I honestly need some advice
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Thread Topic: I honestly need some advice
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My ex boyfriend, for the sake of time we'll call him, Thing 2, I have strong feelings for him, but I don't think he would bother with me anymore. All the signs are pretty obvious; he flirts with all these girls, at times I swear it's just to piss me off. And the weird thing is, we would have these heart-to-heart moments, and I would actually know what he is feeling. But then he pretends that never happened. And when someone kept putting Hate-mail in my locker, his name was is in it and started flipping out. It wasn't because they were framing him, which they were, but they spelled his name right. Out of all the things they said, he only seen his name being spelled correct. Also, he never cared about my scars. He said that I needed to stop. Said it wasn't healthy. He never told anyone when they asked or anything. But he didn't judge me for it either. But he's a jock, one of the popular kids at school, while I'm sitting in the background, at a lunch table by myself.
I can't figure out if he still has feelings for me. Or if I should even tell him about those feelings. Please help. -
I want to help you out. It doesn't seem right. But you know, when someone notices you and actually becomes your boyfriend, they see you more special than the rest. But when they break up with you, you seem hurt. Buuuut, they noticed you once, right? If they liked you, wouldn't they still like you even if they broke up with you?
I think he still likes you, even if he broke up with you. Maybe he made a mistake by breaking up with you and he wants to get you back by making you jealous. I think that he still likes you but he is having a strange way of trying to get back with you. You said jock, and that sounds like something a jock would do. -
(When I said "it doesn't seem right" I meant that what he is doing isn't right.)
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Ahh. But we broke up mutually.
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Maybe he was down in the dumps at that time and made a decision right off the bat with no second thoughts.
And now he regrets it, which is why he is flirting with other girls.
You still like, don't you?
It's kind of hard to know what you should do....
But I say he still likes you and because he is a jock and all that jazz, flirting with other girls is his way of trying to win you back. -
I think you should move on... Because everyone deserves a person who is nice, loyal, trustworthy, and all around a good person TO YOU.
But, if you really think that he likes you, just sit down for a while and think about how he would treat you this time. And then, hopefully, you will have you answer. -
Jozy: The best way to find out is to sit down and talk to him. It'll be painful and hard to do, but if you want results you gotta dig deep. I've been in my fair share of relationships and I know that breakups affect everyone differently. For most guys, feelings linger on. For me, sometimes hate starts to grow for the ex. You can't exactly pin a title unless you find out for sure. Hope whatever you choose to do works out
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