I have a question...
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Thread Topic: I have a question...
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How do you let a guy know you like him, and not make it so direct?
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This is a problem I've dealt with for quite a while. Someone else my have some actual clever methods, but they way I see it is you just gotta go for it.
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Ive been having the same problem with the guy i like. I say just talk to him as much as you can, say hi to him in the begining of class, and try to flirt a bit. Thats what i do, although im not sure if it works or not. Either he likes me back or he thinks im a creep. Eh, thats just my advice for its what i try to do :/. Just saying, it might not works since my result, like i said, can be one of two things: he likes me back or thinks im a creep
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Either suck it up and let it out or flirt.
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Dear Sage,
This is a common problem for male and female relationships no matter what the age or experience. Under no circumstance should you tell him you like him. Guys aren't like girls. They think differently, act differently and have many myths that aren't true about girls. By telling a guy you like them they assume you expect them to act in some way and quiet possibly make a move. This scares guys and leaves them standing on shaky, unfamiliar ground. This would be likely to make them move further away and would crash any easy flow of converation to social insecurity.
However, without being directly obvious it is tricky to let a guy know you like them. Because I'm a girl I don't understand how guys filter through what we say. I have a number of guy friends though and know they don't always understand. Though I do know it can be completely opposite. For example if you tell them you like them they could lunge in for a kiss.
It's always best to slowly release your feeling towards a guy as to not scare them or make them think your insane or clingy. You want to appear as a strong-minded independent woman.
Guys love feeling like a man. They want to be thought of as strong and brave. Compliment the guy you like. Tell him his smile is amazing. There's a huge number of compliments you could give. If the guy you like is sporty congradulate him on his achievements. This is bound to make him feel great. However, be careful not to compliment him extremely frequently. You don't want him thinking you're trying too hard or are being irritating.
When you talk to the guy keep friendly and keep smiling. Keep bright and bubbly to let him know your confident and fun to be around. Twiddle your hair and catch his eye on occassion.
Make an effort to get to know his other friends and sometimes sit with them at lunch.
Lastly, don't try too hard. Have fun and keep calm. If he isn't the right guy there won't be a relationship to begin with. Maybe the time won't be right. Who knows? Whatever you do, don't stress. Remember, there's tons of guys out there dying to meet you.
Good luck!
Angela :D -
Thanks! You guys all helped me! :)
Especially Angela! Thank you! Thank you! :)
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