This is very important...
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Thread Topic: This is very important...
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You can survive without the blade
This is not directed to anyone in particular, this is just me voicing my opinions.
I know not all of you do cut, many of you have, many of you think about trying it, many of know people who do and many of you don't know much about this stress/depression relief and often like to hurt or insault people who resolve to that blade on their desk or at desperate times anything sharp(and I do mean anything, I remember once I used a pencil, a shard of glass and a nail clipper and yes I'm not afraid to admit it) when they feel as if they can't cope.Its used often and we begin to rely on this, soon we resort to it for small things and before ou know it that blade becomes part of your lifestyle and its hard to tear yourself away from that blade.
I remember I cut a few times before, not that many, only for I think it must've been maybe a month or two or less. And I used it all the time...thats when I realised that this getting out of hand, I used it too much and I became angry with myself, I stayed away from anything that could be used and..it helped me. I got out of it and I stay away from it.
I know its hard...amy even impossible at times but I'm asking each of you who use that blade to not use it for a month, just try it. Its time you faced the world without it, and you can and I don't care how cheesey I sound when I say this but: Everyone has a strong heart inside of them, tiny or big, its still there and you can use it and fight life. I'm just asking you to try it, I'm not forcing you, but I want you to try and give yourself a break. If you feel sad or depressed and don't know how to deal with it, shut the world out! Blast some music! Get yourself lost in a book! Get outside and hide away for a bit if your desperate(I'm not suggesting runnning away if your thinking that)
And I appologise if I offended anyone or hurt anyones feelings, this was just my way of trying to make a difference...cause I guess I feel guilty that I never helped anyone and now I have friends hurting themselves and I feel useless so if this did offend you I'm really sorry. If it was that bad then you can even email me and have some fun giving me a huge rant or insualting me if that makes you feel better
Here's my email: nashira.n @ hotmail.com
And I'm really sorry if anything was offensive or if this was basicly useless
I appologise and I hope you can forgive me -
I dont use the blade, and I never have. But honestly I think it was nice of you to do this. It didnt sound offensive at all. (Coming from someone who doesnt use th blade).
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The way I deal with my depression, is that I deny that I have it. When I can't deny it, I hole up and cry if I can't get it out on paper. *shrug* Probably mentally damaging but I don't really know what other way to go about it without drugs.
All in all, this was a good rant, I don't see it as offensive but that's just me. -
"you can survive without the blade"
My pa better shave... -
I don't use the blade. But I'm an optimist, so I never had any reason to use one.
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*the (for my post)
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I haven't for 3 months
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I do use the blade and I'm not afraid to admit it. I still do.
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I cut myself with a geometric compass when I do something wrong, even if it wasn't really my fault because I wasn't able to tell it was wrong. Mostly if I insult/offend someone without knowing it (this happens a lot, I say something and they get pissed off and the whole time I have no idea I did anything wrong). I've done it my whole life, I used to be a social butterfly up until I was 4 and then I started doing that. I just shrugged it off until I was 5 and that's when the real problems began, people began shunning me because I offended them and "pretended" not to know what was going on. I always told the truth, I truly did not know what I did wrong, but everyone I talked to would suddenly blow up in my face. They still do, and I never know why. Even if they explain I don't understand.
It's a nightmare. I never know when I'm going to do something bad and ruin a friendship.
Sorry for the random sob story, but I just thought of it. XP -
Nice message, but I hate how everyone assumes all you can do it cut yourself.
I've burned, cut (with various objects), bit, and smacked myself against a wall when no one was around.
No, I don't need a blade, I can use anything but. -
I don't really do it because I'm sad or want attention. Usually, I do it because it pisses me off and I want to hit things. Various other things get pounded as well. Like tables.
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Rayray_EO NewbieYeah I've thought about cutting or maybe even commuting suicide because sometimes no mater what I do I feel alone and stupid and "uncool" just because I'm different. Just because I believe different things or wear different things or listen to a different music. Everyone seems against me even if I just state something. Someone's probably going to be rude about this! But you know the only reason I don't cut or commit suicide is because someone somewhere needs me to keep living and needs me to stop hurting and you know it's ok to be different!
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^ I dare you to commute suicide!
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Geek don't say that!!!
I've always held my emotions in a bottle metaphorically. I only cut myself once and never again did I. I usually write or do something to get my mind off of things. -
You should all just kill yourselves.
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