How good are your parents? | Comments

I got 32 percent. I was severely depressed in middle school (5-6th grade). Sometimes I often debated taking my own life. I was afraid to open up to my mom because she's always in a bad mood because she works night shifts. My step dad is deaf and barely understands me. I only had my friends, and one of them was also suicidal, the other was toxic, and the last one wasn't that close to me. My step dad is closed minded. That meaning he doesn't understand when he tells me that "I'm being lazy" that it hurts me emotionally. I watch my 1 year old sister almost every night and I have a brother on the way that I'll probably have to watch too. My mom is always asleep and my step dad is mostly gone during the day. I cut my dad out of the picture because I was sexually assaulted as a child and he didn't believe me. I was hit in the head, legs, arms, etc as a child as punishment and my mom claims she stopped that because it didn't work. Life sucks sometimes but I'm forced to believe I have it good. Even though I do, it doesn't feel like it.

My score was 0%, even after I changed some results. It's pretty accurate information. I can't open up to my parents in anyway nor they let me go out side with friends. I don't even have friends that drink or smoke. They are too power grasping type. I even heard dad saying kids don't matter, their feelings or wishes matter, all that matters that I respect dad for ruining my life.

I got 37. But my dad is different of my mom, he's open minded,here whenever i need to talk, tries to understand what i go through, if he wasn't there i would have left home. My mom is the opposite of him, she's absolutely not open minded, everytime we talk about the lgbtq+ community,and me in general(since i'm a trans gay guy) she yells at me and said that i'm a disgrace in the family,that i'm not her kid anymore.

But it's almost the end, just have to be eighteen, 2 years more and maybe i'll finally see freedom

I got 90% and this result perfectly describes my parents:

You have a GREAT relationship to your parents. They're that kind of parents everyone dreams on having, and you my dear, are very lucky. Your parents will always listen you, no matter what. You can open up to them, and they'll never judge you. If you do anything wrong, they'll always choose the soft way of reacting. You should be grateful, 'cause so are they of having a child like you.

It's surprising how many "mean parent" comments there are. If those are true, you don't deserve that. Be strong

I get 93% And i guess is pretty true.I grew up in a social life. while walking I was always asked for pictures. being jenna ortega's little sister, we argued a lot, my mom cared a lot about how we study. most of all, my parents were normal, sweet, rarely angry, funny. (but that doesn't mean I didn't respect them)

I got %16. I cant say my parents dislike me but I cant say that they unconditionally love me all the time too. My mom is a great person she cooks for me and takes cares of me when I get sick. But she is a pathological liar. She tells me a girl should study to be successful but then she tells my aunts that I should marry and a men is the best way to go. She also thought I was gay because I never told her about the boys I liked. I used to share everything to her but now I barely tell her anything. My dad is an alcoholic so Im not even gonna start talking about him. How ironic that my mom suffers because of my dad but also tells my aunts that I should find a men. How pathetic. My parents do not trust me and neither do I. They constantly say that I couldnt born luckier and that I have the best parents ever. Again, how ironic I dont even like them.

You think your parents are 9% good to you 9%

Your relationship with your parents seems to be very bad. You think they don't care about you, or that they mind their own business more, but you should know that a child is a parent's biggest treasure. If your parents are harsh, maybe you should try to calm things down a bit. I know it's not your fault, but maybe you can go talk to them and tell them why you don't agree with their way of behaving with you.

... i can't talk to my parents about anything, that's why i got 9%. i told my mom once that she made me feel invalidated and belittled and she just dismissed it. she doesn't care, it doesn't matter. i already tried talking, why would I try it again just to be ignored?

For the lgbtq question i dont think they tried to offend anyone, they probably added it to see if your parents were judgemental about you or were offensive. Also for the boy or girl one i wouldnt say its too bad its probably just a simple mistake that could go over anyones head while making this quiz, so try not to hate on the poor person (especially since everyone on this website is sad or angry right now and some ppl will probably send offensive things).

I got a 30% and tbh im not surprised. If I have less then a B- I get a long lecture and my phone gets taken. I still dont have a real phone just an iPhone 6s with no service or anything. They keep saying im irresponsible when honestly I just think I have ADHD. (not self diagnosing.) Honestly I get yelled at for the tiniest things and im sick of it

I got 3% but I answered the questions as if it was only my mother. My dad is chill and my relationship with him is quite good, my mother on the other side makes me angry all the time and I was thinking about moving out so much but I can't since I'm only 15.

I got 4% i think that is quite low but a lot of the time my parents would say they treat me better than a lot of other parents, I feel like they care abt the stupidest stuff but the stuff that matters to me they don't care abt. I feel like they don't feel proud of me often, I constantly get bodyshamed by them while no one else has said anything abt my appearance, also, I feel pressure to even express emotions so most I would like to try my best to turn it off

God bless you all! I feel terrible you are treated so badly. May they feel Christs live for them and you and become way better parents! Love you, each of you matter greatly to God.

0% and no not every child is a parent's biggest treasure. a lot of parents hate their kids. Some parents even purposefully kill their children. So that is a terrible blanket statement. Telling my parents that I dont like any of their behaviors is just an invitation to be castrated even more. And I would only advise other 0% ers to do this if they are masochists.

my parent are so bad i just live my life to suffer and to be taunted my own parents.the moments when someone comes to ours house to stay for sometime are the best moments of my life because they cant show there real side to the world.they say that i dont study even if i get good grades.its if like they just like taunting me all the time.once i ordered a mouse for 271 (roughly $3.50 cents) and they said why is it so expensive and i was thinking what!! becuase thats the cheapest i got from amazon and it doesnt even matter to them that was the money my grandma gave me around 2000 (roughly 26 dollars) im lucky to have a sister i cant thnk what she went through when i was not born and thats all i will say because i think my mom is coming and she will kill me if she see's this so okay buy peace

12%, makes sense, all they do is scream at me, lecture and tell me everything that they think is wrong with me. They make fun of me and tell me how Im a disappointment cus it probably makes them feel better about themselves. They do it to try and hurt me but Ive gotten better. I know Im better that what they think of me, I guess Im just used to living like this.

0%

Your relationship with your parents seems to be very bad. You think they don't care about you, or that they mind their own business more, but you should know that a child is a parent's biggest treasure. If your parents are harsh, maybe you should try to calm things down a bit. I know it's not your fault, but maybe you can go talk to them and tell them why you don't agree with their way of behaving with you. that frankly is true

Hah I got 0% I think it's more like -100% I can't evan talk to anyone in my family without being shut down being being child I was a bused like f--- from people all around me not just my family and when I told them about it they just ignored me and then would tell me to not make a big deal about it because it isn't anything evan if I came back home seriously injured they wouldn't give a dam my mother says to me if I broke a leg she will just watch me suffer and not take me to get help so I agree 0% fits

16%, reasonable. theyre kinda really strict with me and never listen to what i have to say. they always blame it on me and say that im misbehaving and if i try to talk about stuff they shut me down or i get punished. theyre really controlling. my moms been like this since she met my stepdad. i never open up to them and they always invade my privacy. they do tell me they love me and do activities with me, but overall i cant do much while my stepsister can get away with a million things.