Venting Thread
- Locked by Carri04 on Oct 29, '23 9:13pmReason: Sorry you gotta deal with this.
Thread Topic: Venting Thread
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what's wrong?
U can tell me -
My problems seem to be getting worse and my mom is gonna try to force me to get a therapist, I don't want one tho, I would rather hold it all in and pretend to be happy
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Everything is my problem, my whole life is a problem, well, except GTQ
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Once I end it all tho, it'll be better with me out of the picture
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0h
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The problems will end soon so I'll be fine Ig and try to deal with it
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I feel bad for my mom tho, me and her haven't talked and she wants me to tell her what's up, but I can't. I just feel bad that she sees me acting so different now
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Does she still be mean?
if not don't hesitate. They may be able to help you -
I can't tell her anything, the bad thing is I can tell my dad but I don't live with him
My mom will get mad over every little thing and I have tested talking to her and didn't go to well. Now she's forcing me to say something -
oooooooooooooooooof
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Everything in my life is depression, there's NO reason for me to live, my fam is broken, people are dying, people irl don't like me, I mean, I say that my life is done by now
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1. You are important
2. You are not worthless
3. You matter
4. You are NEVER alone
5. Nobody else can be you
6. You have potential
7. Better days are coming
8. The sun
9. You loved ones will never get over it
10. It will leave unanswered questions
11. You will be missed
12. You have a story that needs to be told
13. There are places that you haven’t traveled
14. New movies are coming out
15. The next season of your favorite show
16. You can learn a new skill
17. You inspire someone
18. It is a permanent solution to a temporary situation
19. There is new food to try
20. Someone wants to hug you
21. Someone wants to kiss you
22. You could save someone’s life
23. You are talented
24. Your next birthday
25. You can meet new people
26. New coffee shops
27. Adorable animals
28. New books
29. You could learn a new language
30. Photographs
31. Your pets will be lost without you
32. Someone loves you
33. You can learn to love again
34. Life is a gift
35. Life will give you a new wave of experiences
36. Your scars can tell a story
37. Someone is praying to meet a person like you
38. Your future kids won’t ever make it here
39. Roller coasters
40. Beaches
41. Sunglasses
42. Holiday season is coming up
43. Road trips
44. This list is a sign
45. Wildlife in the sea that hasn’t been discovered yet
46. Adventures are coming
47. Rejection is actually a sign of progress
48. There are creatures depending on you
49. The sunrise
50. The sunset
51. Blood moon in 2022
52. Flowers
53. There are new things to learn
54. Your next paycheck
55. Cuddling with your favorite person or pet
56. See the outcome of politics
57. You make other people happy
58. Stars
59. Snow/Ice Days off work/school
60. Bubble baths
61. Laughing
62. Apple’s next iPhone
63. The 7 Great Wonders of the World
64. Someone in a support group could learn from your story
65. You can pick up a new skill
66. You are beautiful
67. You are smart
68. You are unique
69. Sunshine on your skin
70. The world wouldn’t be the same
71. People do care about you
72. Free museum days
73. You can (or eventually can) drive to calming place
74. Someone wants to listen to you
75. Time will help it feel better
76. You can change your thought processes
77. Look in the mirror
78. You can get better friends
79. Shame is not fatal
80. There is someone waiting for you
81. You are strong
82. You have games to win
83. It will cause pain, not end it
84. You can find a place where you belong
85. Depression is treatable
86. Support and time can help you
87. You can end toxic relationships
88. You are not damaged goods
89. At least a small part of you wants to live
90. We would miss you
91. You would miss out on the better part of life
92. You can never watch your favorite movie again
93. Someone thinks you are perfect
94. Finding your soulmate
95. Surviving is success
96. The negative thoughts are lies
97. Your scars can heal
98. Life will get better
99. Your voice will be heard
100. Your future personal reasons
I know some of these reasons may seem menial, but any reason to live, is a good reason to live. Sometimes it is the small things that matter most. If you have ever felt hopeless, #ItsNotJustYou and this is a reminder that you are not. Better days are coming. If you are in crisis, please contact 911 or the National Suicide Prevention Hotline (1-800-273-8255) for immediate help. -
Sunrises
Sunsets
The smell of the burning wood
Looking for the shooting stars
Soap bubbles
Rainy days while you are at home
Your favourite song on the radio while you are driving
Peeing when you really had to go
Avocados
Music on vinyls
Bubble wrap
The crackling sound of a fireplace
Cute puppies
Yoga
Reading a good book
Travelling
Getting your favourite flowers
Real old school paper letters
Indie rock
Paper bags
Chocolate
Staring out of the window while traveling
Hammocks
Your friends
Getting new good friends
Finding animal shapes in the clouds
Walking bare-feet in the sand
Comic books
Kissing a person you have been wanting to kiss
Learning new things
Doodling
Singing in the shower
Mushroom picking
Touching plants
Licking melted ice cream
Stone skipping
Making paper planes
Warm street wine in the wintertime
An unexpected message from a long forgotten person
A glass of water when you are very thirsty
Your favourite sweater
Sneezing
Getting toe rubs
A compliment from a stranger
Finding an object from your childhood
Getting a 2 for 1 deal
Polaroid pictures
Beating a computer at chess
Not knowing how to bake a quiche and suddenly nailing it
Learning one tune on the piano
The smell of freshly cut grass
PIZZA
Aperol Spritzes in the summer
Feeling warm breeze
Watching your favourite show before going to sleep
Landing in a new country
Drinking on the beach
Jazz music
Sleeping in clean sheets
Dress-up costume party when you’ve got the perfect costume
Winning the lottery
Rollercoasters
Swimming with fins and pretending you are a super hero
Being in an old castle which has rumours to be haunted
Sunbathing in the morning
Getting a haircut which really suits you
Hitting a paper ball precisely in the bin
Wiping dust of your computer screen
Getting the best seat in the cinema
Being the exact amount of drunk to enjoy karaoke
Marshmallows on fire
Beatnik poetry
Going home to your childhood home for some pancakes or any other type of favourite childhood food
Getting the USB stick in correctly with the first attempt
People’s eyes
Scented candles
A tax return in your favour
Friday nights
Peeing when you really had to go
Listening to your favourite band at a music festival
Well-visible rainbows
Knowing your movie trivia
Rocking chairs
Warm socks in the winter
A true snuggle from your lover
Solving Rubik’s Cube
Catching that train you thought you were gonna miss
Cricket sound on a warm night
Skinny dipping
Doing the thing you have been afraid to do
Stand-up comedy
Picnics
Sleek design
The smell of fresh coffee in the morning
The sound of a crispy toast breaking
Finding the strength to say “no” when you should say “no”
Working out and seeing the effect
Staying in bed a little longer on a Saturday
An occasional cigarette when you really want it
Creating. Thought Catalog Logo Mark -
I found this book recently, and I knew that I had to share it with the people of the world, just in case one of you is struggling with the same feelings me, my friend, and millions of other people are struggling with.
100 Reasons to Keep on Living:
Sunrises and sunsets.
The sound of a baby’s laugh.
Watching someone talk about something they’re passionate about.
The first snowfall of the season.
The smell of artificial watermelon.
Fresh baked cookies.
Shooting stars.
Stepping on crunchy leaves.
Splashing in puddles.
Traveling the world.
Your future children, pets, spouses, or friends.
The feeling of being held in someone’s arms.
New books by your favorite authors.
Christmas lights.
The one influential person in your life that has helped you through everything.
The way dogs gets excited to see you when you come home from a long day of school or work.
Smiles on other people’s faces.
The warmth of sunshine on your skin.
The smell of coffee.
Sitting in a warm house or by a fire with a really good book.
Decorating the Christmas tree.
The chill that racks through your body when you’ve accomplished something you’re proud of.
Clumsy first kisses.
The warmth and smell of fresh laundry.
Music.
Compliments and praise.
The feeling your heart has when you see your crush.
The sound of good laughter.
Your support system (because they would be broken and lost without you).
The feeling of someone paying attention to you - the one that makes you feel safe and loved.
The movies that you leave you speechless after you walk out of the theater.
The feeling you get after you pee for the first time in hours.
The first day of spring when you can finally see the green grass peeking out of the snow and everything feels more hopeful.
Puppy kisses.
Baby kisses (the open mouthed kind when they smack their lips on your cheek).
Swear words and the release you feel when you say them.
Trampolines.
Ice cream.
Stargazing.
Cloud watching.
Taking a shower and then sleeping in clean sheets.
Receiving thoughtful gifts.
“I saw this and thought of you."
The feeling you get when someone you love says, “I love you."
The relief you feel after crying.
Sunshine.
The feeling you get when someone is listening to you/giving you their full attention.
Your future wedding.
Your favorite candy bar.
New clothes.
Witty puns.
Really good bread.
Holding your child in your arms for the first time.
Completing a milestone (aka going to college, graduating college, getting married, getting your dream job.)
The kind of dreams where you wake up and can’t stop smiling.
The smell before and after it rains.
The sound of rain against a rooftop.
The feeling you get when you’re dancing.
The person (or people) that mean the most to you. Stay alive for them.
Trying out new recipes.
The feeling you get when your favorite song comes on the radio.
The rush you get when you step onto a stage.
You have to share your voice and talents and knowledge with the world because they are so valuable.
Breakfast in bed.
Getting a middle seat in the movie theater.
Breakfast for dinner (because it’s so much better at night than in the morning).
Meaningful sex.
Forgiveness.
Water balloon fights.
Orgasms.
Fireflies.
Birthdays.
Realizing that someone loves you.
Spending the day with someone you love.
Spending the whole day in bed.
Eating a whole pint of your favorite ice cream.
Floating in water on your back and just staring up at the sky.
First dates (even the bad ones make for funny stories.)
Bonfires and s'mores.
Relationships where you love someone but aren’t in love with them.
Coming home to someone you love.
The color of autumn leaves when they change.
Summer.
Singing songs at the top of your lungs with your friends.
Cuddling.
Being wrapped up in a warm bed.
Someone’s skin against yours.
Holding hands.
The kind of hugs when you can feel a weight being lifted off your shoulders. The kind of hug where your breath syncs with the other person’s, and you feel like the only two people in the world.
Singing off key with your best friends.
Road trips.
Spontaneous adventures.
The feeling of sand beneath your toes.
The feeling when the first ocean wave rolls up and envelops your toes and ankles and knees.
Thunderstorms.
Your first (or hundredth) trip to Disneyland.
The taste of your favorite food.
The child-like feeling you get on Christmas morning.
The day when everything finally goes your way.
You have to be alive to see the world become a better place (because I’m so hopeful that it will). -
Ig all of those are some good reasons...I just don't think things are gonna get better, but I will try to get through it and I see that there are reasons to still live
Thanks for helping me and I'll try to resist doing anything bad to myself. I'll try to think positive
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