Advice?
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Thread Topic: Advice?
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Soooo I have a crush on this guy....
So I'm about 13. I met this guy in Jan. I've like always dreamed of getting married and having kids but I never thought I would ever get to meet someone who just seems so right for me.... He has all the qualitys I would want my boyfriend to have...
But he is 18.
He is going to college.
I'm going to 7th grade.
Oh and the part that he has a super hot girlfriend.
Do I have any hope in the slightest bit with him?
He's just so right...
I used to kinda hide behind my hair and stare at him during church... Not stare but small peaks at his beautiful face... Such a beautiful face....
When I thinkof him it's like.... Magic when I see his face I can't keep my smile off my face. I can't even look at him! He just makes me smile to death... I have to grt away from him because he is so damn good I just can't look because he is beautiful on the inside and I think of all his beautiful quilities... Damn typos I give up...
I've caught him kinda looking at me in.... That way at church. We'd both see each other and turn quick...
OH AND THE WAY HE SAYS MY NAME OH MY GOSH.
ITS LIKE.... MAGIC I MEAN HE SAYS IT SO DAMN PERFECT AND HE HAS ONLY SAID IT LIKE FIVE TIMES.
He is very shy... Not shy but... Softspoken.
He invited me to his grad party... His girl was there....
Sigh.
I was walking across the church yard and I looked down at the driveway and I saw him walking to his car.... He was kinda.. Looking at me you know?
Like... That way he was kinda looking like with daydream eyes...
HE IS SO f---ING ADORABLE -
What qualities do you like in him other than the fact that he is good looking?
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That's a big age gap. I would say that you should let him live his life. If you two really should be together than it'll happen one way or another. Seeing that he already has a girl friend, you should try your best to let them be. Am sure you can even find someone better.
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He actually isn't all that great looking. He has many fine qualities that would make most people mad if I mentioned them. I said that he had beautiful qualities but I just didn't mention what exactly they are -
The age is the biggest concern right now. Are you sure that you LIKE him? Or is it "just a crush"?
Surely you will find a perfect one but your age. FYI at least 7 people in the world looks like you. I mean that at least 7 people look like him soo... -
7 people in the word are not him. Its not "jut a crush" I think I might even love him... I don't know I've never been in love. I don't think age really matters to some degree. I think as long as the two mates don't see a probblem it doesn't matter.
I mean like 15 years at the most... My parents are 12 years apart. Six years might seem like alot now but if I was like 25 it wouldn't. -
Your point is good - 5 years won't matter when you're a bit older.
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It's just a crush
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^It might not
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Have you ever had a conversation? From what I'm getting is just a bunch of adoration from afar stuff and there's no real meat, which means it's a crush or more likely infatuation. Trust me I've been there, it's not love.
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4545 NewbieMy advice would be to just let him go. Yeah, it'll be hard for a while, but you're only 13.
I met some of the coolest guys when I was a few years older than you, ones you'll actually talk to and get to know rather than staring from a distance. -
We have had conversations. Mostly with my parents there though haha.
It's not like I am even allowed to date until I am 18. I'm just curious... I wish I could predit the future... Trust me I have tried to forget him and I can't... I dream about him and every day I wake up I think anout him first.... -
7 peeps look like him, not are him. But if you are serious then, why not? I have heard of relationships where the wife/girlfriend is 20 years younger than the husband/boyfriend so your choice.....
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My probblem is, I'm not afraid of him not liking me, I'm afraid of him gtting married to her before I am even allowed to dafe.
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UM
You're 13. Stop thinking about marriage. Be a kid.
He's five years older than you, that's illegal for a reason.
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