Why is it so hard to be faithful?
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Thread Topic: Why is it so hard to be faithful?
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Why do people find it so difficult, when its.. not?
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Not everyone realizes what an actual relationship means. Too many people *date just to date. Rather than looking for a long lasting relationship, so being unfaithful means nothing to them.
*This is NOT dating. It's basically telling the public you're together, even though one or both parties don't care. -
Dating is a political and physical thing, nothing to do with emotion. Just a public say that two people are 'getting together'. Thus, that does count as dating. Of course, it's pitiful dating.
Love, on the other hand... -
sometimes theres some sexy ass people out there that aren't yours to bang but you get the chance to bang em..
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What a naive question.
Faithfulness in a relationship intels adhearing to parameters which have been established between you and your partner regarding extra-personal sexual relations.
For starters kid, some people just have a hard time controlling themselves. Some people have actual difficulty stopping themselves from engaging in sexual activity with a person their attracted to. Thats one thing. Whether you chose to acknowledge it or not, self control is not inherint in all people.
Secondly, and most often, cheating happens when both parties priorities do not intersect. That is to say, one just doesnt care as much about the other, and is givin to wonder, regardless of feelings they may have for their partner, simply because its just not enough.
Theres also cases where one of the pair may cheat out desperation to satisfy emotional or physical needs their partner isnt providing them.
In any case, faithfulness requires emotional maturity, self control, and an ability to walk away from something you dont want.
None of those traits are easy to excerscise for most people and none of them are abundant in the world.
Lol, yes kid, faithfulness is hard. Appreciate it if someone gives it too you. -
Although, if you don't think you can/will stay true to some-one, why the f--- should you continue dating them? Just break it off. That's very simple, and despite the emotional/mental preparation it takes, it's much better in the long run than cheating.
Also doesn't make you seem like a slut/... Uhm... I dunno.
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