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Which makes it even harder to tell my family.
I was talking to my brother Austin the other day, and we were playing Halo, and I asked him if he respected gays, lesbians, trans, bisexual, pansexual, etc. And he started laughing, and responded, "Hell no. They belong in Hell."
I almost started crying. Once he saw me blinking back tears, he was like, "What?"
I shook my head. "It's nothing..."
Then on mother's day I went to my moms, and we were talking about how a lot of men are these days, how they cheat and lie, etc. And my brother Zac was like, "If any little boy breaks her heart, I'm gonna kill them." and my mom laughed. My brother Austin was like, "What'd you do if a girl did?"
Silence broke out, and my mom then spoke up. "I'd rather her be with a boy then a girl."
I then ran inside.
I need help. I want my family to know who I really am. I want them to know I'm bisexual, not the little straight girl they think I am. -
www.emptyclosets.com
Thats a mainly LGBT forum and Im pretty sure there is a board where they give comeing out advice. :| -
Aw, honey. Please don't cry. :(
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They should respect you. I've never done this, but maybe if you give a logical reason to accept this, or just kind of hint at it.
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Hunter: thank you. I appreciate it. c:
Purple: I'm afraid my family is going to disown me though... Then where will I go?
Appay: Hm... Maybe that'll work. -
My family doesn't know either, it makes things hard. .^.
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You say you're bisexual? Okay, well I am too, but I indentify as straight because I am partly straight and I have the ability to choose between men and women. I would say do that until you're 18 and then come out. But I wouldn't write out coming out right away. You shouldn't fear your family disowning you. It's better to live without that negativity. If you can find a place to stay if they were to disown you, or insist on having you cured, then you have nothing to worry about. You should feel no connection to people who don't accept you for who you are.
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Ana: It is hard. I once had a girlfriend before I met Ben, and it was hard keeping it as a secret.
Tounge: thanks :) I really appreciate it. Maybe I could live with my brother, Zac. He's 19, and he's not living with our parents. -
I truly believe that we were all created as women to be with men. I don't want to sound harsh, hun, and I cant imagine how hard it would be to keep your true self from your family for years. But our bodies are designed to be wih men.... and there is also an emotional element in a man that women need. Other women will never be able to fill that gap in you. Call me Christian, but I'm praying for you.
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God made us all as who we are. Who are we to try to change that? Despite the popular saying, people are not born lesbian or gay. It was that person who decided that. Of course, you, if being lesbian, probably have strong feelings for the same sex. If I were you, I would look to the Lord for help. But maybe you won't talk to Him about that. He can help you. Maybe you think I'm a nutbar. Well, I'll still talk to Jesus about it for you, random person.
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Like, I'm not with a girl. I go out with Ben. But I do have feelings for some girls, but it really don't affect my relationship.
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My sad would take it hard and my mom would probably get over it at some point. But I still keep it hidden until the time is right.
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Samantha2332 NoviceI would tell them. You can wait for the right time like people do, but thats a load of crap cause there really is no right time. They might freak out at first, but your their daughter, and theyll love you no matter what.
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@Samantha
they SHOULD love you no matter what. Unfortunately that's not how it works out half the time. -
Samantha2332 NoviceCarri: Then they arent real family ._.
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