This site sickens me.
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Thread Topic: This site sickens me.
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I cannot stand this site. I used to come on this site, but I can no longer deal with it. When I want to come back I read half of the idiotic threads and I think about how utterly pointless it would be. Half of you people here cannot even spell correctly enough for me to read it. I know my grammar may not be perfect, but come on people. I should at least have some idea at what you're saying.
And another thing. All the psychology and personality forum is anymore is a place to get a pity party or for each user to make a thread asking the exact same question, expecting the same nice answer by everyone else.
I read thread after thread of "my life is so horrible" or "I want to kill myself". This sickens me. Do any of you realize how good you have it? All of you have family, food, water, shelter, and everything else you need. Internet is a necessity that most in third world countries don't have. You're so selfish. If you want to cry and complain about your life, then so be it. But I hope one day you do realize that you have it good compared to a lot of people.
I will no longer get on here and listen to people cry and complain about their life. It's life. No one said it would be easy. Get over it and get over yourself.
Most of the stuff on here is idiotic. I don't think half of you could make a sensible conversation with me. With that, I'll be done posting on this. Probably for good. I'm sure you'll hate me for saying all this. And tell me how I don't understand how hard your lives are or some crap. But to be honest I don't care. I'm just stating an opinion in this giant rant. Things could always be worse. So in closing, just remember that. Goodbye GTQ. -
You know, everytime I ever see you you're complaining about how GTQ isn't good enough and full of a bunch of whining babies. Rather ironic, no? I wanted to become a better friend toward you but I never got the chance really.
And yes, I agree with you that life could always be worse, and that most people here have it pretty damn well. But who are you to judge someone's life if you never met them? We all go through hard times and sometimes we simply need to know someone's there and cares about us. You know what? One of my best friends is going through hell right now and I really don't think you understand. People can be just plain hostile and hurtful, and that, my dear, is real pain. I would take a bullet for this girl so it hurts me to know she's getting hurt.
So before you go judging every single person on GTQ, why not actually get to know them first? And I know you can read and understand my grammar so I just proved your stereotype wrong.
Life is a b---- sometimes, and you know what? Crying a little and letting things out is healthy. Not having a pity party but just simply releasing something so you don't explode is important.
So I guess this is goodbye. Sincerely hope you find a better time away from here. I will be taking care of my friends and having fun my own way. Later. -
You're exactly right. I complain every time I come here anymore because it's the same old crap every single time I try giving this place a chance. It used to not be this way about a year ago. But it's went WAY downhill since then. And did I say every single person had horrible grammar? No, but thanks for implying it. And who are you to judge what I say? Have you met me? Nope. And you never were my friend? So go work on being a better one to someoene else my dear. I look at the positives in life. More people need to do the same. You might think I'm being "harsh" but in my opinion I'm stating how life really is.
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Oh, and I also already have a very good life away from this site. That's why I hardly ever come here and bother wasting my time typing something to people who are too hard headed to listen. Later Ana.
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I agree. Everything you stated, Tare Renae, I completely agree with. But, the thing is, it's pointless this statement.
There will always be silly unnecessary threads and incorrect grammar because of the youngsters that (shouldn't) join this site. That's life.
There will always be that teenager that's been dumped, or have simply had a bad day at school and will conduct a "pity party", because they're hormonal teenagers, overly-dramatic and haven't an idea of perspective or life. But we've all been there, haven't we? We've all had that "teenage moment", haven't we? That's life.
Sure, GTQ wasn't as bad as it is now, but I highly doubt all of these current issues weren't there before. I absolutely deplore this phrase, but at the end of the day, it's just a quiz site. There will always be pointless threads, incorrect grammar, immature members and frequent pity parties. Does it annoy us out of our flipping brains? No doubt. But that's that. Ignore the pointless threads, listen to some music, have a drink, loosen up. It's just a quiz site - really just a quiz site - years from now we'll a discover what really sickens us. -
Seriously, its pointless making these threads because no matter how much u complain u won't change anything, simply ignore the threads, whats your problem? So i find this an unnecessary thread as well...
And stop blabbering about how Gtq was, because like i said, u not going to change anything. This is what Gtq is now, we can't do anything about it, and as for the people u call "immature", i agree that they are not meant to be on this site, but they are here anyway, plus we were all their age once, perharps we weren't on the internet so there were no people to tell u how annoying u were.
Frankly speaking, keep calling people immature and u are not mature yourself. They will grow up sooner or later but u have no right to alter this. Sometimes it is best to type your feelings on the net than to keep it bottled up in real life... -
I agree with that Leah. And thanks for viewing it from my angle.
And Kish, do you know anything about me at all? No, so you can't pass any judgement and call me immature. I am soon to be mother. I go to school and work. I'm pretty damn sure I'm mature.
And you're right. Trying to get most of the people on this site to listen is pointless. -
i didn't call anyone immature nor do i want to know u. But like Ana said, everytime i have seen u post, u always seem to be complaining. I was just letting out what i had in mind. I apologise for my rudeness, i did not know of your age.
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Really?!
Congratulations!
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Yeah, I'm due in March Leah :) And thanks.
Kish, did I say anything about you wanting to know me? Nope. And don't worry, because after this thread I'm done with this site. I also apologize for my rudeness. I'm just stating how I honestly feel. Things used to not be this way, or at least as bad. I miss that. There's my point. -
It's fine. You're just venting. No one can argue with you for that as they do it all the time here.
Oh, and by the way, I hope you'll have a healthy and happy baby. And the same for yourself. -
I agree with all of you in a way. But just because things don't fit into the little boxes as you remember them, doesn't mean you have to yell at the unique people. The world is full of diversity and this site shows some of it just like the rest of the world. I rant and complain all the time. I'm not even 13 yet, but I do have hormones, they do rage, and I keep a lot of things bottled. I let everything out last Wednesday, but still even the guidance counselor told me I had been keeping a lot in. I was destroyed before I let it all out. Not everyone has the confidence to let it out in the real world for whatever reasons. So I think it's rather cruel to judge someone with real problems for letting out their problems online due to a fear of how people they know will react. That's how I cope lately, letting out my problems here. Of course this has led to some seeing me as a whiny bitch, but that's my life. If it bugs them, they won't bother reading it.
Tara, I wish you luck as well with your baby and life. I hope you're content and can handle yourself well (which I'm sure you can). -
I've been on this website since two thousand and fucking nine, I watched from when the forums first started to get buzz, and went downhill from then, so yes, I fucking agree with you HALFWAY, it is all fucking utterly pointless but isn't everything? At least they're trying to have fun, this website isn't for judgement (or at least, that's how it WAS supposed to be until shit happened)
But you shouldn't just dismiss everyone without getting to know them, sure some don't have the best grammar (I'm trying at least lol) but some of them have some pretty decent personalities.
Yes, fucking pity parties, one hell load of them too, there are a lot of threads that could be classified as pity parties, however some users actually do need help and the fact you addressed this makes it feel like you're actually fucking addressing it to me because my 'pity party' is still on the fucking front page
I'm tired of having a problem, and people dismissing my distress because "someone else has it worse". No. I'm not a starving child in Africa. Stop comparing those things. However, I do have issues that hurt ME. And telling me someone has it worse, does not alleviate my pain. I do not need people telling me to get over it because I could have it worse, or that I have so many things I should be happy for and thus should not hurt.
I'm fuckin' human, thank you. I will pick myself up like usual and I will move on like I always do, but I have moments too when I need some fucking help, so one thread out of the 30 that I post because I actually need some support, isn't too much to ask.
Seeing as you're probably going to fucking leave after this, goodbye and have a nice life, I hope your baby turns out fine with no defects.
And holy shit I'm sorry for the amount of profanity present in this long rageful reply, I'm incredibly stressed nowadays. -
Oh and I forgot this
Pain is subjective. Just because something one sees is "weak" to be devastated over, doesn't mean they're in any less pain than someone who is going through a lot more in their life. -
Here's some "pity parties" that actually have good spelling, grammar, and a victim that actually DOES need help.
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