"can't the future just wait?"
Thread Topic: "can't the future just wait?"
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the idea of appearing more masculine just- sounds so f---ing appealing, idk why-
like, i want a flatter chest and shorter hair and to just be able to wear guys clothes without getting judged, but i still want to like, be a girl??
idk, this is so f---in' weird- idk if this is from all the webtoons and webcomics i keep reading that makes me thing abt this s---, but- UGH, IDFK- -
Obviously I can't define your gender for you, but maybe you're a demigirl/some sort of gender fluid thing?
Ofc you could just be a masculine girl tho lol -
sorry to intrude but I have some labels that you can look into that fit this!
- bigender
- boygirl / girlboy
- genderfluid
- there is a subset of genderfluid that is only masculine or feminine but i can't remember what it's like
- just a masculine girl / tomboy (another term for this would be azurgirl) -
there is a subset of genderfluid that is only masculine or feminine but i can't remember what it's called*
qwq -
gender identity is a very complex thing and is hard to label. you don't ever have to label it at all, in fact! just do what feels right and correct to you personally. it doesn't have to make sense to others as long as it makes you happy!
for example, i use a ton of labels to accurately describe myself, some contradict each other or just add to other labels. some might use only one or two labels and deem it good enough. some might not label it at all! it's your identity, you get to choose what applies best!!
best of luck <3 -
honestly, for me, i think it's mostly just my desire to want to dress more masculine rather than identify as another gender?
bc personally i don't really think i'm another gender other than female, tho ngl i don't think i'd be too upset with being referred to as another gender? purely bc i wouldn't care much lmaoo
i think it is mostly the fact that i wish to wear more guy clothes or cut my hair shorter, but i wouldn't be surprised if one day i started identifying as another gender or smth-
idk, this s---'s confusing, especially since my parents are like, very much against this kind of stuff. -
i also just hate having a bigger chest, i can't sleep comfortably on my stomach, guys :')
i have to have my arms tucked under me so my tits don't hurt T^T
i need to start working out more, that'll make my chest a little flatter -
oh my god, i get that so badly ahhhhhh
belly sleeping suckssss
the chest pillows get in the wayyy and hurtttt -
but yeah, use any label (or, no label, if you want) you feel fits your experience best, take all the time needed. It can't hurt anything to learn something new.. I would just be careful about it with your parents..
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yeah, i would never in a million years come out to my parents in i were gay or bi or smth else
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if i*
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yeah, ofc. safety always comes first!
sorry again for intruding, i have a mild (...ish) fixation on identity stuff so i knew a bunch of labels that fit your experience and wanted to offer them in case you wanted them- and it's always /nf (not forced) and you can tell me to go away xD -
no, you're all good! dw :)
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idrk what it is, like- it could be a gender thing, but it could also just be an expression thing-
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i miss my theatre friends so much...
ik i just saw them, but i wish i could see them more T^T
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