Describe your family and its issues.
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Thread Topic: Describe your family and its issues.
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My parents have been together for 13 years, through VERY hard times.
My mom has a stomach problem, where if she eats more than a certain amount of fat in one meal, she could die. Seriously. It's always scary because if she doesn't eat the fat, she's pretty much going anorexic on account that the food she CAN eat is disgusting and she'll only eat it when she's starving. If she does eat the fat, she hurts majorly and we end up having to go to the hospital. Let's just say that it sucks.
Personality wise, my mom is really upbeat somehow. She's always trying to enertain everyone and she has a lot of energy. I wish I could be more like her because she's just all about fun.
I don't see my dad alot because he's always working. He's trying to become a manager and keeps having to go in and out of town for training.
Personality wise, my dad is hilarious when he wants to be. But most of the time he's working or too quiet.
My little brother is kind of deaf in one ear on account that he once blew out his eardrum. We're worried he might have diabeties or however you spell it. He's got a weight problem but doesn't put too much into helping it. v_v
Personality wise, he's a bit of a spoiled brat. He's the baby of the family, you could say. But he cares a lot about the people he meets.
My older brother, I rarely see either because we're so far apart. He lives with his mom (from my dad's relationship before he met my mom). He used to spend weeks with us and it was fun, but since he's growing older he doesn't really care to see us anymore :\ Even if my little brother idles him in every way.
Personality wise, he's always been friendly. ALWAYS. He doesn't cuss, drink, have sex or smoke (from what I know), he's religious, he has lots of friends--so, ya, he's basically the "Perfect child" xP
So, ya, that's my family. xD -
ok my parents arent divorced or anything and they usually get along well but i can't discribe them too well. All my siblings are younger than me and its hard for me sometimes because i have to do the most work compared to them. Mainly my brothers. My sister has tummy problems simaler to acid reflex and has a bad aditude alot and it gets very annoying. And she thinks i eat too much and i will be overweight soon but i probably wont because i have the fastest metabolism in the world. My 7 year old brother thinks that "love" is a cuss word (its very weird. he refers to it as the L word) and hes more behaved than my other brother but when hes in a bad mood he does things like say he's the worst person in the world or tie a yoyo string aroung his neck. He is kind of obsessed with games like on phones or ds games or wii games, etc. My youngest brother is a problem. He's not well behaved and he hits people with things or throws things at people alot and he annoys everyone especially my other bro.
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My dad has back issues, is bipolar, but too stubborn to take medicine for it. He's an abusive idiot, he and my mom are split up.
I still love him, deep down, though.:/ id always been a daddy's girl.
My mom is just a plain b----. She has had back surgery 3 times, is 55, and complains nonstop.
If I told her I was feeling sick, shed rant and say s--- like "I've been sick my whole life so suck it up!"
My oldest brother I rarely ever see. He's nice, though.
My second oldest brother is a preacher...I'm not religious so being around him is hard.
My twin sisters are both kind and nice, but have pride problems and will basically disown me if I do something stupid in public.
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My dad is basically one of my heroes. He spent 24 years in the army and is an amazing leader. He had to get because of medical problems he got, like ptsd, torn up knee and shoulder, hearing problems, things like that. He's sort of quiet and doesn't like being around public but he's always been good to my mom and me. He has bad nerves and headaches a lot, so I worry about him. He's very smart and I can have deep convos with him a lot. He very much loves God and knows a lot about the Bible so he's really been a calming source for my questions and issues. And he's FUNNY.
My mom is also one of my heroes. Though she has mainly been a housewife and mother she has been through so much. Her family disowned her so many times, didn't let her into school as much as she should which resulted in poorer education, but then she got her GED and even went to community college. She IS very smart. She loves gardening and landscape design. She has an attitude where she's always staying upbeat and sweet, but if somebody pisses her off she gets angry. She and I are pretty close, and let's me basically do whatever I want on the computer. Sometimes we argue about some things because she has overprotectiveness issues, what with her past experiences, so I try to be understanding of that. She's the kind of person who will give her all for her family, and when my dad suffered with med probs and I went through huge depression she somehow handled everything like a pro.
My brother is 27 and lives in Georgia so I don't get to see him much. He's technically my half bro from before my mom met my dad but he has ALWAYS in my heart been my full bro. I've always looked up to him lol, and as a kid I would follow him around and emulate him. But he was a troublemaker as a teen and early 20s, though now he's straightened up a bit. He's a very hard worker and I'm proud of him for that. He has a girlfriend, Ansley, and I think they're very serious so I may have a sis-in-law someday. :3
The rest of my family are either money-hungry, extremely prideful (my dad's mother thinks of herself as a "Kennedy" and doesn't like the poorer parts of the family), or hateful, so we don't associate with them. -
My family:
MY MOM:
I'm not always on good terms with my mom. We fight a lot with each other and she always accuses me and underestimates me but I still like her and my mom is generous, I mean, she gives money to poor but my mom does a lot of backbiting :/ Sometimes, we get along, but usually, me and my mom have a rocky relationship.
MY DAD:
I love my dad! He's the most special person to me in the whole world! I ALWAYS follow his footsteps and my dad is very generous and quiet and hardworking. I wanna be like my dad when I grow up. Though my dad is always busy with work.
MY LITTLE BROTHER:
he is 12 and Annoying. We get along as siblings and fight sometimes.
MY LITTLE BROTHER:
He's 1year old and super cute and adorable! He's so funny and cute though sometimes he gets annoying.
MY LITTLE SISTER:
She's 8 and I really like her. Like me, she's also good at drawing but she's a real chatterbox. -
my mom: she teaches, and she is like half nice, half bossy, well most of the time, she is normal, but when I dont agree with something, she becomes a bit stubborn, but at other times, I love her and she seems like a nice mother
my sister: she is a brat, she is older then me but is almost never nice to me, she has a boyfriend that she respects, but she barely respects me, but I think it is just hormones, it better stop or else
oreo the cat: she sometimes begs for attention and claws my mom, but she doesn't mean it, she seems to like my sister and loves people, she is friendly, almost the opposite of the other cat
tiger the cat: fat, stinky, and rather small, he avoids people and he avoids ME when I try to go near him
dad: he is really good with computers, he fixed mine more then once
grandpa: he use to be a veteran, he might be really sad because of grandma
grandma: she died of cancer, but when she was alive, she was a really sweet person -
This is going to be long....
My Momma:
She's the best mom. Even though I've never had another mom, I wouldn't want to trade her xD because she's really nice. She always listens to my problems, even when Im a total snot and the argument is obviously in favor of the other person, she still listens and gives good advice. I'd go to her with anything. But she can get mean and annoying. Annoying as in whenever I get a stomach ache she's says, "Oh, Sierrah, I think your time of the month is coming!"
Me: "You say that every f---ing time I have a damn stomach-ache, stfu!"
She's mean when we have these fights. We have fights every time we go shopping (which is why i go with friends now), she fights when I forget to take my pills or feed the pets. Anything i forget she nags. -_- But she's still the best. :)
My Dad:
He's like this silent, angry rock thing thats either sitting on the couch or working outside. When we aren't outside working, he's on our asses. "Why don't you work your weight around here?" (I know, doesn't make sense.) "I do all the work, and yet I'm te least appreciated for it, thanks." So when he's out, we're HAVE to be out. -_- It's hell.
On those rare occasions when my mom does take me shopping, he fights over the receipt. "Carol, this was way to much for a damn shirt? What the hell were you thinking?! And look at it, she looks like a damn hooker!"
But my dad is normally really nice. He makes jokes and is hilarious. But once he finds a
catch phrase" he'll say it over and over like a litle kid. 0.0
Like: 'Ello Gov'na; Make me feel, like I'm the only girl in the world! (that one is the worst!)
My Sister:
She's the only one I can kind of relate with. I talk to her when mom and dad are fighting, and she comes to me with problems with her friends at school. Which I guess is a good sign, because she trusts me. But in that 35% percent of the time, the other 65% is taken up by us fighting. When I make her mad, she gives me the silent treatment. When she makes me angry, I hit her and she hits me back 10xs harder then she tells my mom and I get in trouble....
So ya, that's my family. Disfunctional, but it works ;)
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