts being mean or rude to you, ignore her. If it gets to the point of bullying tell someone. Every now and then say “hey how are you Regina?” Or ignore her if you want to. Just remember you are never forced to interact with someone. You have a choice to walk away and not say anything. As for Sarah, if she’s to uncomfortable ask her what she wants if she doesn’t want to be apart of that group anymore suggest that she just leave. Simple as that. I know it’s easier said than done but whatever makes her comfortable is the best for her. Hope this was helpful if you need anything else we are all here and are always happy to help. Come here whenever you need to! Nothing is to small when it comes to bullying.
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I've been offline for a while dealing with a little drama of my own, but I've been reading this and I have been in a very similar situation myself before. Regina seems horrible, but she might be dealing with some personal drama at home herself.
Thoughts for you: Do I trigger anything to make her annoyed?
What might I have done to make her bully me?
I hope this doesn't come across as me sticking up for her, because you don't deserve what you're going through and that Is not okay. Here's some tips.
1. Ignore her, I know it's hard, but your better then her, show her that! 😁
2. Be nice, two wrongs never make a right! As long as you stay being kind you can't get in trouble and your other friends will see what's happening and help you out.
3. You don't have to and continue to vent on here if you want to, I'm always here for anyone to talk! But, if your struggling with the situation perhaps talk to a trusted adult, one of your nicer friends or even childline if you want to vent away on the phone.
I hope this helps ❤
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