Have you ever been confused about your sexuality?
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Thread Topic: Have you ever been confused about your sexuality?
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In 8th grade was when I was seriously considering what my sexuality was, because I had ALWAYS been straight, and I started having friends who had, like me, always been straight, but then decided that they were lesbian or bi or pans and I was like, "whoa, how does that happen?" So I was thinking a lot about how I knew that I was attracted to boys, but what really counts as being attracted to a girl? Is it just acknowledging the fact that girls are beautiful and pretty and cute? (Because, um, they are.) This was seriously bothering me, and I knew I needed a deciding factor. So I decided that if I could imagine myself making out or just kissing a girl, then I was bi. If I couldn't, I was straight. And guess what? I can't. So after going through all of that, I decided that I was straight. Bam.
Does anyone else want to share their story on how they realized what their sexuality was? -
I am straight. Always was, always will be.
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inserting my blurb of madness.
i’ve always been confused abt my sexuality and gender identity. a lot of people i’m friends with and users here know that i’ve questioned my sexuality for a while. i know that i’m attracted to males, but i don’t know about females, genderfluids, non-binaries, etc. i just know i’m attracted to males. i don’t rlly like to call myself straight because i don’t feel like i am? for one, i don’t like labeling sexuality anyway, but i feel like i could be attracted to females, yet i’ve never been in a relationship with one. i thought this one girl was super cute n i thought i was developing feelings, but i don’t know if that was just me thinking i was into her.
i’ve struggled w gender identity, probably to most evryone’s surprise. i’m rlly feminine as of now, but a few years ago, i rlly questioned myself. i felt like a boy and i wanted to be a boy. i know i was only like nine, ten, eleven, whatever ages. i would tell people online that i was a boy, that i used he/him pronouns. even when they knew i was a female, i told them to call me masculine names such as avery and jonah. (i don’t know if i used other names). i always shopped for clothes in the boys or men section. i wanted to feel more masculine. my mother never questioned it because she thought i was just going through some sort of “tomboy” phase.
when i was in fourth, fifth, sixth grade, so many of my friends and a lot of the boys in my classes suspected that i was a lesbian. most of them wouldn’t confront me and actually ask, but they’d always assume. i knew i liked guys, being so young and all and i had those cute little crushes n stuff. in reality, i did want them to think i was just lesbian. i didn’t want people to know how much i longed to be a boy, to be treating like all the other boys i went to school with. i thought i would seem like a freak. i was too sensitive and scared i’d be bullied or made fun of.
it’s so weird to look back at how i use to be and i still don’t know how i feel about my sexuality or gender identity. -
Yep! But now I know who I am
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So Katniss, the way to know you like girls is that you love and respect them the same ways you love boys. I love all not both, so I kinda know this by now.
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I'm 99% straight lmao ;-;
I mean, yesterday I searched for a 8 inch long dick pic.It was for scientific purposes. -
Yeah right.
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I doubt it was for scientific purposes.
Are you gay tho? I have to ask. -
I don't know. I guess what you said about loving and respecting them the same way kind of confused me.
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I'm straight ;-;
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Yeah, me too.
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I have never been in love or had a crush, so I don´t know.
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Fr? If you don't mind me asking, how old are you?
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